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Posted: 12 years ago
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One word for today's episode - Fantastic!!

As Suchi said in her thread the BV CVs (and IMHO the BEST team on Indian television since last few years!) are indeed BACK and HOW!!! Take a bow! 👏

My response in points below:

- So the Jaggu dada scene was for real! Shabaash!!! I was impressed by his dialogue on hypocrisy of society and his own family towards males and females. Aaannnd!!!! I felt ecstatic when he named Anandi and Sugna as examples for girls getting married for second time!!

As Bhairon rightly said, "Aaj mera beta garv karne layak ho gaya!"

Keep it up Jaggu!! Please don't go bad again! 👏

The look on hypocrite Sumitra's face and a re-awakened, proud DS' face was PRICELESS in that scene! EPIC!! ⭐️

- BHAIRON MENTIONING GAURI!!!:

I used to taunt them so much for behaving like Gauri does not exist! Thank God Bhairon clearly said today that had their marriage not been illegal they would have had to get Jagya divorced from Gauri before even thinking of Jagya's remarriage! They DID NOT FORGET to highlight importance of the LAW! Good! 👏

I loved how Bhairon countered DS and said that if we think of Jagya as someone who made a mistake at a young age then we should think of Gauri the same way as she was also of the same age when they both did what they did! This is THE Bhairon we all love and are proud of! Welcome back Bapusa! 👍🏼

I was happy to see him skeptical, reflective and willing to give a chance to Gauri! I hope he carries that thought further and resolves that angle before embarking on Jagya's new life mission! That's because unresolved chapters in past led to the sufferings they all had to go through! That's like a practical dad at last! 👏

- The heart to heart convo between CM and Anandi about the family and especially Sanchi was good. It's nice CM clarified everything patiently instead of getting offended. She is a zilion times more sensible than that Ira!

- The portrayal of HYPOCRISY towards WOMEN and Women being Women's OWN Worst enemies:

- That foolish kaki again showed pics of underage girls to DS proving how society refuses to change no matter how much sense you want to drive into them. I am happy DS again put it aside!

- Kaki tells about a girl's divorce while showing her pic to DS. Whereas while showing Jagya's pic to a girl's family she only praises him to no ends and says God put no flaw in this boy!!
She does not say a word about his divorce, let alone the rest of his stormy past! (We all know what society must've done if a girl had had a life like Jagya's!) 😲

- Sanchi continues to doubt Anandi and reflects her jealousy and feeling of being slighted by Anandi's qualities as suspicion on her! 😡

It just shows how girls feel insecure of their position at home upon arrival of a bhabhi. It is a natural but very sad reality.

Jagya is polite to her because she is a part of Anandi's in-laws. And she thinks Jagya's spotless and that it is Anandi who must have been at fault for their divorce!

Anandi's goodness and social work are drama to her?! What a crooked way of looking at things as a woman! 🤢

Okay! Anandi fooled Singhs, Jagya, Shiv, Shekhars and the WHOLE village of Jetsar! But this Sanchi should remember that even the Chief Minister of Rajasthan honoured and praised Anandi! Did Anandi also fool the CM of the State with her "drama" if one goes by Sanchi's silly logic?! 🤪

BV did a nice job of showing women's own hypocrisy towards their own kind tonight. A man can start on a clean slate but a woman will forever be judged for her past even if she moves on, is accepted by her husband and has done a lot to show herself as virtuous! Worst is that the first to point fingers at her would be women themselves?! Very sad reality of our world!!!

- Sanchi AGAIN put that fickle Ira in doubt when she came to guide her!

Partly it is Ira's fault for not talking politely and softly about his matter with her daughter (who she has spoilt rotten!) and for not giving her right examples to make her understand the situation. If I were in her place I'd have asked Sanchi what she would do if she had had a life like Anandi's and others kept doubting her despite no mistake of hers!

Shekhars have not taught even a bit of empathy to Sanchi!

Ira instead fell in doubt again when Sanchi said we have heard Anandi's side of the story and not Jagya's! Maybe she has a point but continuing to use this as a point to forever be suspicious of Anandi and be hostile towards her is not justified at all! 🤢

This is also one reason why I want Gauri's character to be back so that Ira and Sanchi know that Jagya had indeed left Anandi and hat she or Singhs are not lying at all! 😕

I really want CVs to resolve this Sanchi creating suspicion issue before she wreaks more havoc in Anandi's life and her relationship with Shiv and Shekhar family. 😡

Shekhars should tackle her like a kid instead of scolding her when she barks about Anandi! Or else her frustration at Anandi will only go on increasing!

ALL in all, a very satisfying episode from BV on showing social realities and problems within families wherein people keep getting uncomfortable with each other despite the ties that bind them. No superficial trash, the episode gave us a lot to chew on and ruminate about!

Good going!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Goood I am glad you feel this way ... I thought the same too. I think its important.. to show this side of Sanchi and it adds to the story warna it will be very very boring.

You cannot show the change of a character unless situations are shown that emphasize that change.

If Jagya would have not truly changed.. he would just yelled at Sanchi and ignored her stupidity rather he tackled her well.

After a long time I am praising him for his good actions and I hope this continues :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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100 % agree with each and every word of topic .bhairon singh thinks logically jagya thinking to marry to divorcee , a very high thinking of jagya and more over ira did a best job today .now she does not believe blindly her daughter
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Posted: 12 years ago
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You know Suchi? After ages I have actually loved what Jagya did or said and felt like applauding him!

