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Posted: 12 years ago
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When Shiv came to the show, we all fell in love with his behaviour and his principles.

But we forgot that even tho he works for the public, he has always lived a life of affluence, always got what he wants. Always been able to fulfil all his sister's wishes. Never seen real hardships. All his great principles are just theoretical, since he never had to practice them before.

But today, when it came to test his your-family-is-my-family type of sweet husband principles, he turned out to a loser like them all.

Go jump in a lake, you fake.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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its not like dat if it was he would hve lft immediatly wid shekhar's but he waited for min n den lft... it mns giving eye msg to anandi dat m waiting for u...

n he is also a bro... he is still man of principals... n dis is hw ny bro wll react my bro had slapped 4 - 5 slaps... coz dat gurl tried to hit me... bro he just being concerned n caring...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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well said
shiv n entire family are same kind

now entire shekhar gang will make anandi's life hell
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't like Shiv behavior yesterday and today.Yes he turned out to a loser like them al.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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i knew people will not like shiv today...but at this momet he is very disturbed & angry once he gets some space ad time he will apologise to anandi😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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This reminds me of a scene from Kunal Khemu starrer flick Blood Money where he says that We are good as long as we don't get a chance to be bad. And when I got a chance, I did what everyone else would have done...
It is very easy to preach others to have prefer what is right over blood relationships. But when the choice comes to you yourself, relationships somewhat blind you off. Shiv lecturing people who did bad deeds for their families' sake or those who covered up the bad deeds of their family members seemed so fake when he just stopped Jagdish from explaining the reason for him breaking the engagement and mentioning that this didn't give him the right to ruin his sister's life.
Did he have any sort of guarantee that what Saanchi said in front of her friends was a lie and what she told them was the truth? There have been quite a few instances of her lying to them and all got easily ignored before his loving sister's tears (genuine, crocodile, whatever).
Just because it was "his" sister under the scanner, all principles flew out of the window about values, woman emancipation, right-or-wrong or as simple as listening to everyone's side of the story.
I will not say that I never expected this from him because we have never seen him react to a situation where he had to choose between the happiness of a family member and welfare of someone not so close.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikkie

This reminds me of a scene from Kunal Khemu starrer flick Blood Money where he says that We are good as long as we don't get a chance to be bad. And when I got a chance, I did what everyone else would have done...

It is very easy to preach others to have prefer what is right over blood relationships. But when the choice comes to you yourself, relationships somewhat blind you off. Shiv lecturing people who did bad deeds for their families' sake or those who covered up the bad deeds of their family members seemed so fake when he just stopped Jagdish from explaining the reason for him breaking the engagement and mentioning that this didn't give him the right to ruin his sister's life.
Did he have any sort of guarantee that what Saanchi said in front of her friends was a lie and what she told them was the truth? There have been quite a few instances of her lying to them and all got easily ignored before his loving sister's tears (genuine, crocodile, whatever).
Just because it was "his" sister under the scanner, all principles flew out of the window about values, woman emancipation, right-or-wrong or as simple as listening to everyone's side of the story.
I will not say that I never expected this from him because we have never seen him react to a situation where he had to choose between the happiness of a family member and welfare of someone not so close.

👍🏼...perfect and i like the thought in blue
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shiv was an unrealistic character for me from day one. Falling for a rural girl and a divorcee was a bit indigestible. Let's blame it on jawani, hormones etc. Anandi continues to be in close touch with Jagya and Shiv doesn't find anything wrong with it. J and A meet at a coffee shop and Shiv doesn't even blink. How can any husband not feel uncomfortable when his wife's ex-husband is marrying his sister. Yuck. I am probably the only one who never liked Shiv's character. I like Sid, but not the character he is playing.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikkie

This reminds me of a scene from Kunal Khemu starrer flick Blood Money where he says that We are good as long as we don't get a chance to be bad. And when I got a chance, I did what everyone else would have done...

It is very easy to preach others to have prefer what is right over blood relationships. But when the choice comes to you yourself, relationships somewhat blind you off. Shiv lecturing people who did bad deeds for their families' sake or those who covered up the bad deeds of their family members seemed so fake when he just stopped Jagdish from explaining the reason for him breaking the engagement and mentioning that this didn't give him the right to ruin his sister's life.
Did he have any sort of guarantee that what Saanchi said in front of her friends was a lie and what she told them was the truth? There have been quite a few instances of her lying to them and all got easily ignored before his loving sister's tears (genuine, crocodile, whatever).
Just because it was "his" sister under the scanner, all principles flew out of the window about values, woman emancipation, right-or-wrong or as simple as listening to everyone's side of the story.
I will not say that I never expected this from him because we have never seen him react to a situation where he had to choose between the happiness of a family member and welfare of someone not so close.

hats off for the comment 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shiv is a very popular character and a lot of people will disagree with me but what the heck - I gotta say it anyway 😆😳

In my eyes, Shiv has always been a too good to be true character. He was projected as Anandi's prince charming, her knight in shining armour. Sadly he has proven himself to be cosmetic.

Forget Sanchi for a moment, let's just look at Shiv not as a brother but as a husband. All his anger at Jagya aside - what happened to his principles and his values when it came down to his wife? He failed to defend his wife on two occasions - the first was when Sanchi pushed her out of the way and referred to J as her ex husband. And the second time was when Ira told Anandi that she must choose. He failed to stand up for his wife on BOTH occasions.

I don't buy any argument to justify his behaviour. It doesn't matter if he was concerned for Sanchi or angry at that moment. I would've expected Shiv to take a stand for his wife and he chose not to. Now what is the point in having morals and values when they are never used at the right moment and for the right people?
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