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Well this has been my cause of concern since the past one week.The week that was filled with an array of though stretched yet meaningful rituals.It would be an understatement to say that AnSH marriage brought me elation - It brought me much more! It brought me HOPE - That relationships as complex and intricate as AnSH can come to fruitation.It brought me BLISS - Learning that a girl is not necessarily jinxed to be forever stranded alone due to the burden of an unrequited love...she can get another chance...a chance to love and live again😳
And while I was enjoying all this BEAUTY one thing that bothered me constantly was the over-mention about Physical intimacy post marriage.And it sort of somewhere spoiled my perfect happiness.There has been a constant hinting about this since the starting of the rasams - In the pheras(the overuse of word santan),in the eunuchs blessing AnSh with a child asap,in the cotton ball rasam and the following not-so decent remark by kaki.And if I see at the end of it, all this irritated me a bit.
So just want to send it out to the CVS - Pls take it easy on AnSh. I trust u guys from the bottom of my heart as u have given us a story as perfect as AnSh.You have potrayed and emoted them in a way no one could have done.So pls keep up the essence post-wedding.
CVs I would really APPRECIATE it to see AnSh growing closer on a phsychological level than physical.I think its high time to change the modus operandi just from Initiatives/Praises by Shiv to mutual togetherness/openness - Their talks about normal things in life...discussing their likes/dislikes...sharing of childhood experiences...going places together...having fun like normal people.Bcoz I seriously feel that if there will be a repititve use of teasing abt physical intimacy or S just trying to praise her about her beauty/worth in his life then it will wash away the depth of ANSH.For Anandi the only way to grow closer to SHiv is by finding in him a MAN with whom she can talk her heart...smile...laugh...play pranks...tease...scold and with whose company she can ENJOY even the simplest things of her daily routine.
So,concludingly would just like to send it loud and clear - Pls CVs I applaud and love u for the beauty you have given us in the form of these two ethereal characters ANANDI and SHIVRAJ.I also know that its just the beginning and in future you will surely give justice to them. But just wanna state in advance - take it easy on them.Let them grow subtly and passionately.Let them come closer by enjoying the pleasure of each other's company in the day to the things of life than just constant mention of how their coming to the other's life is a gift or blessing.
Udne Ki Aasha
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