i wish balika vadhu goes the 'Arth' way - Page 5

Created

Last reply

Replies

74

Views

7.6k

Users

24

Likes

279

Frequent Posters

Piyuu_SRK thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: mishti31

I want them to realize their mistakes... to beg for forgiveness. I dnt want G to loose mental balance... this way she will never be able to realize her mistake. I want them to suffertrulyn badly.



Me too want the same to happen. Gauri should realise her mistake. I have not soo much problem with jagiya because he is already going through a lot. Having a nagging wife, what can be worst than this !!?? 🤣 🤣
Piyuu_SRK thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#42
@live to laugh... mmmuuaaazzz 😳 ⭐️ loved your reply 😊
liv2laugh thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 13 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: elasingh

@ liv2laugh I guess we will never agree. So lets agree to disagree where jago and anandi are concerned. 😉



Sure no problem 😃
753037 thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#44


How can he take responsibility for someting which he didnot understand while doing it? He didn't know what marriage is all about?

Ds got him married to gauri . It destroyed her life and left scars on her emotionally. How much has DS paid for her sins? Infact ppl conveniently forget all her scehmings and praise her.
Yes Jagia's way of marrying gauri was wrong not his falling for Gauri. You have said this too. I agree with you . But plz tell me how long should he go on paying for it. And how much? In another thread ppl were hell bent on killing him. This is too much. He married gauri without divorcing anandi because they both genuinely thought that jagia anandi marriage was illigal.
Again gauri too got involved with him thinking his and anandi's marriage is illigal. She lateron knew she was wrong but it was too late.

If the Singh's had accepted Gauri then they would be saying yes to bigamy, insulting two women, insulting you family and insulting your upbringing.
If singh's were so much against bigamy and disgusted with jagia, why they immidiately didnot apply for divorce? Anandi madamji who is epitome of selfrespecting woman why she npot go for divorce? Why DS has to force her for divorce?
Jagya was wrong in the way he went about things and Gauri was wrong in supporting him. He should have divorced Anandi and then married Gauri. He wanted to have his cake and eat it too because he knew if he left Anandi the money would dry up.
I agree with you here. But for all their crimes (in ur eyes) they don't deserve such harsh punishments which this forum bestows upon them. And still if u want to punish them then punish bhairav sumitra ,Khazan etc too.
So the Singhs were right in refusing to support him. You cannot support a liar and a bigamist.

Dear elasingh, till what age did Jagat not know of his marriage with Anandi? Did Bhairon ,Sumi and DS force Jagat to sleep with Anandi? The moment he slept with her and consummated the marriage, he has to take over the responsibility ! Period!

DS paid a great deal for her sins! The once super proud lady was made to apologize everyone related to this in the panchayat thus crashing all her ego! She had a heart attack due to the guilt of spoiling A's life! Above all, the change in DS is the ultimate factor. That kind of change comes with guilt. If J, G were shown feeling guilty of their behavior, people will not wish for their downfall. Trust me..people here are kind hearted😉.

You think it is absolutely fine on J's part to marry G cause he thought his marriage with A was illegal? Yes for a lperson like J, it should be fine..but people who think things on the base of morality can never support such actions🤢. And by the time the mistress madamji came to know of her illegal marriage, it was too late huh? not at all!!...by that time except that illegal secret marriage , nothing happened...atleast as shown by the cV's. Only after she knew EVERYTHING, after an episode of screeches, she went forward and slept with A's husband and thus earned the MISTRESS title🤢🤢

"If the Singh's had accepted Gauri then they would be saying yes to bigamy, insulting two women, insulting you family and insulting your upbringing.
If singh's were so much against bigamy and disgusted with jagia, why they immidiately didnot apply for divorce? Anandi madamji who is epitome of selfrespecting woman why she npot go for divorce? Why DS has to force her for divorce?"

Here, i fail to understand ur logic. Why should they apply for divorce if they hate bigamy. I think they should actually file a case on JB and his mistress instead of making A apply for divorce. But for all we know, the Singh's have been tooo kind with these 2 ungrateful creatures. And btw, when did DS force A to divorce JB??DS asked her..and A signed it...it was simple!!

Repentful souls need not be punished specifically. Their realization is their punishment. And hence, Bhairon, Sumi, DS, Bhago,Khazan have had their share. JB, his mistress and her respectful mummyji and dadyji should be punished till all the viewers are satisfied cause they will never change. JB is required to change though..cause he needs to beg Anandi and the Singh family to accept him😛


elasingh thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 13 years ago
#45


He understand marriage when it comes to Gauri but not when it comes to Anandi 🤪
He was old enough to celebrate a "suhaag raat" with Anandi but not old enough to recognize that marriage comes with its share of responsibilites. Gimme a break

Yes he understands marriage when it comes to G because he married her as an adult.How old was he when he celebrated suhaagraat with anandi? How many ppl understand consequences of their actions at that age?

