WU6th sep'12' -begger vs memories\jalebi fast open - Page 3

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Thanks for the update Payal.

I am glad that BS warned everybody that they shouldn't bring J home under any circumstances.

I wonder what DS was thinking though.

I am sick and fed up of Jaggu. Why can't he go back when it was made clear to him that he is not wanted?He has absolutely no shame.He was cribbing that nobody is listening to him.Now he wants to go talk to Anandi. He went to her school to meet her.And this is the same school and same Anandi who once begged him to visit her school! He had no time for then.Now he expects her to lend her ear and wipe his tears.Shiv put a break to his plans.

He wanders in the rain remembering all the moments of their togetherness.How come he never remembered any of these when he was chasing Gauri all over the place and sleeping with her and getting her pregnant?

Anandi's first visit to her future in laws place.I liked the way she looked upto Shiv when she was offered almonds.She was observing everything and absorbing all this information.

Dining table scene was so short.I don't know those scenes had to be interspersed with J's scenes.

Finally Shiv's jalebi vrat was broken with Anandi eating the jalebi he offered.Shiv was all smiles but he was observing her very keenly.I did not like the fb but I am glad that she ate it despite the fb of hers.

Pre cap - An unconscious Jagya after his rain bath and probably he will be admitted under Lal Singh's care.I wonder if they are drawing parallel with G' reaction to J' rain bath.

andv - Let me address your question. I have had a failed relationship ( am not talking about my first marriage here...that was a sham and I have shared it before in IF) and it ended very bitterly. We were going steady for 4/5 years and he was two timing with different women all the time. The 18 yr old hormone crazy girl I was, I didnt realise it.

@Lavy: I am Anita; At the outset it makes me feel bad that you had to go through what you did but more that that feeling, I have a feeling of happiness for you that you did not have to suffer with that two timing 🤬. I am also glad that he met with a rightful fate.Thank you so much for sharing your story. I adore and commend your courage and sense of practicality to put the past behind you and look ahead in life. Such people are not worth crying over or even for that matter remembering, coz why give them the undue importance. I personally feel that its good that you are not Anandi in this respect coz this is the only thing that's stunting her growth and in some way making her stagnate.

As a total stranger to such a situation I can understand the part where she gets flash backs of the past, coz its only human to have them. But what perplexes me is how does these flashbacks not bring her disgust? Its totally illogical to think that she cannot remember the 'n' number of times that he has abused her and also insulted her mother. Are the CVs trying to tell us that this MCP of an ex-husband is more important than her mother? Like you mentioned in your case too you do get memories of good times but they are immediately wiped away by the memories of cheating and deceit. That's what I would have expected too.

I agree that these scenes are an insult to women who have stood strong and come out of their past as even better individuals. The CVs need to be more responsible when they characterize their lead esplly since they call themselves as the ones attempting to bring about social awareness. They cannot claim to be socially responsible creatives and at the same time use such tactics to drag their show and garner trps.

Originally posted by: khusi_*

payal...shiv ka jalebi vrat tuta...title do🤣

oye itna bada jhoota ilzam...on me n don!! jhooti😆

go see ur nose in front of mirror...phool gaya hoga🤣

cvs ab yeh jagya puran kab khatam karenge? 😡😡

Originally posted by: lavy

andv - Let me address your question. I have had a failed relationship ( am not talking about my first marriage here...that was a sham and I have shared it before in IF) and it ended very bitterly. We were going steady for 4/5 years and he was two timing with different women all the time. The 18 yr old hormone crazy girl I was, I didnt realise it.

We have had some amazing times together. I literally grew up with him. He was in my life till 17-22 yrs and we split when I was 22 yrs because he called it quits..not me. I was still willing to give him a chance - the stupid girl I was. This is how it ended.

When something related to him appears in front of me now...say his fav drink, food I do think of the good times we have had when he shared that food...BUT and the BUT here is important I feel ASHAMED of myself when I think like that and my mind fast forwards to the shit he put me through and I feel better about myself.

This is what I fail to understand about Anandi. J has given her more pain than what this ass had given me..then why oh why? Thoughts have life..they breathe. I agree. They will come to us at the flash of a favorite food, place so on. Mature people accept the thought, smile, acknowledge within themselves that this is just a thought and the person is not worthy of their brain time anymore and move on and enjoy the present moment. This is what I think A should do..which she does not. She flutters like a teenager way too much.

P.S: Karma. Yes..I was very very happy to hear that the guy then went on to marry a girl who cheated on him while being married to him and now divorced him and living with his friend. ;) I did not cry and felt bad for him. I even had a drink to celebrate this ;) Yup. Am not Anandi that way. :)

I was so happy to see A and Shiv together. That happiness was ruined by Anandi's FB . I loved the way Bhairo warned every one not to bring J back. I was also noticing J admitting his mistakes and responsibility to himself.

So what was he thinking agin ? He patao'd Gauri with a rain induced fever and so Anandi will fall for it too ?

Originally posted by: hooked

So what was he thinking agin ? He patao'd Gauri with a rain induced fever and so Anandi will fall for it too ?

Hope they dump him in his own hospi and he gets treated by LalSingh as a charity case and the hospi bill waived as pity towards the not-so-well-off. But i dearly still wish he will hope to be invited back to haveli to recuperate under Anandi's loving care, but he won't get so.😈

Shashank is too brilliant an actor. As much as he made Jagya hateful, Shanky is twisting pity out of me despite my best efforts to keep wanting to hate him. Shashank - you r the best ! 👏

@hooked , sunna ...agree with you Shashank is becoming problem 😆no matter how much you want to say Jagaya deserves this no sorry for him but Shanky with such fantastic emotions do compel pity and sorry out of you and feel for him ..him crying in rain that BG song ...really it hit your heart ... .but kidding he is no problem ...he is a fantastic actor ..his talent in conveying so many wide range of emotions so perfectly is really awesome and i always love seeing him onscreen ...and hey awards jury listen to me give this guy his award he deserves it for this show otherwise you will get a good bashing from me