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Posted: 12 years ago
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1. I think I need to hear Shiv's dialogues again!😕 He gave voice to the dard he felt breaking the rishta. He admitted his doubt was based on false perception.
2. I am glad he stated that he can wait for her to accept his love or give him hers...For now the respect and the place of friendship he has is enough. (He's over his Jagyaness! Just because you love someone does not mean they have to love you... back... and certainly not on your time clock!) Love love love his confidence that she WILL love him back in time.
3. Basant's expressions are WEIRD!
4. Haawww Male Anandi gave sweet verbal tapli to J... and refused to help him with his delusion!
5. CM ka sweet proud maa smile! Hayyyee! Both his mommies are so PROUD... Me Three!
6. Uhhuuu - I love Bhaisa ka Bhayanak Music! The Prepetually Disapointed Daddy...but, asking the problem (Maasa) what went wrong in J ka parvarish. He explained J and Singh Parivaar ki punishment - No A -succinctly
7. DS u shameless dokri! See what MOH has brought you😡 You have lost J again and B is broken with disappointment. That darling is PUNISHMENT!😈
8. B scared the Shekars a bit that Anandi might become too bitter to accept Shiv again😆 But, Daddu saved the moment with his comedy! Was he complimenting himself aur Shiv🤣🤣
9. Does A have a designated Tree she chills at? Likey the silenced payal communication. Guess she knew he was coming😛
10. Wow... Collector ki Wakhaalat - Kya Baat! He soo subtly raised J, DS, and Ashi😉... Dil ka faisla dimaag se liya! WAT?! WAT?! They stole my AT ka TITLE🤣🤣
11. Bhahahaha - Go Anandi - reminding him of his reasons for rejection😃 That's da SHERNI!
12. Haila the first time he wipes the tears... ironic he's the cause and the cure!
13. Proposal with a Payal - truly Unique!☺️
14. Sazaa - out comes Teacherjee😈 ...now what is this saazaa??
15. J back to his Mission Maafi🤪
16. Hamesha ke liye jaaa raha hu... I don't think we are that lucky!
GOOD GAWD THAT WAS ONE CHOPPY EPI!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

1. I think I need to hear Shiv's dialogues again!😕 He gave voice to the dard he felt breaking the rishta. He admitted his doubt was based on false perception.
2. I am glad he stated that he can wait for her to accept his love or give him hers...For now the respect and the place of friendship he has is enough. (He's over his Jagyaness! Just because you love someone does not mean they have to love you... back... and certainly not on your time clock!) Love love love his confidence that she WILL love him back in time.
3. Basant's expressions are WEIRD!
4. Haawww Male Anandi gave sweet verbal tapli to J... and refused to help him with his delusion!
5. CM ka sweet proud maa smile! Hayyyee! Both his mommies are so PROUD... Me Three!
6. Uhhuuu - I love Bhaisa ka Bhayanak Music! The Prepetually Disapointed Daddy...but, asking the problem (Maasa) what went wrong in J ka parvarish. He explained J and Singh Parivaar ki punishment - No A -succinctly
7. DS u shameless dokri! See what MOH has brought you😡 You have lost J again and B is broken with disappointment. That darling is PUNISHMENT!😈
8. B scared the Shekars a bit that Anandi might become too bitter to accept Shiv again😆 But, Daddu saved the moment with his comedy! Was he complimenting himself aur Shiv🤣🤣
9. Does A have a designated Tree she chills at? Likey the silenced payal communication. Guess she knew he was coming😛
10. Wow... Collector ki Wakhaalat - Kya Baat! He soo subtly raised J, DS, and Ashi😉... Dil ka faisla dimaag se liya! WAT?! WAT?! They stole my AT ka TITLE🤣🤣
11. Bhahahaha - Go Anandi - reminding him of his reasons for rejection😃 That's da SHERNI!
12. Haila the first time he wipes the tears... ironic he's the cause and the cure!
13. Proposal with a Payal - truly Unique!☺️
14. Sazaa - out comes Teacherjee😈 ...now what is this saazaa??
15. J back to his Mission Maafi🤪
16. Hamesha ke liye jaaa raha hu... I don't think we are that lucky!
GOOD GAWD THAT WAS ONE CHOPPY EPI!



@Red : 🤣u can bet on that A 🤣🤣🤣. Didnt u see that slooowww walk 🤣🤣. He was expecting someone to call from behind i guess. Thank god we are spared off his torture for next few episodes(i guess) atleast 😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
#43
Thank you for the update 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Anu - well...if only there was betting website we could mint some money😆😆 Apparently, he spies on AnSh from some jharoke b4 "leaving" Jaitsar
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank you for lovely update.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Esha - Thanks for the update.

All in all lot of misunderstandings seem to have cleared.

