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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes, he was upset that she lied but did she do anything different from what he did to his own family in front of her? He had his SR with her in his house with Anandi in the next room. Every single moment he was ready to step up and badmouth his fam. He sat back and listened to her badmouth them and Anandi. He taught her that it was ok. She lied... she did not commit murder, rape anyone, sleep with another man. She funded his education (albeit loarding it over his head), they have had fights but so does every couple in love, she gave up a lot to be with him... he ain't no prince. I HATE Gauri but he knew exactly who and what she was. He has known all along and now he acts like a bacha? It is an excuse. He wants a better life... he said so in their fight. He misses his family because he isolated himself and is now alone. She didn't isolate him. He allowed it. Has he ever once been anything but a spoiled brat? Has she? I still do not get this thinking of today... he is happy to sleep with her, he loves her cooking, her education, her looks... he supposedly LOVED her. Aab kiya hua? He has done a heck of a lot worse and she accpeted him. Why not him? I don't get it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The reason why I want the to be together is not because I do not want JAAN reunion or J coming in betweeen ANSH.

For me it is the question of choice.
They chose to be together against all odds.Because they they were perfect for each other.
J thought Gauri was a perfect partner for him in a A could never be.She was educated,urbane,smart and not to mention beautiful.
G also found more or less the same reasons in Jagat.
THe sceanario in which they met was perfect and things were rosy.

But after marriage on their first visit itself J realised that what he threw away was not as useless as he thought.That was what brought about the insecurities in Gauri.Which were the reasons for their fights.Soon after they finished their MS Gauri moved forward professionally and J couldn't.and that made him feel inferior and he was also depressed all the time.

Gauri's insecurity and Jagat's infeririority complex are the root cause for the problems they face in their marriage.I do not think these are enough to break a marriage.

If you think J should'nt continue his relation ship withGauri onthe basis of all the things that she has done then G also shouldn't continue her relation ship with J.
These two have failed the tests that life had given them.Their worst points came out.
If you can not accept your partner at his/her worst then what kind of love is it.
Love is not blind.Love is accepting a person/partner with all his/her faults and working around those flaws and making a relationship a sucess..

That's why for me redemption for G and J comes from continuing/resuming their relationship accepting each other with all their faults there by resurrecting their relationship from the ashes that it has been reduced to. The child will help them in the beginning and may be later on DS too.

My selfish reason for wanting J and G together because if A sees J in this state she may put her life on hold to settle things between J&G because she has a kind and a stupid heart . This will give S' CM ideas.😆Because I so desperately want ANSH😊








Edited by aparnauma - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@mahi ...nice post ..agree with your every point

@shaista33 ...completely disgaree with you ...i believe you are mostly replying in your hatred against Jagaya not anything else ...😕even cvs haven't shown what you are assuming out of it ..are you calling Jagaya at fault for leaving Gauri...😕 i guess they both fought with each other for a long ...Gauir insulted him ..done many things wrong for example badi massi's case , but still he never left her but again and again came with her make compromises with situations everything go back to normal this lady loves me .i love her ...now the love she has been showering on him that truth proved to him was to separate him from his family using him like a tool for her revenge..the family that he is dying to be reunited with and Gauri knew everything still she preferred her revenge over him so you expect him to shower flowers on her 😕he has every right to be angry on her 🤢and i guess even she don't tolerate and fights back with Jagaya if he says anything to her parents though it he who is right most of times ..but the thing you are saying he should have dragged her to his parents ..dear i guess you need to watch the episode again she clearly refused she did any wrong ..she was again insulting bhairo he is a stone hearted person this that fueling people against me so do you believe if he would have dragged her she would have gone happily no ..she made him believe she will never ask forgiveness 🤢and instead of even accepting her mistake she did any wrong even in lying to her husband she is throwing it back on his face ..yes i did now what you will do i dont care for you ..🤢..you still expect him to pooja of her after making him believe she don't love him ...if she loves him why not say sorry to even him ..if she would have said like in dean's case he would have never left her .this time she broke his trust on her and not accepting she did any wrong in fact flatly throwing it in his face yes i did now what you will do ...where she left any place for her to make compromise with ..loving a person at his worst means when you believe that person will change when that person proves he will never change then no person in the world can ever love him ..this is what happened in Jagaya Gauri case previosuly despite Gauri at her worst he was sticked with her believeing everything will change this time she made him believe she will never change so if you still expect him to do pooja of her then i am certainly surpised at such expectation because it is close to impossible for any person to do so

