Should shiv accept anandi request ?

Shiv is the only character who always do right thing in a right way. Now the question arises should shiv accept anandi request or not? I am going to give following reason that shiv should not accept anandi request.:-
1)Shiv should say if he marry her then what will happen to ashi... cause acc to anandi ashi love him and anandi does not love shiv.
2)Anandi already said to shiv( actually shout at him) no more ehsaan. Then why he should accept her proposal.
3)He should ask anandi if she love him or like him as a husband or can accept him as a jeevansathi without any problem.
4)Anandi is the one who has past. Shiv does not has any past. So why he would do contract marriage(marriage with condition).
I want to see the man of value if bow down towards his love. What u say guys.