Ira's behaviour

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aspbhargavi

@aspbhargavi

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Posted: 12 years ago

I heard so many say they love their daughter/son and daugter -in -law equally ? but do they really? esp when it comes to important matters?

Ira is a good hearted lady..but when it comes to her daughter -in -law not even for 1 sec she thought it may be Shiv's fault ( but of course we viewers know shiv is the best husband in the world)

She immediately thought it is anandi's fault .

I think even in the outside world it is very difficult to see persons who really love their daughter and daughter - in -law equally.. may be CV's are thinking of showing reality( of course I hate it to the core ,I dont want anandi to be sad again..and I really want her to confess to shiv first before she confesses to everybody)

please share your views ..please healthy discussion only..

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chameliTaj

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Posted: 12 years ago

I agree with you. It is extremely rare to see a mother-in-law truly treat her DIL as a daughter. Honestly I'm not sure if that is even possible...because the DIL is the new member of family, it is easiest to lay all the blame on her (coz MILs always think of DIL's as an outsider).

I think BV is trying to show that the saas-bahu relationship takes time to develop and are using Ira as a vehicle to show all the insecurities of a mother-in-law. For example, the whole "is my son becoming more close to the singh's than our own family" etc etc.

I'm ok with showing the insecurities but I would like BV to handle it maturely. The show is all about bringing a change in our society so why not show Ira having trust in her new DIL.

And more than that, how about showing her confidence in her son. They could have shown her inner struggle to want to interfere in Shiv and Anandi's personal life but show her stopping herself by saying that she has a smart, educated, mature son (an IAS officer no less) and he is more than capable of handling his married life.

One the major issues that BV could've brought to light using this scenario is how many parents don't treat their children as adults or trust them to make their own decisions even when the kids are almost 30 and have successfully built a life for themselves.

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aspbhargavi

@aspbhargavi

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: chameliTaj
I agree with you. It is extremely rare to see a mother-in-law truly treat her DIL as a daughter. Honestly I'm not sure if that is even possible...because the DIL is the new member of family, it is easiest to lay all the blame on her (coz MILs always think of DIL's as an outsider).

I think BV is trying to show that the saas-bahu relationship takes time to develop and are using Ira as a vehicle to show all the insecurities of a mother-in-law. For example, the whole "is my son becoming more close to the singh's than our own family" etc etc.

I'm ok with showing the insecurities but I would like BV to handle it maturely. The show is all about bringing a change in our society so why not show Ira having trust in her new DIL.

And more than that, how about showing her confidence in her son. They could have shown her inner struggle to want to interfere in Shiv and Anandi's personal life but show her stopping herself by saying that she has a smart, educated, mature son (an IAS officer no less) and he is more than capable of handling his married life.

One the major issues that BV could've brought to light using this scenario is how many parents don't treat their children as adults or trust them to make their own decisions even when the kids are almost 30 and have successfully built a life for themselves.

Thanks for replying ..I think CVs should take some of your ideas..Today's world needs some progressive thoughts than same old thoughts ( As I think serials are some what influencing modern society too) . I am ok with it as long as they show it in a good way.

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