He has done a heck of a lot worse and she accpeted him. Why not him? I don't get
it.

i am a lot surpised at this statement of yours ...what worse he has done that she has accepted lied to her during his mbbs days about his martial status ..i believe he did that for her love not to lose her when truth was opened to her she was very angry left him but he chose way for forgiveness not throwing it back on her yes i did what you will do .and later where he did wrong with her prove at one point it is mostly she who is dying in her own produced insecurities still he was sticked with her now the truth of her great love revealed to him that was just to separate him from his family and she is even accepting not she did any wrong in lying to him she is fighting back yes i did now what you will do so why you expect him now to be with her when his hope broke she doesn't love him or she will ever change ...i do believe you need to come out of this approach that everytime a man is fault women like Gauri do deserve what they got from their husbands ..and again i do believe its also her karma that came reversed on her tit for tat exactly .so you cannot blame Jagaya here and i believe if you saw the episode clearly it was not o so not easy for him to break up with her his tears indicated he is at pain and unlike this lady he is not busy cursing her she did this to me while she is still not accepting she did any wrong 🤢
Edited by saba113 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi Mahi,

Nice post,t.

Ofcourse Jagya has lost Anandi and there should be no J-A reunion and it won't be.

Regarding J-G, its a difficult one. I don't see a re-union at this stage for them. Unless if they both truly, deeply and maturely handle their relationship, repent for their mistakes, understand the differences and come back together for a better living. However I don't think with their characteristics they can come to this level. They are super smart in finding faults with others so they won't make a happy couple even if they were re-united.

Just coming together for the sake of the baby will do no good to them. In fact the baby will be in-tangled in the mess.

In my opinion G's punishment will be that J leaves her for good (which will also be his punishment). Also G needs to face some humiliation from society regarding illegitimate status, along with her parents. This will make her realize the pain of being ALONE.I really don't know how the baby will fit into all this. It would be sad to see the baby suffer for the mistakes created by its immature parents.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jagya raised his hand twice on gauri,she pleaded him not to leave her and that you r my life,when he shouted at her for the way she treated anandi,compared her with anandi stil she pleaded him and confessed whatever did for his love,she dint want to lose him,then he kept on blaming her for everything which she doesnt deserve to hear ,finaly he pushed her so badly and her father cought her and that time she said i dnt where u go,wat u do and he was like waiting for that answer only,he had no plans of teling her to ask forgives frm bhairon ,he came only there to break his relation.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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if jagya think marryig to gauri is his biggest tha he is going to do biggest mistake by leaving her where the time is changed and she is pregnent...making one girl two time preget ..at the end u just leave her by sayig " my biggest mistake"
gauri trusted her lot even after knowig his truth of being married
but now as ajum leaving i thik there is no sign of jagat gauri relationship...jagat will take his turn to aandi...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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First of why shd we pray for redemption of villains?
Let the villainism survive to uphold the value of good people..
Sparing time to think of them is of no use..rather concentrate on what audience can learn from lessons...
They preferred body over mind & had to dance to the tunes of their untuned minds...in the name(bhram/disguise) of individuality n private space...

good happens to good ...always
May b it takes some time...let it be...
The more we think of bad people the more we r sparing our life for them...so lets not waste our life 4 them... coz their nature prevents them 2 enjoy heaven also..n easily they wd b compelled by their impulses to make hell out of heaven...

