BV WU 25/3...jagiya manao mission!!... - Page 5

Originally posted by: Bubi

Thank you Sheetsden,
You do not have to be rude, I respect everyone's opinion and I expect the same from others. I obviously missed the point of this series. I live in Paris and I wasn't able to get to the right information about the change of lead actress. I still think it's a bad move. For both sides. I just wanted to follow up on a story until the end and I couldn't. I didn't propose the ideas but my opinion, I'm not isulted anyone. I thought that forums exists for changing opinions. In any case, thanks fir the information on Pratyusha, so I will not annoy you using this forum. Goodbye and thanks again!

Originally posted by: dixie123

Esha: I think Shiv said what he said because he cares about Anandi's happiness and he knows she would be unhappy (like all daughters) when her maika wale are unhappy. AnSh were made to involve in this. They didn't do on their own.

I do agree that everybody should back off and give J a bit more to settle down. I think Anandi and Shiv do know the pain of remarriage but then the fact that they both love each other and have found happiness in each other is making them forget the pain they went through. They want the same for Jagya. Although it is difficult, the end result is worth it, is what they are probably trying to tell him.

Originally posted by: Rkalpana

@bold above, I am sorry, I will prefer that first Jagya has to agree to marry, he himself feel that he is ready for another relationship only then the girl shold come in picture. Why do they want a female Shiv? If Jagya does not want to marry, let him remain single till the time he is ready. Haveli people are treating marriage of adult children in the same manner as bal vivah (in bal vivah, opinion of the persons getting married does not matter, just parents decide that the children have to married). As an adult, Jagya has the right to choose when to marry and whom to marry. If elders in family really want his happiness, they should respect his choice.

Originally posted by: faryal-malik

Faryal, he said that he is unable to move on because he is filled with anandi's memories...so I said what about gauri's memories? He lived long enough with gauri to have all kinds of memories with her, the good, bad and ugly ones.so it would be realistic if he didn't mention anandi's name alone..or if he had mentioned both A, G's name in this context.

however, I have concluded in some thread that the CV's could probably focusing on 'Jagya missing Anandi' because they want to make him feel just the way Anandi felt...? They probably want to show all that pain in Jagya too? So now I think it is okay if he has anandi's memories alone. 😕

Originally posted by: sidra08

well you are replying to librocks but i wish to reply to you because we all are having same POV is that girl do need to come to picture first if girl won't come to picture first how Jagaya can really make a choice? he should marry or not? You are not understanding our pov Yes he should remain single till the time he wants to be Family should definitely not force him but girl should come to picture then he will be ready to marry her Without her coming to picture how he can agree to marry ? he cannot marry every girl because there has to be one special person who is understanding to him and remove the barriers of his fears and assure him he can marry her , This marriage will definitely succeed he has found his soul mate in her and he willingly chose to marry her till then these non stop lectures are torture on him They are making him agree ok lets say he agrees what surety they have he will meet that girl ? that girl might not come never then what? won't they break him more then

Why he don't want to marry because neither he thinks he has strength for it and the despair and fear in him that he cannot have a successful married life he cannot be anyone's life partner because this is not his fate so this fear he himself cannot remove neither his family or AnSh with their lecture only that girl can so girl has to come in picture first then meeting her , only she can make him willing to marry her before that how he can agree to marry and to whom ?so necessity of girl coming in picture is important first who has come but no one is looking at her now😆but she must come and then he will be ready to marry her before that how he can ?and who will make him agree and how they will make even how he himself can ?they all are torturing him as of now destroying the little bit happiness he got in his life now by emotionally disturbing him so much They cannot remove his fears which undoubtedly only that girl can remove .The despair that produced this negative feeling in him he won't marry ever only a lot of encouragement from his partner who wishes to marry him only she can do that he himself cannot give him hopes or his family can so girl needs to come to picture first , A soul healer of this broken soul.This is what we are saying

Originally posted by: vidya0000

Thanks for the written update.

What happend in tdy's episode anandhi came and told him u can be a very good life partner jagya. When he was asking for the second chance to correct his mistake she herself chose shiv over jagya.Who, wants her preach now? was he disturbing anandhi and shiv, very hardly he got this stability and peacefullness. Unnecessarily, anandhi and shiv are getting involved on jagya's personal issues and will shout and react through shekhars as such they r not living happily. He doesn't have his family to get convinced? stupid trk 😡 she says i am happy with shiv did he ask her? he knew it he already discussed abt it to ganga. why they all want to check his patience he is also a human being.

Its high time jagya shld speakout his mind to his family members reg. this marriage issue can't they give even a month of time to think over it. Instead of making him strong all the family members are pressurizing him which would lead him to feel more weaker.

CV's add some story to anandhi and shiv instead of getting them involved in jagya's personal issue just becoz they occupied their space in montage. Give some work to other characters also like shyam and suguna which would be worth to watch.

Originally posted by: Rkalpana

@red above, when I said as in bold above, I had Shiv and Anandi in mind. Anandi was not ready to marry, but they found Shiv and forced her to marry. I do not want same situation for Jagya. And the way Ganga is being turned to another Anandi, perhaps they will conveniently 'discover' that suitable girl. It will be left to the girl to make Jagya confortable with the idea of (his yet another) marriage that too after he was forced to marry. And in the process if the girl suffers, it will not be the concern of DS, others in family may show sympathy or some tears (Gahna and Sumitra). They never thought how Shiv/his family will feel and they will never think how the girl (if it is Ganga, she has no family) will feel.

Somehow I still dont believe Jagya. Has he reformed, or he will again show some grey colours? Why Anandi is in his memories? Like someone said in the forum "where were these memories when he was sleeping with Gauri?" He is not a battered soul like Anandi. He was the tormentor in his relationship with Anandi and with Gauri, well both were equal (it is just that while he respected Gauri's parents, she was in revenge mode with his parents). Gauri was also scheming/plotting against his family.

So while I wnat a reformed Jagya to be happy, I dont believe that he is a broken soul and needs a soul healer. He just has to believe in himself and be ready to treat his future wife as soulmate and not some punching bag. He has the example of his father, Shyam and Shiv to know how a husband should behave to make the marriage successful.