Ira's convo with Anandi today

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Posted: 12 years ago

Shocked at Ira's convo with Anandi saying she doesnt need to do anything for Sanchi ,Ira herself will make breakfast for her.. This is after Anandi saying she made Sanchi's fav naashta. Thats so downright rude 😲 and Anandi just looked at her without reacting.. Height of mahaanta. Any self respecting woman have thrown the plate and glass down and walked off. Really too much 😡

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Nandita

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Posted: 12 years ago

not only that ira anandi 's convo was so much boring and repetitive...from the last one week they are showing similar kind of situation among ira , sanchi and anandi...no creativity in it...is anandi has no other work except preparing break fast for Sanchi???...BV makers have just lost their brain...🤢they should change their script writer...😡

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Posted: 12 years ago

I did not find Ira rude, she was quite stern and firm that anandi need not bother about sanchi. Anandi should not care about sanchi because she wanted ganga to be the bride and that had happened. So why bothering now, Sanchi;s mother is there. And self respect is not hampered if you try to maintain family peace, and do some thing for famly members. We today;s so called modern woman in the name of independence forgets that as a woman our first responsibility is to bind a family. So some times ignorance to self respect is not bad. And some time our independent mind becomes so strong, we break our relationship resulting to a divorce. I am not saying to support extreme type of abuse but small compromises help to build up your ties in a marriage. For me, the term 'separation' is the last word.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012
I did not find Ira rude, she was quite stern and firm that anandi need not bother about sanchi. Anandi should not care about sanchi because she wanted ganga to be the bride and that had happened. So why bothering now, Sanchi;s mother is there. And self respect is not hampered if you try to maintain family peace, and do some thing for famly members. We today;s so called modern woman in the name of independence forgets that as a woman our first responsibility is to bind a family. So some times ignorance to self respect is not bad. And some time our independent mind becomes so strong, we break our relationship resulting to a divorce. I am not saying to support extreme type of abuse but small compromises help to build up your ties in a marriage. For me, the term 'separation' is the last word.

i agree with you @reshmiroy...there is a reason why definition of heaven was given as Indian wife, Chinese food, American salary and British house (hope i got it right)...i find nowadays celebrity divorces very silly...no offence to anyone but they just don't have patience to tolerate few wrongs of their partner...why do they marry so rashly then?...marriage has become kind of try and test your partner thing...let's get married to see if we can tolerate each other for whole life...i feel ananid should not bother with saanchi for some different reason here...it's not about ganga but if saanchi is continuously rude with you and you are getting scolded by people you try to help then stop it...it doesn't look like anyone cares what anandi is doing and what she is not...she now at least needs to stop trying to please everyone and specially saanchi...just accept that saanchi and she can just maintain a nanad-bhabhi relation by name and not feelings or emotions...she need not be friendly and gel with everyone...when all this finishes just ask saanchi to stay cordial...

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012
I did not find Ira rude, she was quite stern and firm that anandi need not bother about sanchi. Anandi should not care about sanchi because she wanted ganga to be the bride and that had happened. So why bothering now, Sanchi;s mother is there. And self respect is not hampered if you try to maintain family peace, and do some thing for famly members. We today;s so called modern woman in the name of independence forgets that as a woman our first responsibility is to bind a family. So some times ignorance to self respect is not bad. And some time our independent mind becomes so strong, we break our relationship resulting to a divorce. I am not saying to support extreme type of abuse but small compromises help to build up your ties in a marriage. For me, the term 'separation' is the last word.

very valid.. but whatever you say applies to Ira also. Anandi was only trying to be normal by doing something routine as making sanchi's breakfast. Ira as an older woman need not put her down by saying not to do anything for her daughter. Is tehre no value for anandi's efforts?

I am neither ultra modern nor young - but in a family with single kitchen if someone says you neednt do , I will do for my daughter - its definitely not a "binding" attitude - it will only create seperation / distance.

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Nisha

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Posted: 12 years ago

Throwing tantrums doesn't get one anywhere. Why should Anandi have to throw stuff. We all know Ira and Sanchi are so self involved that they don't care to take care of other things...so should everyone act the same? Why should Anandi do the same...she and Meenu are the only ones who are sane..they don't need to join the crowd. AND Self-respect doesn't mean that you can't understand someone's pain...doesn't mean that you show how you wont take their OTD...in troubled times taking care of family makes you a person that people will look upto when all's done. As it takes a lot to handle difficult situations.

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Jan50

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Posted: 12 years ago

It is a pity Ira is wallowing in self pity and bitterness. I agree with people saying Anandi is alright

Not hrowing he plate and stooping to Ira's level. CM had an inkling of such behaviour fro Ira,

And cautioned Sanchi to hold her ground. That was a sane advise. If they dont want breakfast made by her then stay away. Dont say anything. Try not to come in contact with them. But when here is a

Chance to speak her mind she should.

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Cherry

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Posted: 12 years ago

I don't understand why always Anandi is shown with a tray & a glass!🥱Please CVs remember that she is Anandi!

Edited by Cool-n-Fresh - 12 years ago

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hooked

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Posted: 12 years ago

What wud I do if someone doesn't want me to serve them ? AND I know they won;'t starve since their mom is right there in the house ?

Well - I wud say - "Oh ! I thought you might be hungry, wud you like me to leave it here or shud I take it away ?" - when I'd taken the tray to her room.

And I WUD HAVE taken the tray back to the kitchen if Sanchi said so.

As for IRA - when she says - please don't bother about Sanchi - I'm taking care of her - I's probably say - Sure ! If there's anything you need from me - please let me know. and I WUD walk out of the kitchen with a polite smile and my head held high.

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But then - I'm not Anandi. Coz I wud have told Shiv and Ira everythign as it kept happening so that there were no surprises that cud blast in my face. The personality that is Anandi, is an alien to me. I have never yet - met such self effacing people who can only see the good in others and can not just explain away their bad behaviour, they can also justify it.

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#10

ANANDI IS A DOORMAT

Superbly summed👏

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