WU March 30 - Memories that Tie and Fry!! - Page 2

Thanks for the WU. Lived shiv and daddu conversation. Both actors nailed it. Jagya feeling bad was also really good scene. I am not liking Ganga too much interference in jagya personal life..tidal like jagya I too felt please cv leave this guy alone for sometime without any girl or remarriage. Let jagya have a life on his own. It's better he run away from haveli and lead a single life. Otherwise a filler episode.

Thanks Anjana for the update. My sympathies/empathy with you to bear the ongoing torture.

I do understand that we would have to bear this drag fest so that the new actress can be shown to make a bond with the Singhs. But I was hoping the CVs could have been a little more creative 🥱

Sachi voicing our complaints on the forum, of why so much drama around A leaving her family 😆. Sorry CVs your reply through Daddu's answer was not convincing enough. I am talking from experience since I also moved overseas after living all my life with my parents. We don't deny the sadness but making it overly melodramatic is what is ott.

Nandu was very cute today and Basant so forced to sit awake 😆.

Thanks Anjy for the update,😛

Majanu no -2 🤣

Lol ,and i was thinking that he was majanu no-1 ,😆

And first time i liked Nandu, he was cute while saying awww .after reading ILU from jeejusa.🤣
Kash Dr J could listen this.

@Mahi: To continue our conversation from yesterday, I agree with you on many counts. I don't in anyway justify what was shown yesterday as 'necessary'. But yes since it was shown I could find a positive out of the situation for J. You not being able to see an 'iota' of sense in what I tired to convey through my post is completely understandable since we both are looking at it from different perspectives and its also clear that we both perceive the emotions and situations very differently. That is after all the beauty of the forum where a contradictory POVs help us keep up our objective self.😊 I agree totally with you that given the time and space J will be able to overcome his hurtful feelings. And that's really needed. But the place where we both differ is that you feel J has totally accepted A's new life while I feel that J is still only slowly recognizing the facts. I can give you reasons why I feel this way.

Like I mentioned even in my previous post, the kind of girl A is, its tough for her to be romantically involved with another person. Even after Gauri came into J's life and all that happened to them in the past A continued to have a soft corner for J. Him taking A for granted was largely since he thought she will always continue to love him.

No doubt, that J knows A and S are married. But he also knows under what circumstances A agreed to get married. She married S not out of love or out of need for his comforting self but out of a word given to her mother. Hence its understandable that she will do all her 'duties' of a daughter-in-law or a wife, but that might not be out of love but out of the sense of responsibility given the reasons for her getting married. Hence from where I look at it, it is not natural for J to feel that A has automatically fallen in love with S.

I agree that A need not have gone to lecture J about getting married coz its just not her business at all. But even if we consider her meeting him on account of their childhood friendship, her telling J about her love for S was not in any way her trying to rub salt on his wounds. It did not appear to me that she was being snide in her comment. For A, J never loved her. This is not her imagination but it is what J himself told her while breaking his relationship with her. So if he never loved her, her saying that she loves S will in no way be like rubbing salt on his wounds which for her do not exisist. Even if we consider, A knows that J still feels whatever he feels for her, her comment might appear to me as a bad example but not a deliberate attempt to make him feel bad.

Since I still feel that J is only slowly accepting the facts, his reaction after hearing A's love for S looked like a harsh awakening for him rather than just a gentle reminder.

Although I am against A running for every small thing to the Singhs or J, I also feel that J running in the odd hours of the night to inform A of him going to Mumbai to say sorry to Gauri was also wrong. After all he expected her to handle the situation after him. Why? It was also due to the friendship they once shared. If he shows more faith in her than his family to handle this personal matter of his isn't this also inviting her to meddle in his business? Its all such incidents that make S feel that J will only listen to A since he trusts her a lot.

Anyway we all agree that we are not in favor of A-S-J interactions or for that matter A acting agony aunt to J or the Singhs. She needs to take care of her family and her career while J needs to come out of his past and look at his future (in his own words). So looks like we are now all on the same page...😊

Originally posted by: andv

Thanks Anjana for the update. My sympathies/empathy with you to bear the ongoing torture.

I do understand that we would have to bear this drag fest so that the new actress can be shown to make a bond with the Singhs. But I was hoping the CVs could have been a little more creative 🥱

Sachi voicing our complaints on the forum, of why so much drama around A leaving her family 😆. Sorry CVs your reply through Daddu's answer was not convincing enough. I am talking from experience since I also moved overseas after living all my life with my parents. We don't deny the sadness but making it overly melodramatic is what is ott.

Nandu was very cute today and Basant so forced to sit awake 😆.

:-) Sanchi seemed more reasonable person today 😲 asking right question. I checked google maps to see how far Jaitser is from Udaipur. It is roughly 11 hrs drive. So hopefully after Anandi moves to Udaipur, her visiting Jaitser becomes less and the two tracks in two different places will take place.
Sumitra, Gehna all left their maika and don't talk about their parents lives or siblings. The Singh family have forgotten about their own daughter Suguna. All this melodrama is for Anandi. For next Raksha bandhan it will be so confusing. Who will Sugana tie the rakhi her own bro or Anandi?
Hopefully they close this transfer track next week and spare viewers all the melodrama.

@Shubha: CVs have a totally different google map 😆. They can make an 11 hr distance into half an hour.

My husband had a very serious question about the show, he was asking me, all that happens in the show is one group of people going to another house and back wearing heavy jewelry and clothes. The rest of the time they spend eating, flying kites, celebrating festivals. But the 100$ question is from where do they get the money to survive and lead this extravagant lifestyle? Do any of them work? 😆... He doesn't watch the show but has seen a few clips with me off and on. Unfortunately he thinks this is what I spend my time discussing in the forum . So embarrasing 😆.

Its an irony how none of the women miss their biological parents, including A 😆... Poor Khazan has no clue of this transfer. I hope Udaipur is close to Bilharia. That way she can make visits to her lonely father more often.

Laughing at your husband's comments Anita. My hubby thinks I waste time watching the show. He is like after a hectic day at work, why do you want to watch something depressing where everyone cries for one reason or other. My son wants me to watch so he won't be disturbed while he plays xbox live.
I just tell them I need to watch one hindi show so that I don't forget hindi. I know it is lame reason.

You are right let Bilaharia be near Udaipur, this way Anandi can actually take care of her dad. I understand she is attached to Singhs, but how can any one forget their own parent? Singhs too are acting silly. They seem to have forgotten about their daughter and also pay less attention to their son.
Once Anandi moves away from Jaitser, Jagya's track will pick up in the right direction. I really don't want any romance track for him for next few months. Let him heal first and then next relation.

Originally posted by: redapple1

Laughing at your husband's comments Anita. My hubby thinks I waste time watching the show. He is like after a hectic day at work, why do you want to watch something depressing where everyone cries for one reason or other. My son wants me to watch so he won't be disturbed while he plays xbox live.
I just tell them I need to watch one hindi show so that I don't forget hindi. I know it is lame reason.

You are right let Bilaharia be near Udaipur, this way Anandi can actually take care of her dad. I understand she is attached to Singhs, but how can any one forget their own parent? Singhs too are acting silly. They seem to have forgotten about their daughter and also pay less attention to their son.
Once Anandi moves away from Jaitser, Jagya's track will pick up in the right direction. I really don't want any romance track for him for next few months. Let him heal first and then next relation.

Its so amazing how our respective husbands perceive BV, totally overlooking its essence 😆. Your kid is so cute...

I agree, J needs to heal and feel good from inside its only then that he will be able to keep himself and people around him happy. Don't understand why they have to introduce this marriage track so soon and that too they are all over it