Why Jagya,why not gauri?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why only Jagya needs to close the chapter of his and gauri's relation?I am thinking for two days but am not able to get the answer.So I just want to know the answer.

While reading many posts I got to know that some people thinks Jagya has made Gauri like the way she is.Gauri is getting sympathies because she was once upon a time a good girl.People are not satisfied with his redemption.They want more.They want that Jagya should try and solve the issues with Gauri.But why jagya is bound to do all that.Plz,don't involve what he has done to anandi because he was wrong there,so no discussion is required in that case.

Jagya told lies to Gauri.Gauri got to know that by herself,though jagya wrote a letter to her revealing all his truth,unfortunately she couldn't read the letter.But we know jagya told the truth to her before she started her investigation.When Gauri knew the truth neither she was married nor she had any kind of majboori of staying with Jagya.Jagya loved her so started convincing her,his convincing was genuine because he was almost dying.So she got covinced after a few time.After that Jagya was always honest in his relation with gauri.They got married.Jagya was not ready to keep any relation with his family and didn't have the guts to face them.But even after jagya's refusal she was adament to meet the family and was even expecting that they will accept her.What was she,dumb!!!She didn't have an iota of sympathy for anandi,never,ever.She was so proud to do such a huge mistake.She literally expected that singhs will ask anandi to get lost and welcome gauri with open arms.That was very funny.She knew anandi was getting hurt but she was showing her laadpyar to jagya intentionally to make anandi uncomfortable.Who does that!You have done a mistake lady,kuch to sharam karo!

She agreed to the lawyer and tried to convince jagya to malign anandi's character.Thank god,jagya had little conscience left in him unlike gauri.She was so happy hearing anandi eloped with shravan.The challenge she gave to sumitra was pathetic.After that challenge each and everytime she loved jagya or talk to him politely only to keep him with herself to win the challenge.When anandi visited mumbai,her pizza talk was stupid.Her acting of fainting and jagya taking care of her was disgusting.How disgusting this woman is that she put all the blame on anandi of her miscarriage.And the 'De day'.All her truth was out but she didn't have any shame,no sorry,no repent,ulta she was proudly mocking him ke aab kya karega ye ma ka laadla.She didn't even care.Phir bhi she had a golden heart once upon a time.Jagya ne jaab galti ki thi taab kya gauri ayi thi sorry bol ne!No.Then when its gauri's fault why she is not coming.Jagya realized his fault and went to say sorry but she rejected him and insulted him by making him sit outside for so many hours.If she was not ready to meet her she could have said that.But no she had to take the revenge.But remember she was not that bad in her college days.Jagya is trying to be a good person.But wo kaafi nehin.But gauri ne kuch nehin kiya,having a golden heart thousand years ago is enough.Mistakes was from both of them.I will say gauri did much more mistakes even devilish deeds after her marriage.But jagya ne jhoot kaha,jiske liye maafi mangte mangte wo marte marte bacha hai,phir bhi for that mistake for which he got maafi from her instantly he should do everything.

Gauri was always portrayed as a negative character.Jagya was not.Cv's tried to make him evil after anjum's exit but not more than three weeks.Those three weeks were beyond pathetic.They probably thought that shashank ka kya hai kuch bhi karwao kar lega.Main lead ko villain banao.Jo marji wo karwao.Do teen weeks ke liye gayab hi kardo he will not say anything.Shashank ne kiya bhi.Because that actor literally believed that he will get the opportunity to explore his acting.I just hate shashank's this kind of thoughts.

Anyways,they didn't show what happened to gauri so we should not pressume her as negative!Is it!But cv's clearly showed that Gauri was not interested to meet jagya even when he went to meet her,jagya even wrote a letter to her,she didn't give the answer.Probably,this time also,she didn't get the letter.But she was a not a bad girl,mind it.On the contrary,cv's r showing that Jagya is a changed man but we still doubt his repentance and redemption.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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One more thing I want to mention,Jagya and gauri's marriage was illegal.To legally divore can't happen.Jagya doesn't know she is pregnant.He will never imagine that gauri will conceal this from him.After visiting gauri last and writing letter to her he understood gauri hates him,doesn't want to meet him,she doesn't want to see his face,even she is not interested to give the answer of his letter.So its over from her side.If gauri is not interested in talking to him then how can he close the relation.Why should he care,when she don't care.

She insulted his family,she concealed that bapusa has provided the money for her education.She never tried to reveal it to him and was hell bent to conceal it.She was the reason of his child's death.No one can deny that jagya loved his child more than gauri's love for her child.Her child was dead phir bhi usko jhoot bolne se phursat nehi mili.He put all the blame on anandi.Most of us do khitpit,shouting,irritating,with our mother,father,brother,sister(not in sanchi way) but most of us do it.But if somebody else even tries to do anything to our dear ones we can't handle ourselves.Its human nature.Jagya ne apni fanpmily ke saath bohut bura kiya,I am not defending him but can understand why he was so angry on gauri.He got to know everything was lie,her love and affection was a lie to win the challenge.The way she used to insult her due to her job was also because of his father's favour.Her child's death happened because of her.How can he think of living with her anymore when he knows her love was not true only acting to win the challenge!



Edited by shankythebest - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree with all your points. A highly educated woman will never behave the way Gauri did.

But we must not forget that her purpose in this serial was only to cause a breakup of a child marriage. So CVs portrayed her character accordingly.