J finally accepting the reality that A does not want him in her life anymore. Some people never learn from the lessons life teaches;Some people learn only when the life has been harsh with them.I hope J is of the latter type.It is high time he learnt walk without crutches in life.
I hope he leaves Jaitser for good.He has to learn to rely on himself and on his judgement to make his life better.
Anandi is not there for him anymore DS as of now cannot be there for him anymore.


Shiv well what can be expected from mirror image of Anandi?He lived upto the title of being Moonche wale Anandi.Him going and saying sorry to J that he couldn't help him was nothing but a good gesture on his part. Helping people who harmed their interests a quality which probably he shares with A.

He was willing to settle for what life has given him.For him her respect and trust and that she values his presence in her life is enough to begin with.He doesn't have unrealistic expectations from life.
Unlike J he has realised his mistake before it was too late.Was willing to make amends.

I wonder how he knew where to find Anandi.He did not let his ego come in the way when he said sorry to her.He was willing to take the blame when things went wrong.He knew that for a strong relationship a give and take is necessary.He was willing to accept the punishment from her.Most importanatly he knew A would have behaved in the same manner if she were to be in his place.And he said that.
Such a contrast from JG relationship- where they for ever blamed each other for all things gone wrong.

Anandi - Did she know that he will be coming in search of her?She seemed to have thrown away the anklets just where he could find them??😆
I am glad that she told him what he has done has hurt her.And knew why he had done what he has done.She even in her pain and anger managed to see the bigger picture.
She did not misunderstand his intention she is only angry with him for putting both of them through such pain.
He actually proposed to her with payal - I am sure that is a novelty.First he uttered the three words with payal and now proposing her to marry her with payal😆
I wonder what the punishment is -😉
DS - What is she thinking?Why focus so much on her expressions when they made her opinions regarding A's life redundant.In what way does it matter what she thinks?

Bhairon - We do feel bad for him.But I think he needs to introspect on his upbringing.He should sit back and think about his parenting methods.Love is just not enough when it comes to parenting understanding is also needed.This father and son duo ever understood each other?


Pre cap - A relieved and happy looking Shiv putting the anklets on her feet.I wish he put the
anklets on her feet before she threw the stuff away in the pond though.

Edited by aparnauma - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47

I hated Jagia during the track when he was trying to hurt Ansh, but now when he knows that Anandi doesn't want him, I dont think there is any need for him to leave haveli.

I hope someone stops him. Afterall this is his home.
Bahut punishment mil chuki use, bus ab aur nahi.😡
Edited by elasingh - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ Anita: I am not really sure if Jagya has realised anything. He has probably just accepted the fact that A has moved on, but not sure, if it means that he has realised his mistakes too.

I also felt that he has not really repented, and his leaving home was more like covering up for his latest blunder. I don't feel that he is anywhere closer to repentance. That is far-fetched, or may never happen.

I think this is where Bhairon needs to step up and show direction to his lost sheep. Probably after A's marriage, he must stand up once again as J's father and guide him. I think this is where B as a father fails sometimes. He loves his children and goes to any extent for their happiness, but when the same children are making mistakes he fails to step up and stop them. Just expressing disappointment is not always a solution.

This is true for A as well, B gives in to A's lectures instead of shutting her up and showing her what is right from wrong (for e.g. when she chose to serve J during his illness – B could not stop her. He just gave in, out of disappointment) And many such examples with Sugna and Jagya.

Anyways, I was just happy yesterday with the way AnSh was moving and didn't even think of J a bit. But you posted it very well and I was provoked to think 😊

I am way too happy for AnSh. They are setting a very good example for real life couples in the society. Their maturity, trust, respect and values of life, are actually re-instigating people's faith in relationships.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Esha - Agree about B.

Only love cannot ensure your children's happiness nor does it ensure that they take the right path in life.
Along with love understanding and communication are equally important.And it is also important that you keep your communication channels open so that when things go wrong you can reach out to your child and help him set things right.

However regarding J I feel that he needs to be on his own for sometime. I hope he gets away from Jeitsar and Anandi's life Till now he has been using his family members be it DS or A as emotional crutches to get on in life as far as he and we can remember .Because without crutches he seems to damage his life and makes life hell for others who care for him whether it DS, A or B.

So I feel that he should find his own two feet in the emotional sense and become emotionally stronger. Then only I think he will be able to face the consequences of all the wrong deeds he has done and mend his ways.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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A n S were not really fighting..just angry for letting the situation go out of control .. they are already so much in sync with each other that the thought of separation is hurting them more than anything..

anandi was more of complaining to him for doing this and showed that more than anything she is hurt coz of his explanation for rejecting her..

and shiv understood .. she is craving for being loved n accepted by him unknowingly and he wants to give her that sense of security.. so asks her to marry her .. coz he knws for village girl anandi .. being in a relation is first step towards accepting someone as their life partner..

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