Anybody with half a brain would have realized that if he did this Anandi would have no where to go, but then he is the very selfish so as long as he is happy the rest of the world can go take a hike. Who is Anandi after all? Just some gal who served his family and him for a while right? Who cares what happens to her as long as he is happy with his new wife. 🤪

Anandi was taken care of by his own family. Aur kitna support aur sympathy chahiye?
Excuse me but Gauri had managed come out of that and gotten an education. She did not remember it and seemed to be fine when she was running around trying to get Jagya to fall for her. Tell me are these the actions of a traumatized young girl. Bhairon made sure she was educated. He tried to make restitution.
Bhairav helped gauri to become a doc .No big deal. They have to rectify their mistakes.
DS has had to go through her own version of hell because she has gotten very attached to Anandi and seeing her cry hurts her too. Every action of her favorite grandson has the capacity to hurt her and will continue to do so. Seeing what he has becomes is her biggest punishment.
Ds has paid very little not that I want her to pay

OK so the marriage may have been illegal in their minds but what about the moral responsibility that Jagya had towards a girl who spent more of her life with him than she did with her parents? Apparently that counts for nothing. Your selfishness and your needs are always paramount. I wonder if Jagya supporters would still support him if he ditches Gauri for another woman. 😆 😆 😆
Anandi definitely spent more time with singh's then with her parents but it is not jagi's fault. It is the fault of both sets of parents. If he ditches gauri for someone else then I m sure this forum will throw a party.And singh's are doing their moral responsibility towards anandi.


Anandi's biggest fear in going for the divorce was that she was going to lose her family because Jagya was the link tying her to the Singhs. Remember she was scared even the day before the divorce and Sumitra calmed her.
Singhs knew that they will never ditch anandi so why didn't they assure her. I will tell u why? Bcoz they were waiting for jagat to ditch gauri and come back to them. Are they any better?😉
They have suffered seeing their daughter suffer. Is that not enough. Bhago died because of what happened to her daughter and Khajjan is suffering every minute. For a parent, seeing your child's life destroyed in front of you is the worst thing. Also if a parent is self-respecting, watching their son insult them and their upbringing is one of the worst things. So yes everyone has suffered because of Jagya's irresponsible actions. Gauri and Jagya's inablity to take responsibility for their own actions have hurt a lot of people.
If parents are suffering it is their own fault. Plz dont blame Jagat and gauri for it.

What Jagya and Gauri did to Anandi was wrong - morally, ethically and in any other way. You can sugarcoat the truth but the truth is always bitter. It takes a strong individual to face the truth, accept their mistakes and make amends. Jagya has shown some inclination but not enough. Gauri has shown none.The bottomline is neither of them have the guts to face what they did and how many lives they destroyed. Bhago suffered and lot paid the ultimate price for getting her daughter married as a child. How much more do you want her to pay?
Bhago didnot die bcoz of jagat. It was her own guilt killing her.
elasingh thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 13 years ago
#46
@live2laugh You have made me type so much. Maine zindagi mein kabhi itna type nahi kiya hai. I m very lazy.
Piyuu_SRK thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#47
@elasingh... lol you are talking like Gauri, ''aur kitni sympathy chahiye''. She dont do anything for sympathy. Moreover, jagiya was 18 when he slept with Anandi. Adult !! Old enough to sleep with her !

Seriously i thought of not commenting, but your comments are now irritating me ! Saying is a lot easy ! We are taking Anandi's side because we are putting ourselves at her place ! Place yourself or your sister or any girl with whom you are close, in Anandi's shoes and then think ! Whatever Gauri did is WRONG ! No lame and baseless excuses can save her !

The point is she is not even confessing that she did a mistake !! DS, Sumitra, Bhairon everyone has confessed that they did a mistake ! They also have suffered a lot ! They have also lost their SON ! What has Gauri lost ?? She have jagiya and her parents, a good job, money...everything. Jagiya has lost his family. Sugna has lost a brother ! Anandi has lost her husband and even her mother, hence all her happiness. Everyone has lost something or other but Gauri has laddoos in both of her hands ! She is not confesding her mistake but also defending her mistake and that shows that inspite of being so well educated she is inhuman and senseless !!
elasingh thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 13 years ago
#48
@piya If my comments irritate you then don't read.
Piyuu_SRK thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: elasingh

@piya If my comments irritate you then don't read.


they are coming in between, now what a poor girl like me can do ? 😭 😭
lol 🤣
Piyuu_SRK thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#50
@pratima : stop poking your nose you little brat 😛

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".