In real life, such things will never happen. A highly qualified doctor, a confident independent woman will never feel insecure about anything.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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what you said is one of the reasons i have now forgiven Jagya and feel really bad for what Dadisa is doing with him
Gauri has actually suffered the least in all this child marriage fiasco
she was not even Balika Vadhu...she was lucky to have escaped and got educated and become a mbbs but look at her manners...she intentionally mixed Bhairon's help with her misconception of showing themselves mahaan...people say that since she married Jagya it was her right to become DIL of Singh family but she wanted everything easily...Gauri never thought how Anandi was feeling and because she was never able to understand Anandi's position she was never able to get the respect she wanted...and the truth is she can go to any length to show herself as winner...she was ready to degrade Anandi and instead of trying to bring things back to normal b/w Singhs and Jagya she separated them more...after looking at Shiv-Anandi-Jagya today i feel Gauri's drama was more because she was insecure and she never had faith in her relationship with Jagya...i do not blame her but if she had lost the trust in Jagya but than why did she agree to marry Jagya?...why not explain him that what he did has made her lose the faith in him and no use of keeping a trust less relationship
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shankythebest

One more thing I want to mention,Jagya and gauri's marriage was illegal.To legally divore can't happen.Jagya doesn't know she is pregnant.He will never imagine that gauri will conceal this from him.After visiting gauri last and writing letter to her he understood gauri hates him,doesn't want to meet him,she doesn't want to see his face,even she is not interested to give the answer of his letter.So its over from her side.If gauri is not interested in talking to him then how can he close the relation.Why should he care,when she don't care.

She insulted his family,she concealed that bapusa has provided the money for her education.She never tried to reveal it to him and was hell bent to conceal it.She was the reason of his child's death.No one can deny that jagya loved his child more than gauri's love for her child.Her child was dead phir bhi usko jhoot bolne se phursat nehi mili.He put all the blame on anandi.Most of us do khitpit,shouting,irritating,with our mother,father,brother,sister(not in sanchi way) but most of us do it.But if somebody else even tries to do anything to our dear ones we can't handle ourselves.Its human nature.Jagya ne apni fanpmily ke saath bohut bura kiya,I am not defending him but can understand why he was so angry on gauri.He got to know everything was lie,her love and affection was a lie to win the challenge.The way she used to insult her due to her job was also because of his father's favour.Her child's death happened because of her.How can he think of living with her anymore when he knows her love was not true only acting to win the challenge!



i never want Jagya to go back to Gauri...Gauri and Jagya just bring out each other's negative point and that's proven now.
Jagya at least have the humanity to go and say sorry...it was Gauri's ego that she did not even came out as if she was the victim and it was all Jagya's fault and for those who think Jagya should have brought Gauri to make her apolozige to Singh family...i doubt Gauri would have ever done it...bring happiness in Jagya and her relation was a mere challenge for her and she had proven when she was shoving off her win on Sumitra's photo and by saying sorry to Singh family she would have lost the challenge...she could have challenged Sumitra that yes your son will come back to you but with me and not without me but for her either Jagya will stay with her or with Singh family
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Posted: 12 years ago
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just because gauri show pity on jagya during rain night so gauri has got all right to hurt anandi singh family jagya without any reason ????? and gauri doing numerous mistakes should not be hurted by anyone??she should be treated like queen victoria inspite of doing great mistake by her ?? . everybody means dadisa jagya singh family should ask forgiveness from gauri but gauri should not ask forgiveness from singh family especially from bhairon and from anandi ?????? after all gauri self respect is very much great .if she ask forgiveness then her self respected will not be hurted ? rest others like bhairion anandi jagya self respect go to hell ??

jagya was wrong at that time when he spoke lies to gauri for five years but he dont show attitude at that time to gauri when gauri got angry on him instead he accept his mistake and say sorry to gauri
but in marriage time jagya was not at all wrong .gauri is only wrong and instead feeling sorry she was showing attitude which make jagya more angry that is why jagya left her(right decision by jagya)

now jagya has ask forgiveness from everyone even from gauri( which i do not want that jagya should ask forgiveness from gauri but unfortunately it happened) now gauri does not want to meet him then it is gauri fault not jagya fault

jagya redemption is complete and his redempetion is true .jagya redempetion showing again and again to prove jagya really improving or not is not required .now he truly change for good he has right to start new and happy life

now it is turn of gauri to ask forgiveness to redeem not jagya
Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Gauri will return for sure but not to redeem, she will return to create problem in jagya's life.Because repent or sorry was not in the character of gauri.Cvs are showing it clearly that gauri hasn't changed at all.

I can't accept jagya and gauri together.If they get together it will be wrong.After destroying so many things and after creating so many problems they csn't be live happily ever after.They should not have a happy handing.If cvs have shown Jagya anandi marriage is wrong and broke the beautiful pair then they are bound to show that jagya gauri marriage because this marriage was more than wrong.Gauri can redeem though I don't think she can because cvs had no intentions to redeem her,but she can't end up with jagya.Jagya,anandi and gauri are destined to lead separate life.They will not do anything good by living with each other.If someone say that jagya gauri can end up together after witnessing thousands of obstacles then I will say cvs could have shown JAAN together after facing obstacles.If they haven't shown jaan together then they also can't show Jagya and gauri together.

Edited by shankythebest - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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gauri will create problem in jagat life than its going to be mess...i would like to see gauri as indepedent girl not running after jagat...its enuff with girls falling for one boy drama...now its gauri turn to realise her mistake...

a nice msg should be given to society its better to be alone than entering into any wrong relationships...i hope this from gauri character...when its come to jagya he is not upto my xpectations...his redemption will only only complete when he will actually learn the beautiful relation of marriage...
Edited by shalluuu - 12 years ago

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