Is jagat really wrong??? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Gocilija

Sir I know jagat has wrong attitude from the beginning.
My ques is he should break marriage or not??
He had spent 5 yrs(8-12) and some month of adulthood( at the age of 19). I think he hides the matter for 5 yrs may be because he upset with his family not anandi. I know it is also wrong but u find his parent also had wrong attitude. Did bhairo or ds admit in front of him that they had done wrong with him and anandi?

The answer would be of course YES ! The family did wrong to both of them ! Both of them should have the new chance if they find out that they could not continue anymore together.

The main subject of any relationship is LOVE - if there are no more love, from either side, then there are no more purpose of keeping such marriage or relationship to goes on.

Even in normal marriages it happens that people couldn't stay together from many reasons - it is not important, but what is important is THE MANNER how people are finding THE WAY OUT FROM SUCH SITUATION, avoiding any kind of humiliation or hurting the other side, to behave with respect to the partner in order not to loose self-respect . This is the main point !

We can only discuss here the reasons why he has hiding his new relationship from family and Anandi, as well as his marriage form Gaur ! The only reason is his character.

His character of a spoiled lazy boy grew into the character of a weakling, a coward man with lacks the courage to face the truth, to accept his guilt and admitted his mistakes and shortcomings. Strict upbringing, family pressure on him that at all costs must comply with set tasks of grandmother and father, long influenced family permissiveness has affect on the formation of his personality, which is unable to independently make a decisions and to accept the responsibility for his action.

Originally posted by: Gocilija

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I understand that someone could fall in love in some later phase of his life, after he already has been married. But what about fer play towards partner with whom he has spent 18 years ? What about honesty, sincerity to tell partner what is going on, what happens, what has been changed in your life ?
That is the point, not because he has fall in love with Gauri or because of his right to have new begging . This is OK,, but the way he did all this is the problem.