Transparency In a Relationship

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Posted: 13 years ago
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From the various off screen segments it has been clear that Anandi is going to tell Shiv about Jagat's return.
This is awesome from a relationship stand point.Proves the following:
1) Goes to show Ananadi's maturity. She does not hide her past from Shiv.
2) She has trust in Shiv and know he will not betray her trust. That is why she dared to tell him about Jagya.
3) Shiv has always stood by Anandi and that has given her confidence to be candid with him.
4) They are starting thier relationship on the right note by being communicating with each other.
Okay Shiv had hid the fact from Anandi when he found out about Jagya, but am sure from now on her will never hide anything from her as she is so true to him.
Way to go ANSH.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shiv did not hide from Anandi.. it was never his place to tell.

sometimes if things are told they just complicate relationships. Sometimes its better just to remain silent.

Look at how much we are hating on CM cause she told Anadni about jagya..yes I know we are disliking her cause of her attitude and accusation but if she would have kept her mouth shut , there would not be any embarrassment for both Cm and Anandi .

Anandi would have beeen extremely embarrassed if Shiv would have told her about Jagya.
Her future husband telling her about her pas husband... thats gotta be awkward.
I am glad he remained quiet and I knew that Anandi would tell him .. and now that Shiv sees Anandi telling him, his faith on Anandi will def.increase that she told him the truth right away as soon as she knew.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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You do have a point Suchi. I never thought from this angle. This is why I love this Forum. People here make you think in many different ways and you end up being a better person and a more matured individual after all these varied responses.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

Shiv did not hide from Anandi.. it was never his place to tell.


sometimes if things are told they just complicate relationships. Sometimes its better just to remain silent.

Look at how much we are hating on CM cause she told Anadni about jagya..yes I know we are disliking her cause of her attitude and accusation but if she would have kept her mouth shut , there would not be any embarrassment for both Cm and Anandi .

Anandi would have beeen extremely embarrassed if Shiv would have told her about Jagya.
Her future husband telling her about her pas husband... thats gotta be awkward.
I am glad he remained quiet and I knew that Anandi would tell him .. and now that Shiv sees Anandi telling him, his faith on Anandi will def.increase that she told him the truth right away as soon as she knew.


I understand it would have been awkward for Anandi, but just like Anandi mustered the courage to tell Shiv about Jagya, Shiv could have prepared Anandi for Jagya in his own sweet and understnding way
CM was malicious - that was not the way Anandi was to be treated. Anandi was not only made to feel awkward but she was also hurt. On hindsight, if Shiv had told her, then Anandi would have been spared the heartache.
Nonetheless I am happy with the way Anandi has handled the situation.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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AZZV, There seems to be good in CM jumping the gun too.

A knows that CM is sneaky and she also now knows people SEE that she was unhappy and this will be A's catalyst of finally uprooting J from her thoughts. She is now scared of losing Shiv and will not take him for granted.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: lavy

AZZV, There seems to be good in CM jumping the gun too.


A knows that CM is sneaky and she also now knows people SEE that she was unhappy and this will be A's catalyst of finally uprooting J from her thoughts. She is now scared of losing Shiv and will not take him for granted.

Yes dear I agree, good will come out of CM's malicousness. Nonetheless, this in not how one behaves with ones to be daughter in law. Anandi has not done anything to break Shiv or his family's trust.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If Anandi runs true to form, and once she stops crying, I am sure she is going to kamar kaso and get ready to battle CM in her own sweet way, by turning her foe into her best ally.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think it is great that Anandi told Shivu immediately. This will only strengthen their relationship, especially if she asks Shiv not to turn into Jagya...meaning she is implying she will never take JB back! Now my only hope is she doesn't forgive JB and in fact stands up to his so called regrets (blaming Gauri for misleading him) and shows a mirror to him about all the lies he told just to get Gauri.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: VerboseG

If Anandi runs true to form, and once she stops crying, I am sure she is going to kamar kaso and get ready to battle CM in her own sweet way, by turning her foe into her best ally.

All I hope is that CM is not a very tought cookie to crack.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't think anyone could be a tougher nut than dadisa. Oh, how we hated her at one time!

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