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Ela Singh

@elasingh

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: surabhi01
tv mein poochh rahe hain kya jagya anandi ke maafi ke haqdar hai iske liye sms karne ko kaha hai so guys do sms

Kya tumhe no yaad hai?

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

no : to main note nahi kur payi kyonki just abhi dekha hai ab doobara aayega to bata doongi

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Ela Singh

@elasingh

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: surabhi01
no : to main note nahi kur payi kyonki just abhi dekha hai ab doobara aayega to bata doongi

I voted for NO. I sent it to 56882. Sending failed.

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

ho sakta hai voting line khuli na ho .shayad monday ko khule

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vamita

@vamita

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

There are two mistakes one makes in life Tinoo...One where we harm no one but ourself, while the other, where we hurt and harm everyone along with us...At a certain point, person thinks that this might be right for him...! But he doesn't sees beyond it...That is where parents come in...To show him broader scope for that particular point...Children at Jagya's age(College age), tend to have a very narrow mind, where they don't see anything but what is in front of them...They don't see the future, nor the past...They only see the present...Kids need to know that every action of theirs will give them specific results...For eg. How do we tell kids if he is not studying...We explain them what he wants in life, what will happen, if he doesn;t do it, what problems he might face and what good comes if he does...Same way, when one becomes adult, children should know how to reason themself...If what they are doing is good or bad, how will it affect the near and dear ones, how will it affect us in future...I know, sometimes it just happens, and we don't even know when...But there are some things we can do our self, make us aware of the results...

We do those mistakes because we don't see them in clear light...We try to make our way with what ever light is present before us, even before we start looking for a brighter light...! That is why kids that age do mistakes...One can only teach kids to stop doing such mistakes by making them think logically about what is right and what is wrong and to forsee the consequences of their mistakes since childhood...!

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brick_red

@brick_red

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

If I look at life from Jagy's point of view, I can view it in 2 different ways

1. I lost everything; my family, loving,dedicated wife(Anandi), my village, the hospital which was built for me, and now even Gauri. No job, no MS, no money, nobody to turn for help !

2. I have faced setbacks i life. There is a delay in completing MS. Gauri is not sincere as I thought. I pushed my family away with my foolish acts(total wrong way of letting them know abt my marriage with Gauri, never thinking about Anandi's life, insensitive way I refused the hospital etc..etc). But things are not fully lost..

Though Gauri is selfish, she is very loyal..she supports me financially, she believed my words and married me, she forgave me for the lies I told her for 5 years...If she is not perfect, so am I. This is the life I chose..and so I have to make things work.

I have an MBBS degree. I can work as doctor and be of use to people. THough I may not earn that much moeny as a MS doctor, still I can do as much or more work..As a general practitioner, I can connect to more people and can gain valuable expereince that might help me in future.

My family has not legally disowned me. They never cursed me or took revenge of me. I should love them selflessly; I have to apologize to my family on my behalf as well as on Gauri's behalf. I should make Gauri understand the value of relationships and we should be cordial with my family. I should let go of Anandi and if needed, help her to get into a new life.. I can volunteer in the village hospital.. I can bring medical camps to my village..I should respect my friends and believe in my capability and trust my destiny.

If I work hard and be honest and be responsible, oneday I will regain part of what I lost..I will have a sensible and responsible married life with Gauri, my family's blessings, Anandi's friendship, Village folk's respect, professional achievements and job satisfaction.

Jagya's problem is he is not living in the present. He is either lives in future(when he cheated Anandi) or in past(when he left Gauri). If he lives in the present, he will know why things happened the way it happened in past and what to do in future.

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brick_red

@brick_red

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

There is a poem by Robert Frost

The Road Not Taken

" Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim
Because it was grassy and wanted wear,
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I marked the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference. "

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anshul

@milindrose

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

always appreciate what u see is right and think cautiously ,never be selfish bcoz selfless peole get best without efforte ,others give them their worth if u r honest

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