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Originally posted by: Jan50

Redeeming G is a challenge. Because she still has the victim mentality. Basically a bitter person. This is where J is different. J's ,s faults were not out of a victim mentality or bitterness. He was in a position to admit that it was his greed and selfishness and immaturity out of being spoiled. His inherent qualities were still sweet and kind. He has got enough beatings both physically and mentally for his wrongs. G has not gotten even a minuscule of what she deserves yet. Her only blow was from J who walked out after slapping her. In all fairness J never disrespected her parents how ever annoying they were. But G, went out of her way to hurt the Singhs.totally ungrateful woman. she has a big flaw in her total character which can be rectified with major failures. She owes her success to no one but herself.as Mahi pointed out, any body can change for the better or worse depending on their life experiences.people like Heth Singh , G and Ratan have never experienced total failure,rejection and miseries in life for their deeds.

i agree wid u & mahi & oders on this completely.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Shivani Kunda Tai and Bade papa are just that well wishers.Their lives were not completely linked to hers.

May be if she met somebody who truly care for her and at the same time not blind to her short comings and who is patient with her and no nonsense of kind of person in her life not just as well wisher but as in husband/companion.Just like J is going to get an opportunity to realise she should be given opportunity too.

Gauri was doing quite well for herself getting educated moving forward in life.If she had not met Jagya she would have married that NRI or sometime later that Mr 33 with whom she was so impressed and would have gone on to live a normal life.

@Aparna ...Jagaya didn't force Gauri in his life in fact it wasn't he i guess who confessed his love for her she did first he was her choice too freedom of choice😆 If he wanted an upgraded version had she has two pieces of sense in her she would never let worst out of him as well but what our point is only this the spoilt brat in him that came out Gauri didn't produce in him which made him take wrong steps it was totally DS 's production similarly what Gauri is ..is indeed production of her parents who created this monster in her they never accepted their mistake in front of her but their blame game on singhs made in her hateful vengeful streak against Singhs ..now its obvious if the person in her life had not been Jagaya anyone else she might not have behaved like this but what Jagaya has to do with her enmity with singhs .that she has with them since childhood ?After coming to know his reality why she accepted him back in her life was solely for this purpose that what she couldn't get in childhood which she thought was injustice done to her of course this is produced by her own parents she tried achieve by this and as soon as singhs didnt accept her she started her vengeful streak .Her insecurities were solely not the reason for her enmity with singhs The way she insulted Bhairo that was not her insecure hatred but mostly poison present in her from childhood against singhs .She merely don;t have short comings in her She has a hatred in her that made her vengeful against Singhs now how DR 33 or any NRI can control her this hatred .? had she met singhs in any other way she would still be poisonous against them so i do think this hatred monster in her cannot be controlled so easily untill she recieves some 440 volts in her life

Gauri brought out the DS's ladesar spoilt brat and MCP in him and he brought of the dormant insecure monster in her.It is what they did to each other.They brought out the worst in the other.May be that's why they are made for each other.They both made claims of loving the other.Obviously their love is not strong enough to survive the rough conditions that life sometimes brings and the love they had for each other wore off.

what i meant was production of that spoilt brat and monster etc ..yes i agree they were not right life partners to each other thats why their relation broke but seeing Gauri's nature it is kind of difficult to assume for me anyone at this moment can calm down her monster untill she herself put some effort in it ..her own conscience... that develops of its own not someone force into you