WU 27/8 ...Jag n his selftalks...

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 13 years ago

#81

Originally posted by: tinoo
Jagya's sudden overnight realization was not at all convincing... and I really dislike how HE is the decision maker in the whole scenario.

Now HE has decided to dump gauri, so that's just the way it is. HE has decided to go after anandi. so thats just the way it is.

He thinks he is the decision maker.But things may not work out the way he wants them to.

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#82

aparnauma,

the issue is not whether things will go the way he wants them to or not...

the issue is just that he washes his hands off matters the moment they no longer suit him.

Unilaterally, he has decided that he no longer wants to be a part of the relationship with gauri and then just drops her like a hot potato.

Dont get me wrong, I am not defending gauri or her actions ... but I am most highly critical of Jagya's character trait -- just deciding he wants out and then leaving without settling any issues of alimony, or their future or gettting a divorce or anything.

Simply crying in the park and then boarding a bus to Jayetsar and renting a car is not the appropriate severance ritual for a relationship. There is still a procedure that has to be adopted -- not just legal procedure, but an emotional procedure where you atleast settle matters with the other person and then leave.

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poiu123

@poiu123

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Posted: 13 years ago

#83

Gr8 work by Shashank. I was missing Jagya for the last 1 year . The white shirt Jagya was actually Jagdish Singh . Glad to have him back in the show. Hopefully Jagat is gone for ever.

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dlip

@dlip

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Posted: 13 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
Mahi - don't get your hopes up... pendulam ka koi bharosa nahi... Jugat mein respossess Jagya after AnSh ka 420 volt ka jhatka🤣

p.s. u and I debate this a lot of late... i juss wanted to say, i am not against J ki sudrofication... I am not even against G ka self evolution back to human! I just have my doubts J ka reform trajectory will remain on track once he sees AnSh ki baadti hui nazdhikiya

fully agree.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 13 years ago

#85

@ tinoo

I agree the moment he got to know about her he dumped her.

He just moved one step forward.This scene is after he walked out on Gauri.

He is actually realising that he is at fault.For the first he has not blamed someone else for his misfortunes.He took the blame.

But he still has a long way to go.It is an impulsive thing on his part.Currently he is only thinking of all the things he did to hurt his parents and Anandi.Sooner or later he will realise that his behavior with Gauri is not exemplary. I would have felt it is totally unreal if he has had complete realisation.

But one step at a time is better.If only he continues in this path it will lead him to his redemption.

For the time being it is one small step forward.

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mahi12

@mahi12

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Posted: 13 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: tinoo
Jagya's sudden overnight realization was not at all convincing... and I really dislike how HE is the decision maker in the whole scenario.

Now HE has decided to dump gauri, so that's just the way it is. HE has decided to go after anandi. so thats just the way it is.

i disagee with you tinoo here ...first this is no sudden overnight realization ..this guy has guilt in him present from very first day he married Gauri he only needed one right push which bade papa did ...right now the woman for whom he was acting blind in front of everyone she is right ..my decision is right i am right in choosing her proved to be a cheater so how he won't realize what wrong he did in his decisions and ruined his own life ...

i completely fail to understand why are you saying he dumped Gauri ? do you call Anandi dumping Jagaya..she too truely loved him ...he was her adult choice too ..her only love but he broke her trust big time what hope she has left to be back in husband wife relation with him similarly Gauri has been fooling him around for so long ..her love for him that she has been showering for so long which he thought like a fool her true love for him but what was that for to keep him away from his family.. the family to whom he was so desparate to go back and this shameless woman has no even one ounce of shame to even accept she did wrong in lying to him infact she went on to challegne him yes i did now what you will do i don't care ..you still want him to stay with her ..why? what is left there for him to stay with her and why ?is this theory only for a woman to be cheated by a man she should leave him not for a man if woman cheats him betrays his trust ?he should be sticked to her 😳..there is a lot of difference in dumping someone and leaving a cheater who doesn't care about you a little

and i again fail to understand why you are saying now after Gauri's cheat he is running after Anandi..where did he yesterday's talked about Gauri for once .where he said Anandi i realized how much you love me don't worry i am coming back to love you too and where he said he needs a shoulder to cry on and complain ?...right now things are more clear to him how much he hurted his family and Anandi so instead of banging his head on a woman who doesn't care for him or anyone he decided to heal wounds of those who did care for him and no where he said or prayed please let them accept me he only said he want one chance to be forgiven to lessen the burden on his soul his heart knows they will forgive him seeing tears of regret in his eyes though it won't be easy and please never ever say he should have given a second chance to Gauri this is no first time he has been living under compromises for a long time with her e.g after what she did in haveli with badi massi he still came to her despite being so angry now the limit has crossed ..leave his family this woman doesn't care about him a bit so why and for what he should stay with her...?just because he married her on his choice leaving everyone ..then i think Anandi should also stay loyal to him not to move on in her life why because she loved him for so long so why now she is turning away 😆

