WU31st aug - pighead back\blames shiv - Page 4

Originally posted by: rusha4003

Did you notice one thing ? J feels he's lost everything to the Collector ... and not that he's lost everything becos of his lying, cheating and totally unacceptable behaviour ... how very true to character !!!

Originally posted by: rusha4003

Is it only me or does anyone else get the feeling of some choppy editing during the course of this engagement scene ?

Yesterday we had A giving nice lovely smiles, then there was that long drawn moment of Jagya-sensing ... after finally putting the ring on Shiv's finger she looks up at him almost accusingly ... and once Shiv puts the ring on her finger she's back to smiling sweetly again ...

It all felt quit dis-jointed to me ... I so wish they had given us a beautiful straight forward engagement scene without all the drama !

@Mahi: I totally agree that at this point of time if J needs something it is proper guidance. But isn't he the one who boasted about being matured and an adult fit enough to take his own decisions when he was flying high in his shehri life and wife? It were these same people "HIS Parents" who he had the audacity to blatantly shove these words on. If he trusted an outsider more than his own family, the ones who have loved him, brought him out of so many messes in the past and still unconditionally loved him, doesn't he deserve what he is getting now? Has this turn of events made any change to his ego? Has he realized how wrong he was? Honestly and sincerely I don't think so or else he would have not thought in terms of Shiv taking his place and feel unhappy about it. If he was truly repenting he would have remembered all those times how he hurt his family and then instead of being worried of the taunts from villagers and running to the first bar insight he would have tried to gather himself and tried to mend his ways. The first thing he thinks is escape. Problem with A escape to G, problem with G escape to family, problem with family escape to no man's land. How long is he going to run away from his mistakes. He has no courage to face himself what is he going to face anyone else then? Unless and until he sincerely realizes his fault and takes responsibility for it he is not going to repent in the true terms. Right now it is only escaping. If he really means repentance the first thing he would have developed is a spine and courage to face all the taunts and an unwelcoming behavior from his surroundings. The world cannot dance to his tunes and change their attitude at the rate that he changes his.

I am so strongly saying this because J is no longer a kid and his family is not going to be with him all through his life. He cannot keep using them as tools to satisfy his ego and caress his bruises. He needs to truly value them. if that doesn't happen he will keep running is a viscous circle. His famliy guides him in the right path, he then explores a novel experience and then moves with the flow and gets carried away into another mess. Then again run to his family for guidance. What good is his family's guidance doing to him then? He needs to learn from the lessons he gets. He cannot be spoon fed all the time. The day he learns from his mistakes and makes a right decision without being easily gullible, that's when he will be matured and that's when giving him guidance will make sense. Till then it is only going to be like pouring water on a duck's back.

ok how i forgot to mention ...excellent acting from Shashank and Surekha jee today .Gosh i can never stop praising both these wonderful actors and the efforts they are putting in this show in their roles ...really worth of many appreciation👏

thanks for the update dear..
nice epi...anandi was smiling that was the best part of epi...
jagya ne to jitsar aakar bhi pina nahi choda...jaitsar me bar bhi hai aur 4 mushkande boxer bhi??? wah!!!!!
shayd jaitsar jilla banne k bad usko bear bar ka license mil gaya...
shiv should knw abt this so he can banned on it...
whatever jagu dada ko ek naya bahana mil gaya haveli ane ka jagya ko uss halat me dekhkar DS pakka jagu ko haveli le ayegi...WTH is goin on??
bichare shiv aur uski family ka kya reaction hoga jab usko pata chalega tab...
whatever for the first time im eagarly waiting for gauri to come jaitsar nd take his man back to mayanagari...

can nyone pls tell me the sad song which was goin on when jagya was walikng sadly...i like that song heard many times in bv...if possible pls give me link...

@Anita ...totally agree with you ..Jagaya really needs to grow up and he needs to get courage in himself to face harsh realities of life with courage ..stand up to accept his mistakes and face the result of it with courage and produce in himself guts to find ways to correct what he messed up to right without expecting anything in return for him ..Jagaya has been this sort of guy so far you must have known mummy daddy people😆the ones who are brought up so delicately by spoon feeding lots and lots of love to them and when they come across harsh realities of life they lose their balance...shiv was right for Jagaya in saying he is any rich man's spoilt brat ,in his life he must have got everything so easily he must have never faced harsh realities of life ... .true ..Jagaya's case has always been like this even if you see how he was thinking he will ask forgiveness from everyone will hug dadisaa do this do that they will forgive him😆because this is what he has come across from childhood ..well now is the actual time for him to begin to realize something and stand up in his life ..right now the pain will actually feel pain to him when he is left so alone ..i do hope cvs don't make him return to haveli so soon ...this precap should be only his imagination before becoming others support Jagaya really needs to first stand up in his life and become his support ..he needs to become a strong man from this delicate boy who lose his balance after facing little difficulty...in these four months cvs should leave him alone and he should see something in his life ok no need to spoon feed him the right and wrong but let him experience something some reality of life in some other way which make him think about what wrong he did in his life .and how he needs to repent for it and what is his actual destination

Originally posted by: dixie123

I am with you. Didn't understand that expressions of her. I felt she was saying to Shiv 'Are you happy now that I put the ring ?'

They are doing a poor job of late in these areas...

@mahi, I totally agree with you. J must be left alone to fend for himself. He should not enter the haveli now. He has lot of growing up to do. It is not his fault if he had a very comfortable life before. He is unlucky enough to make huge mistakes because of his immaturity.