Originally posted by: Shivandi
The thing about Jagdish is that he's not a bad person. However, emotionally he is about as old as Nandu, whatever his physical age may be. He still sees the world as his playground, and in that playground, Anandi and Gauri are no more than toys.
He got bored with his first khilona, and saw a new one that he thought was shinier and better. When his family told him not to leave the first one, he couldn't understand why. He couldn't understand why he couldn't just drop the old one and pick up the new one and his family shouldn't accept it.
Then when the new one cut him, he wanted to go back to his family and the old toy, except the family wouldn't forgive him and the old toy cut him as well. Of course he was going to be angry and want to break the old toy. Then when the old toy made him feel good again, he wants his dadisa to give it back to him, and can't understand why he can't have it back.
Neither of these women's feelings and emotions and thoughts and preferences are even part of the question for him, because he just doesn't understand they have any. He does not understand the world as it is. All because Dadisa has never made room for him to grow up and never allowed anyone else to teach him to grow up either, because she does not understand human psychology when it comes to him and her ideas of blood and varis and all that. And she's been doing the same recently. In some respects, Jagish is the most pitiable character on the show, and Dadisa the biggest criminal.
