BV WU- 4th Feb 2013 Secrets Revealed - Page 3

Originally posted by: nniks

@hooked anandi is not yet a mother hence she wont understand nor wld be able to console ganga...she just gave whatever example came in her mind...n tht shockinh look was not due to ganga' being a bv but it ws sadness at seeing yet another life being destroyed due to tht practice...

Originally posted by: hooked

@Nniks. I got that A was trying to connect via her worst pain with Ganga.

I also get that she was sad to see G too was a victim of BV, but my point is - is that so shocking ? Stopping young gairls getting married even today is a priority, but those who were married a couple of years ago, like when she was - or Phooli was, or Sugna was- i mean- wasn't the whole Jaitser's womenfolk married as a kid ? That happens to be a prevalent custom of the area and sadness is accepted but SHOCK ?? Isn't that a bit OTT from Anandi ?

Cheer up Ganga, concentrate on positives and not sit down and start sharing your own sob story...atleast that's what I felt. And I continue to hope that after today's long face - she will put on her cheerful face and say - we'll fix it all and make it good for you 😉⭐️

Originally posted by: hooked

I was not complaining about Ganga's sob story. But about Anandi's pathetic attempt to reach out to Ganga and connect thru her own mothers loss. G is lying there imaptient, hurting and bruised and missing her kid terribly - you think she wants to listen to anyone talk about their pain ?

You are right when you said - G is done with condolences, all she wants is her kid - so then - how do you expect her to sit n listen to Anandi moaning about her mom ? G will be more glad to know if Ansh will put in an effort to get her baby back to her and have her in-laws punished.

Originally posted by: Rkalpana

Thanks for update. Cvs taking the story in a casual manner. Why start talk of khushkhabari immediately after marriage? And the IVF track is ridiculous. Jagdish has just MBBS qualification, perhaps Lal Singh also is MBBS. There is no gynecologist shown and IVF is specialised field and perhaps requires special lab set ups... If they want to give social message, they should not show that a person of Basant's age is trying to become dad again just to give his son a companion.

Originally posted by: yaherd15

I agree that nothing much can be said, but I think that's why Anandi said that I know that losing a child is something I have not experienced, but I do know how it feels to lose someone so important to you. Losing a mother is as painful of an experience as is losing one's child. It's that mother-child relationship she was using as an example to make a connect. Like nniks said, it's not the exact same thing, that's something Anandi realizes, but Anandi is trying her best to connect by providing comfort through sympathy. I find that very realistic and human gesture to do when someone is in pain and freaking out in panic, the instinctive thing to do is try to calm that person and show them that you understand and care and are on their side. Don't think it's wrong for Anandi to do that, just think Anandi is trying to show to Ganga that she understands Ganga's pain because she can see Ganga doesn't trust anyone and is freaking out at Jagya since he was no help to her like all the other men in her life. We see that when G is telling off Jagya about not being there for her and Anandi understands the whole concept of mistrusting men because she too started mistrusting them after Jagya's betrayal which is why she was so mistrustful of Shiv's help in the beginning. I think she was bringing some much needed softness to the scene, to Ganga by being a woman providing emotional support to another woman in pain.

Well I don't think Anandi can start by telling her that we will get you justice, she needs to make a connect with Ganga, to get Ganga to trust them first so that she believes that they want to help her. Yes Ganga doesn't want to hear anything, but it is therapy for the soul when people share their sorrows, knowing they are not alone in their pain, having someone who understands the pain of separation. Again it's not the same exact thing, but Anandi knows that, but that still doesn't make her pain less and Ganga knows that as by the way she reacted to Anandi's confession.

I don't know...I mean I guess it just didn't really bother me to see that happen because it was just so human for me to watch Anandi do that...😕 But I guess to each his/her own...right? It's not like you have to agree with me or anything, I just didn't really see it that way so I just posted to have a discussion. That's all. =)

Originally posted by: sai1234

I agree that Jagya and Lal Singh might not be qualified but men can have children at any age so its not that unrealistic.

Originally posted by: Rkalpana

Perhaps u misunderstood me. I wanted to say that what kind of social message CVs want to convey by this track? Men can have children at any age but is it advisable to have children in old age. Gahna is much younger but if Basant's first child survived, he (Basant) would have been a grand dad now.