Gauri's redemption or Jagya's third marriage? - Page 11

yes this insecurity was in her mind thats why jagat promised him that he will never go to anandi,,,,,so she decided to marry her...agar yeh insecurity uske man m nahi hoti to vo kbhi jagat k sach jankar roti nahi...u know very well the scene dear how jagat took her in grip...

jagat ke promise ya kehne se khuchh nahi hota use to gauri ko apni taraf kurna isliye usne yeh baat kahi pur gauri kum se kum ek baar sochna chahiye ki jo apni pehli patni ko chod sakta hai phir mujhe kabhi nahi chodega kya .btw gauri ne kya soch kur shaadi ki thi ki jagya mujhe kabhi nahi chodega .lo jagya ne chod bhi diya aur teesri shadi bhi shayad kur lega

Originally posted by: redapple1

Good post Samvi. I want to see Gauri's redemption track. Whether she will accept Jagya or Jagya accepts her, or Singh's accepts her is not the question here. When characters like dadisa, Basant, Mahavir Singh,Jagya can accept their mistakes and change, why not Gauri? Regarding Jagya's third marriage track I have mixed feelings. He is 26 or 28 already ready for third marriage. 😕 Personally I feel he should be left alone for some time, till he gets over Anandi. But doesn't look that way.

@Samvi and mahi, you should have seen the way I used to bash Gauri when I was a member of another forum. 😆

Rather than a villain, I used to feel she is the biggest fool because she blindly trusted Jagya even when he was giving her elusive answers about his family.

After marriage, that is after she got a clear picture of the legal status of her marriage through bhairo, she told jagya in a temple on her way back that she wanted to end the relationship. But Jagya cried and manipulated her again saying he has no one in his life, asked her not to leave him and she fell into the trap again. That was the time I actually sympathised with her. I felt she was vulnerable. She was not cruel.

In my view, no person is bad... we simply react differently to a situation which depends on our upbringing and past experience. She had a bad experience with singhs in her childhood and had extremely poor parents with no values. As a young girl with no real life experience, she reacted in a way that she thought was right.

Regarding respecting singhs, at the beginning she was trying to win their hearts but they were hostile to her which was also expected.

If she doesn't want jagya back in her life, it is her wish and I respect that, in which case there is no harm in Jagya getting married third time.

But the way Sumitra behaves nowadays is weird. I dont like the way she puts Ganga down each time. So I felt, might be Gauri is the best for them.

hum jagat k promise se kuch nahi hota wo to gauri ko sochna chaiye tha wo kitna ghatiya h aur wo m apni pehli post m keh chuki hu that gauri could be good social msg to all girls who fall in the tricks of man like jagat...if we are educated we have to use our own brain...jagat jaise logo ki baat m nahi aana chaiye...yes wo teesri shaadi karne laga h...kyunki jagat se aur kya xpect kar skte h...i f you think i want jagat gauri reunion forget i am not looking for any reunon...m jagat ko ek responsble person dekhna chati th...now forget...

Originally posted by: shalluuu

hum jagat k promise se kuch nahi hota wo to gauri ko sochna chaiye tha wo kitna ghatiya h aur wo m apni pehli post m keh chuki hu that gauri could be good social msg to all girls who fall in the tricks of man like jagat...if we are educated we have to use our own brain...jagat jaise logo ki baat m nahi aana chaiye...yes wo teesri shaadi karne laga h...kyunki jagat se aur kya xpect kar skte h...i f you think i want jagat gauri reunion forget i am not looking for any reunon...m jagat ko ek responsble person dekhna chati th...now forget...

Shalluu, did yu not see the past episodes, dear? When did he say he wants to marry again? He never wanted to marry again.

It is his family who wanted to see him married. And then his first wife anandi, because she wanted to see his family happy, emotionally blackmailed him.

So why are we blaming jagya and calling him ghatiya?

exactly gauri ko jagya ke baaton mein nahi aana chahiye tha .woh jagya ke baaton mein aayi that is why i stop supporting her .and this third marriage decision is not made by jagya himself .it is ds decision .he is marrying third time due to pressure and for sake of happiness of his family otherwise he is not at all interested in 3 rd marriage and he even say i do not want to ruin third girl life

Originally posted by: Shinya

Shalluu, did yu not see the past episodes, dear? When did he say he wants to marry again? He never wanted to marry again.

It is his family who wanted to see him married. And then his first wife anandi, because she wanted to see his family happy, emotionally blackmailed him.

So why are we blaming blame jagya and calling him ghatiya?

Originally posted by: shalluuu

yes i know very well dear but ultimate decision marrying someone is depend on jagat...we know very well he is ready...cant he force his family that its better to solve old issues and its better if show his responsibly toward old relations fst...if gauri and anandi can live alone why he cant...marriages and wives are like joke for him...

That ultimate decision is his, is correct... but had he not fallen into anandi's trap and agreed to remarry, he would have been called 'selfish', 'not thinking about his family' and blah blah... so whatever the poor fellow does, he gets bashed for it. 😆

I hated anandi's interference in his personal matters and I even called her selfish for that. But now that he has given his word to her and his family, he has to keep it.

ha ha old issue should be solve by jagya only ?? why not by gauri too why do not she meet him in hospital .he try to solve old issue but she did not bother to meet him not even reply his letter