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Posted: 13 years ago
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each word of ur post depicts wht i n many other feels...especially watching yesterday epi..eactly cant understand whr the show z haeding... i knw BV z nt about romance, anandi cnt forget her relation vd jagya in so less tym...bt how long will cvs kheech this track of anandi saddism..?? when anandi ll be normal towards shiv.. m not saying she should fall in love with shiv bt cvs should make path for anandi so that she begin lyking, adoring shiv jst lyk gud frnd at least...they should show convo bw AnSh even fights,argument bring two people closer .. cvs r nt giving anandi a chance to knw Shiv... n when will this our khadus propose Anandi..??Shiv propose tou karen😍 leaving the reaction of anandi thereafter..want their relationship to grow..a lil more pace is needed i guess..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Aparna - am a bit like Shiv...I analyze, decide, and stick to it. Obstacles only make people like us more determined. Anandi likewise won't change her mind. Her promise to Bhago is decisive. Shiv's commitment to Anandi is even firmer. They are not pendulums unlike Jugya.


Anandi's dilemma isn't Jug v. Shiv...it may seem that way...its Shiv v Nothing/Safety of 1... but, she is bound by her mother's promise...and time in on Shiv's side. He has a lifetime to warm her soul and heal her hurts. Its a hard path, but one he believes is worth the hurt.

The door for Anandi is already closed...these r just the final nails. She will make peace with herself and her fate soon or later. Anandi is not a bitter individual...the obstacles will give them something else to focus on...and in a way heal her by distracting her.



So true - Anandi is def. not a bitter individual. That's why she doesnt hold grudges against all those people who have wronged her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anjy has answered your question 101% correctly, clearly and i agree with her every word ! Anjy kudos to you 👍🏼

Next, actually some people are analysing the situation in a totally different scenario. ''Why Anandi is not happy when she has got such a successfull and sexy man, who is madly in love with her'' Shiv need to move out his circle and woo Anandi. Also, Anandi too is trying hard to cooperate with the situation. She cant forget 18 years of her life so easily. Or you think a ''loving and dashing man'' can take place of a mother so easily ? A loss of a mother can be very painfull. She needs time and thats why CVs are giving this 4 months break. Honestly speaking for me even 4 years are less for knowing a man completely. I think that is why arrange marriages fails rarely, coz you have whole life to know your partner. But in these 4 months, if Shiv cant make Anandi fall in love with him than atleast can become his good friend. She allreadu have begun to trust him, but still there is a long way to go. Shiv needs to move out his circle and had to make Anandi to let the walls down. I trust AnSh. Shiv is determined and a pakka fevicol, he wont leave her side whatever the situation arises and Anandi too will cooperate. She is strong and mature, just need a little time.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika


1. Will there be a love after marriage or love before marriage?If its love after marriage then why delay of four months?And if love before marriage why arent we getting any ansh scenes since nearly 10-15 days now.The last time we had a proper ansh sequence was during the tabela scene.

Yeah, the creatives are seriously testing my patience with the dearth of meaningful scenes these days...EVERYTHING is filler. 🥱 The Sumitra - Bhairon convo went on and on and ON and I woke up just in time to see Gawari mata with her crocodile smile. 😆 And LOOOL...the cake of the day toh obviously the EXTENDED villagers confrontation took. What a pakau scene. 😡🤔

Agreed about the lack of Ansh scenes as well. There seems to be some SERIOUS lack of continuity on the show these days. DS told the villagers that 'kal hi rishta pakka kiyo'...But didn't we get a day between today (day of villagers complaint) & the Teej/ Roka day? 😕 Also, Shiv- Anandi had a conversation on the Roka day about him picking her up for the meeting the next day...but he shows up to pick her two days later? 😕 Really sad editing.

Another thing which irked me- Shiv asked his make up ki dukaan , oops his doll that didn't she like his Rakhi gift? 😕 Teej previous day hua and Rakhi ka gift pehle se hi? You have got your festivals/ calendars all messed up BV creatives!
2.What after sagai?As of now Sanchi and CM are against the marriage so I really doubt how long things will go smoothly but seriously what after sagai?Seeing the speed at which the sagai preps are going...ansh wedding wont happen anywhere before next year.And I wonder what will cvs show all this while!

LOOOL>>> I agree! Dunno WHAT after sagai...there is absolutely NO storyline that I can think of...No game plan...
3.If the love will happen before marriage what will happen after that??
No idea! 😕

4.Why arent primary issues given more attention like Shiv boosting anandi's morale or he motivating her to continue her studies or healing her in some way.What all we have is some of the singhs praising Shivji or he convincing some of his random family member about how perfect his anandi jee is!!

Seriously...there has been a lack of quality scenes between the two since forever now...Going by the ring selection promo- (I am excited for it btw)- but is that it? Like I wanna see Anandi slowly and gradually feeling for Shiv. She DOES have a soft corner for him- no matter how much she may deny / not realize...but the realization process is still to be shown...but for her to realize..we need meaningful moments between the two...its all nice and sweet to see eyelocks but will Anandi REALLY fall in love with the guy over an eyelock? I wish there were some better Jaitser ki unnati related scenes where they interact on a professional AND personal basis where Anandi realizes the gem of a person Shiv is and why getting married to him might not be that bad an idea as she originally thought...
5.Everyone from bhairon to sumitra ,DS to khajan singh keeps blabbering about how anandi is so very lucky to get guy like Shiv but we actually never really get to see what has Shiv done for him to 'deserve' her!!I really fail to understand why everyone from Singh family keeps on saying that.Rather it had been anandi who time and again helped him out in various things...she helped him escape HS's plotting...convinced the gaonwala ppl when collector sahab was all ready to become violent...then she helped him in the canal project...she looked after Ashi...and the list goes on.But can someone pls enlighten me what has Shiv done to deserve anandi??I so want to see that cvs...if u are listening!😳

