Has anandi learned nothing? - Page 3

Originally posted by: tinoo

The point which needs to be underscored is that ofcourse where there is trust there is no suspicion...

asha trusted the sadhu baba like a father and ended up in his bedroom looking for advice.

anandi too trusted shravan and her sixth sense was really great with him, and she kept on hanging out with him ... only to be kidnapped and betrayed by him...

So, then it begs the question as to why she does not question her sixth sense ...

she has also cried about it in front of shiv "all the gaanv waalas speak as if i am loose character... na jaane kab se mai aise baatein sunte aa rahi hoo apne baare mei" 😭😭😭

so then I dont understand why she doesnt take preventive measures ..

I mean even if she feels comfortable with him, and trusts him, what is the need to invite him upstairs into the room? just because he is a collector? why?

Cant she go and fetch the kurta herself and come downstairs and give it to him? and then ask him to go upstairs into a room or bathroom by himself later on to change?

The point I'm making is that not everyone has to be a sleazy creep to molest/rape you... even the people you think are good are pretty much the same many times...so some preventive behaviour might have been good.

Originally posted by: tinoo

sometimes people will interact with you several times to build your confidence in them -- it is not instantaneous jumping on someone the minute you are alone.

asha had been going to sadhubaba since she was 10 or 11 and was eventually molested by him when she was in her twenties.

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Tinoo - ur kyun kyun posts drive me qwazy or crack me up... U think she likes victimization and now wants to be raped🤔 LOL!

Sorry khote aapke soch mein hai Anandi ki characterization mein nahi. No woman enjoys domestic abuse and no woman invites rape not with what they wear or by inviting a guy to change his wet clothes in her father's bedroom or even her own. THAT IS RIDICULOUS.

I lived in dorms for years and invited boys to my room plenty-of-times...I even occasionally fed them. I did same when I lived on my own sans roommates. Could those guys have overpowered me and raped me - YES! But, they were my friends and DIDN'T. Will ur lecture prevent me in the future from inviting guys to my home? NO!

WHY? WHY? Why? I have faith in my JUDGMENT and HUMANITY. And maybe Anandi has same. Shiv didn't turn into a deranged rapist at the bedroom door.

BTW...rape... acquaintance rape can happen anywhere even in a Jeep in the middle of the field! So, please feel free to kyun kyun kyun next time Collectorsaab offers Anandi a ride and she takes it too. Maybe Anandi should sit at home and do nothing as that's safest, haan! On 2nd thot duniya badi zaalim hai - she may get hit by a Q even at home by u!😆

Originally posted by: tinoo

monamie -- when the singhs want her to get closer to him, I am sure that they dont mean take him up to her bedroom. 😆 There are still limits within their minds of how close she should get. 😆😆

even if i agree with u that she invited shiv in her bedroom bcoz she wanted to go close to him then also i don find its so bad!! 😆 if shiv wants to marry her, touch her hair..then why can't anandi!? does not matter what u think that her family thinks 😛

as far as her saying "aage mat badhiye" -- that is not a preventive measure -- and that had nothing to do with rape/molestation.

yes it was not related to rape...but shiv was stepping forward to touch her 😉 that is why she asked him "age mat badiya"!! and i think that "age mat badiye" had a inner meaning too...not sure if u have understood it! so for me it was a preventive measure...that anandi asked him not to think about her or treat her like his future wife!! 😛

I felt she need not have gone to him at all -- because he was not the one who had proposed -- her dadisa was the one who proposed. so why go and yell at him to begin with? she should have shouted only at dadisa and asked dadisa to clarify to him that she is not interested in marring him.

shiv has encouraged dadisa by saying a YES! so anandi asked him why he is encouraging her family member!! i don think it was so wrong of anandi to shout at him!

after going there if she shouts "aage mat badhiye" what is the meaning of that?

Trusting someone is fine, but taking them up to your bedroom is a little ridiculous.

really?

anandi took him to the bed room so that he can change his cloths there in the bed room and not in the hall!! 😆...as simple as that! u r looking into in from a different angle...