EDIT :- coming to your point of leaving Gauri in a legal way right now in his current state of mind no person will even think about it ...he will just kick her out... every person will first do is storm out of his house and with time give her divorce for that you need to wait and see what cvs do

Edited by mahi12 - 13 years ago

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saba113

@saba113

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Posted: 13 years ago

#87

nice episode worth a wait indeed and loved shashank's acting really great

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saba113

@saba113

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Posted: 13 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: tinoo
aparnauma,

the issue is not whether things will go the way he wants them to or not...

the issue is just that he washes his hands off matters the moment they no longer suit him.

Unilaterally, he has decided that he no longer wants to be a part of the relationship with gauri and then just drops her like a hot potato.

Dont get me wrong, I am not defending gauri or her actions ... but I am most highly critical of Jagya's character trait -- just deciding he wants out and then leaving without settling any issues of alimony, or their future or gettting a divorce or anything.

Simply crying in the park and then boarding a bus to Jayetsar and renting a car is not the appropriate severance ritual for a relationship. There is still a procedure that has to be adopted -- not just legal procedure, but an emotional procedure where you atleast settle matters with the other person and then leave.

i think he will settle his matters with Gauri right now he is too angry with her i am not saying he will ever accept her back that is not possible he cannot trust and love her anymore but i think he will leave her in some right way not just throw her out ..if after Anjum's exit cvs didn' cut gauri's character off completely😆 right now .have mercy on his current state of mind 😆in which any person cannot think too deep but i don't think cvs will show too much of legal procedure by this Bhairo and dadisaa should have spend their term in jail for doing crime of bal vivah of two children 🤣

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Nazneen

@SiriuslySujal

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Posted: 13 years ago

#89

@tinoo: I guess sometimes a lot of stuff just hits you like a ton of bricks. That was the feeling I got here about how his realisation happened. He suddenly realised what a monster he'd been to his family and Anandi, how much they'd tried to lead him back on the right path, how easily he'd disregarded all Anandi's sacrifices etc. But I mean... it's easy for him to say all this now while he's alone... let's see how he reacts to AnSh's sagai. Sure, he wants to apologise and make good, but somewhere in his head he expects his family to all to be the same people they once were... that's another realisation he'll have to go through. Also, he said, "Main jaanta hoon ki yeh aasaan nahin hoga"... but saying that and actually realising it through trying are two very different things. Somewhere inside he still arrogantly believes that a few tears from him will melt his family.

As for his behaviour to Gauri - yes, not good enough to just walk out of a situation. Legal or illegal, they were living as husband or wife, and he's answerable to her. He needs to either work things out or sort out a legal separation. Right now, though, it's still the same night and he's still in shock/upset. Hopefully he will realise soon enough that he needs to sort out that relationship too.

General episode comments from my side:

1. SHANKY ❤️ LOVED his acting. He really carried the episode all on his own! I must be one of the few people with no complaints about an episode full of Shanky 😳 Loved his facial expressions, the differences between the black-clad Jagat and the white-clad Jagdish, the dialogues... I actually really felt sorry for Jags this epi! I mean, he deserves this, and he's hugely to blame, but my heart just went out to him... he looked so flawed and pitiful The Singhs should forgive him once he's earned that forgiveness and proven himself worthy of it... Anandi should forgive him too, but she should obviously not take him back... she should forgive him for her own closure and move on.

2. Anandi-Bhairon convo was beautiful and much-needed. I hope Bhairon becomes an inspiration for real-life fathers to not tell their daughters that their maayka is parayaa and only their sasural is apna. Really touching scene 👏

3. Anandi agreeing to try and move on and looking at Shiv's name on her hand!!! WE HAVE PROGRESS 👏 👏 👏

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 13 years ago

#90

a must watch episode indeed ...Jagaya realizing his mistakes wow ...and really awesome acting by Shashank worth of lots of praise 👏

perhaps his family will misunderstand Jagaya 😕he is coming for their forgivness they perhaps will think he came to ruin Anandi's engagement about which he didn't know yet 😳

@tinooo...what you are asking from Jagaya right now is impossible for any human to do so in Jagaya's current state of mind after being cheated by the woman whom he blindly trusted ..the first step from any person right now will not be thinking of going through all the legal procedures and give her divorce and leave her in a legal way the first thing any person will do in anger is give a slap to her and storm out of house in anger ..and leave her later he wil think about other things if after Anjum's leaving cvs didn't cut off Gauri's character ..within one night what what he can do or think of ? 😆he is human being too every person in his shoes right now will be doing same what he is doing ...

Edited by sidra08 - 13 years ago

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