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Posted: 12 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: dixie123

Malika: Your post is reminding me, when the replacement issue started there were probably three sides,
- who wanted Prats back
- who were ok with accepting the change
- people stuck in between.

Now there is a fourth side (set of people from the above 3 sides), people who instigate and make snide/sarcastic remarks adding fuel and making the gap and tension between the sides to increase and hence even peaceful threads turn into war zones and no where on the forum except in oour respective ATs can we have any kind of healthy discussions. That is the sad state of the forum today..


Well coz we have interacted closely at one point of time I am saying this.. all this wouldn't have happened if people were a bit more compassionate. I for one was not even on the AnSh AT on that fateful day.. In fact I never went there after that day.. but I was hurt by the way many of my friends were shoved off the AT. AT of whom they were such an integral part.. AT which they made what it is by their contributions.. I just stopped interacting at that very moment coz I knew that was not a place for me I did not even post a good bye coz I thought it was not worth it. I have my friends with me and who r not with me never cared for me.

I donno in which category u put me.. but for me there r only two categories as of now.. like-minded people whom I want to interact with and others.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#42
BTW, what about the (hidden) 5th group that sat on the sidelines, not willing to take sides but willing to let the others brawl, as if they were mere bystanders on the road?

Did they have no role to play? I don't think so.
Edited by VerboseG - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#43
I remembered the day when so many people from the AT directed us to leave and from that day I gave divorce to AT and I didn't even think about those who didn't care about my and my friends emotions and they threw us from their PARADISE...
Anyway, I won't give a damn to those and like minded people again in my whole life I've learnt a very big lesson from all those so called friends...
Again I am saying I am the very last person who criticize the looks even I know in show business first people look at your features and figure... But I never care about looks if somebody is promising in performance. Problem is this the character which is so near to me is really deteriorating by "C" class expressions of leading lady, now if I complain about something people will start giving me free advices or will report me... Aray convince me with some solid points...
Alas... 😔
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Posted: 12 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: GoldenDew


Well coz we have interacted closely at one point of time I am saying this.. all this wouldn't have happened if people were a bit more compassionate. I for one was not even on the AnSh AT on that fateful day.. In fact I never went there after that day.. but I was hurt by the way many of my friends were shoved off the AT. AT of whom they were such an integral part.. AT which they made what it is by their contributions.. I just stopped interacting at that very moment coz I knew that was not a place for me I did not even post a good bye coz I thought it was not worth it. I have my friends with me and who r not with me never cared for me.

I donno in which category u put me.. but for me there r only two categories as of now.. like-minded people whom I want to interact with and others.

Sou.. Lot happened those days. As far as I remember nobody shove anybody off the AT. It is sad that many people felt that way. If you are indirectly pointing at me saying I told people to take a break. Yes, I said that and I did clarify later the same day that my intention was not to hurt anybody and it was a friendly advise considering the people to whom I said were my friends and I thought I could be open with them and tell them directly what I felt and probably what I have done if I was in their postition. All the people whom you are saying who got offended were no less themselves. Those who were trying to move on were getting belittled. So, the fact of the matter was people who wanted to move on said something to people who could not move on then we were considered not compassionate. But, the same people were not being understanding of our state either.
I have heard this way too often that people were hounded from the AT and they are not welcome in the AT anymore. I can speak for the ATians. I know nobody feels that way and even today everybody is welcome back. All the names are still there.
@bold: I am not like minded for you because I am willing to accept the change. It is not necessary Sou. Just becauase we differ in our views doesn't mean we should stop being friends. That probably shows how much you considered us friends too.
Btw, I do miss all our interactions. You don't know how many times I have remembered you not only on the AT and even otherwise and believe me I am not saying this for the sake of saying.

Edited by dixie123 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#45
although the nature of this posst was on good intentions, members are talking about prats and toral in the same thread, as well as making comments on other members of the forum and discussing happenings of other threads and quoting it here

all of the above is not allowed hence thread closed

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