His good samaritan acts were fine but he was always weak in matters of family, relationships and women. He never really countered his over-pampering DS or mom. But this is the first time I have seen him behaving with sanity, countering their blind love, pointing their hypocrisy and doing it all on his own without being egged on by a Bapusa, Anandi, Ganga or Lal Singh!

He is learning to switch on his sanity button himself. And this is one much awaited development which should NOT be reversed at all!

I'll sue BV if they keep making him a gunda again! If he is reforming then let him do so for good and be an agent of change in his family. Let him be Bhairon's adarsh beta than a pampered, weak character laadesar!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wonderful post skepblun.👏 Agree 120 percent with everything you wrote. Yes i will also join
You in suing Bv if they turn J negative again.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Skepblun! Could not agree more of what you have written here...Thanks you for such a wonderful post!

You have touched each and every point that I was thinking about...CVs indeed did a very good job here today...showed how hypocritical the society is!This is exactly what is happening...and it is true not only in small villages but also with most of the people who think themselves to be "Modern" and "Open"...Today after ages I liked Jagya...thanks to CVs his dialogues were on the dot...

Sanchi and her antiques...🤪

CM and A's interaction was ⭐️

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post Skepblun. Finally Jagya started showing some traits of Bhairon.👏 He really looks like a changed person. BS was also very good. I like they are discussing about Gauri.
Sanchi is desperately trying to act like an adult. And Shekhars treat her like a child. That irritates her further. She doesn't know anything about Anandi-Jagya's past. These days, J looks like a true gentleman,mature and nice. So it is natural for Sanchi to doubt Anandi. But what is not natural is, the way parents deal with Sanchi. She is not a small child. They should explain things to her. Suppose, even if it is Anandi's fault, Jagya should have obtained a divorce before getting into live-in/marriage relationship with another woman. So whoes fault is evident? From the very fact that J-G marriage happened before J-A divorce, it is clear that J was responsible for it. Ira - Sanchi scenes look like Ira is child and Sanchi is mom !!!!
With this type of parenting and with Sanchi's attitude, I think, the girl is going to land up in big trouble.
Anandi-CM convo was good. Anandi feels at home with CM. They bond well.
Overall the story is progressing positively.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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What intrigues me the most after watching BV and the women in it...is that do we as women ever behave normal or balanced?

Women are forever "examining" other women (like how Singhs are in curious mode about Ganga and Shekhars still score Anandi whether she's good or bad). They seem to take a lot of time to trust other women and quit feeling "threatened" or suspicious of them.

Amazing how women seem to think men must be too malleable and naive, that they got almost fooled, molded or hypnotised by another woman! (Gauri and Sanchi accused Anandi of "phasao-ing" Jagya and Shiv, even CM was initially very wary of Anandi and her character, Ira is in two minds about her and it is still easy to make her doubt Anandi, DS toh judged every woman be it Basant's first wife or Ganga! Sumitra and DS were judgemental of Gauri.)

Womankind can get SO jealous and insecure of each other? It's not like TV shows exaggerate it. It is sadly true...to quite a large extent.

I wonder if women are even normal to each other!

It's a pity that even for atrocities faced by women, other women blame the female victim herself; making their own conspiracy theory!

And women like that Kaki are so shameless that for money they continue to get little girls married off to men old enough to be their uncles? All that Kaki cared for is the demad and supply! Thinks only from customer POV and never as a human or a woman! Despicable how women feed the same system that robs their kind of their dignity!

Then we have women who doubt men or live in certain doubts/fears. The way Anandi was. It took a long time for her to trust Shiv or consider marriage.

I get very curious! Are women ever normal? Do their issues stem from their lack of belief in themselves? Why do they feel some other woman will turn their own mother or family against them? Or some man will hurt them (if they are scared or doubtful of relationships with men)? Why they choose to doubt their own kind?

I have not seen a balanced woman in a TV serial at least. And in real life I've seen even educated women pass snide remarks a each other, scoff at single or divorced women or those who have problem conceiving or those who seem to have it all perfect! (I am just giving examples of how women do find some excuse or the other to be bitchy with other women!)

At workplace, home, neighbourhood - anywhere women seem to be their kind's own worst enemies. (Or plain man-haters or forever doubtful of men - their nature and intentions! I mean some of them keep a lot of guard around males.)

I see system of partriarchy and having to go to anoher family, make adjustments etc. takes a toll on women. But they are not even happy with a ghar jamai system or if after marriage both man and wife move out of their respective homes and live separately on their own!

(People like Sanchi and Ira would have barked even if AnSh were living on their own, away from both Shekhars & Singhs.)

What's women's problem? Why can't they mind their own business? Why comment on others if they are not even doing anything to you? Why choose plotting or bitching as a defense mechanism for your own jealousy, insecurity and inferiority complex?

P.S. - I would like it if BV explores these issues and comments on them. Better still if they also show role of men in keeping a balance in the family. Likes of Daddu or Shiv or Mahi need not shout at Sanchi, instead work on this gently to help her accept Anandi as a part of the family and be assured that their love for her or her position in the house has not diminished due to arrival of Anandi. Why leave the women all alone to deal with it themselves? )
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Posted: 12 years ago
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👏 👏
Jagya has changed. Let.him stay that way. So happy to read Babusa thought about Gowri.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I had a fantastic dream: Magic BV came back and then I woke up ...😕

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