be happy...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ Saba, I do not think we are wacthing the same show my dear.
He lied to her that Anandi was Nandini... a distant relative or whatever. He lied to her that he never loved Anandi. He played hubbie to Anandi during the whole badi massi thing, drank like a fish and was not there when she was in the hospital because he was too drunk, slapped her in front of her peers and friends (although I lovec this)... shall I go on?
Point is, any tom, dick and harry can marry... but only true men know the meaning of marriage. Jag is not one of them. But he FOUGHT to be with her. She put up with a lot for him... lived in sin, forgave his lies, and tried to cater to his shortcomings by being his rock... what did he do at the end?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Shaista ...i do believe we are not watching same show dear you are indeed watching a different show 😆 .because you are still stuck on what once upon a time Jagaya did with her that gave Gauri every right do whatever with him ..thats your approach ..😆..see his intention behind why he lied to her he wanted to be with for her love not to separate her for anyone and or use her for his revenge ...he left Anandi , his family for her and when truth was opened to her she left him .he was running after her for forgiveness .sitting in rain doing all that i love you i will leave everything for you and he did and it was she who brought him back to his family for ashiwaad mission and there when not accepted by family she started her hungama why they don't accept him when he made his desire to be with his family she made enmity with them no way ...and later where he was unfair with her tell me everyday they fought did he leave her no ..this time this lady has been constantly fooling him around , playing with his feelings the things he felt like a fool she is doing for his favor she is doing for revenge you call it symbol of true wife ...she can leave him drag him everywhere when she feel he is doing injustice with her even for her own stupid insecurities the things that actually didn't happen that is ok for you sign of true love if he does that when she is actually unfair with him you call it wrong what kind of approach .is that ?...she was wrong why not say sorry to him or you consider it her great love to use your husband for your revenge and then throw it back on his face yes i did was right now what you will do ...don;t you think she is wrong ..was she avenging from him for what he did with anyone ..no ..so ...she was wrong why not she make up for her mistake and say sorry to him in a proper way or you think even she shouldn't do that ..she was right according to you ..she is two year old kid that he drag for everything an educated woman if she cannot even think straight where she is wrong with her own husband then i do believe such women deserve a slap not love
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

Jagya raised his hand twice on gauri,she pleaded him not to leave her and that you r my life,when he shouted at her for the way she treated anandi,compared her with anandi stil she pleaded him and confessed whatever did for his love,she dint want to lose him,then he kept on blaming her for everything which she doesnt deserve to hear ,finaly he pushed her so badly and her father cought her and that time she said i dnt where u go,wat u do and he was like waiting for that answer only,he had no plans of teling her to ask forgives frm bhairon ,he came only there to break his relation.

lol watch the episode again ...when he slapped her he asked her why you lied to me she started more lies ..insulting bhairo once again then he raised his hand on her again, and where she said that she did all for her love or for him not lose him she said that she did because his family was unfair to her and always was and later when she found way he is more angry again she started her fake love drama (now he will believe her after she confessed her sacha pyar truth revealed to him why she was showering her love on him )then he said don't touch me ...🤢and later in end she threw it back on his face in end yes i did now what this maan ka ladla will do go back to his family and heck i dont care for you ...you still expect him to do arti of her

@bold i believe you were sitting in his head that you know what his plans were 😆.what cvs have shown .he came to from her to ask why she lied to him ..and she is insultting bhairo once again .defending herself she did right and proving it to her she has no remorse no shame for what she did and you believe she would have gone happily if he asked come ask forgiveness from my father ..and i think he didnt enter home and said to her get out of my life that you assumed he came only to break up ..if you watch the episode again carefully he broke with her after she proved she has no shame for her actions she won't say sorry ..she don't care for him ...then he said i won't forget what you did to me and never want to see your face ...

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