Hmmm...I agree about your points about Anandi being there for Shiv numerous times...but I guess there have been quite a few instances where Shiv has been there for her as well...their entire greet & meet when he saves her life by rescuing her, saving from the goons during Jyoti wedding, making her chat with Sumitra during divorce proceedings, making special efforts to get school grant even though she wanted otherwise etc etc...And I guess at some the Singhs appreciate the fact that Anandis past and all the baggage she brings has not been a factor for Shiv...
So actually I want to ask u guys...those who watched BV regularly even after the leap.Is this an old trend of BV that they first go round and round for everything and then come to the point??Coz now I am getting irritated.I really want some real AnSh action.I know BV is not a romantic show but still when the whole issue is about the re-marriage and anandi's healing...why arent we getting to see it?I am really getting fed up of the singhs and shekhars always clinging around ansh and not giving them even a few minutes of privacy.Pls guys I need to know what do u think about what all that is happening and where it is heading now!Dont u think we really need some action on the ansh front now??Its time for anandi's healing to start...rather i would say its high time now!

LOL about the bold..no idea...never followed BV regularly...but yeah, I do think the story runs really slowly. I happen to catch it mostly during summer breaks when I am home with family...and story wahin ke wahin rehti hai. 😆 But I won't really crib this time around. Thanks to this summer break and me being home, I discovered Shiv. 😆

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree.Anandi is not the type to fall in love with a guy over an eye lock.For her to like and appreciate a person the encounters need to be more meaningful.Till that happens she brushes off all this as mere physical attraction which ovbiously not enough for her to connect with him.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

@red
I agree.Anandi is not the type to fall in love with a guy over an eye lock.For her to like and appreciate a person the encounters need to be more meaningful.Till that happens she brushes off all this as mere physical attraction which ovbiously not enough for her to connect with him.


Seriously Aparna! Its just sad...I used to feel really bad for Pratyusha when she was carrying the entire episode on her shoulders even though she was participating in JDJ...like give the poor thing a break already...I remember I esp felt bad during the Jyoti marriage track...when in that entire epi they show her investigating, traveling to Sumergarh , confronting Jyotis parents etc...

But now, when they DO need to feature Anandi more often, dunno what the creatives are thinking, By showing cute eyelocks/ head bumps/ hand touching etc. scenes----the story does not exactly move forward.

I would say that in the current storyline, despite the presence of so called antagonists like CM, Sanchi etc, the BIGGEST roadblock to the Ansh union is Anandi herself. We NEED to see her feelings... we need to see what goes on in her mind...we have been shown how she is still crying and mourning...but we are YET to see her have a monologue with herself about WHAT exactly she feels for Shiv...how does she see him?

And like you said, Anandi needs to appreciate Shiv in order to feel ANYTHING for him...She is not the typical girl who falls for fluff. She needs substance in her life, not another mills and boons kinda romantic fairytale...I wonder when the creatives will finally come around to showing this...


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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Sia - That ring selection scene has slightly more substance then ur run-of-the-mill eyelock. It s reflection of their unkahi connectedness. Anandi has yet to understand Shiv...but, to an even self-surprising extent Shiv understands his Anandijee. The faith she lacks in love, in rishtas, in herself...he more than makes up for. She needs to slowly wake up to it...or one fine day when she is no longer reeling it will hit her cumulatively and she will be SCARED SILLY then. Her unavailability is keeping her SAFE... COCOONED from all pain including the one that may come with loving again.

I have said and I will keep saying... Shiv is like a river...relentless...and so he will have to be to win his Anandijee. He chips away at her barriers without creating waves.
Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

That ring selection scene has slightly more substance then ur run-of-the-mill eyelock. It s reflection of their unkahi connectedness. Anandi has yet to understand Shiv...but, to an even self-surprising extent Shiv understands his Anandijee. The faith she lacks in love, in rishtas, in herself...he more than makes up for. She needs to slowly wake up to it...or one fine day when she is no longer reeling it will hit her cumulatively and she will be SCARED SILLY then. Her unavailability is keeping her SAFE... COCOONED from all pain including the one that may come with loving again.


Oh I agree Anjana...Its not the typical 'eyelock'...I like and appreciate the fact that they are showing that Shiv already knows her pasand and na pasand and its definitely sweet. But still...if the hight point of the scene is what we saw in the promo- that they have an eye lock and thats that...then toh patani. 😕 But yeah, if they do show Anandi getting AFFECTED by the fact that Shiv knows her so well...then I'd appreciate it a lot more...

Edit: Shiv toh hai hi relenteless! Aur rather chipko as you say. 😆 But yeah, wish his family gives him some space to actually carry out his Anandi patao abhiyaan. Saare ke saare jam gaye hain in Circuit house. 😆 Heres hoping the poor guy has some alone time after the Sagai. 😆
Edited by wuthering - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sia - as I stated I don't know that Anandi will realize...she is safely oblivious...or chooses to be so. She is becoming expert at not seeing what is there...or ignoring what is there. I think eventually it will overwhelm her someday. Then she will look back and take stock. Still then we need as much patience as Shiv has.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anj, chooses to be oblivious is more like it! 😆 To borrow a phrase I have read here on IF which applies to some other heroines in similar scenarios...she is in ostrich mode..😆 Love is staring her in her face but rather than embrace it and give life/love a second chance, she chooses to pretend it doesn't exist!

And aaah, patience is the name of the game I guess. They BETTER show a jeep ride tomorrow😡 otherwise, otherwise, otherwise, I'll still tune into the Wednesday epi, aur kya. 😆
Edited by wuthering - 13 years ago

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