Does Jogia require Sangarsh?

Shiv told Daadiji that JB is a spoiled rich guy who needs to needs Sangarsh (struggle?) to grow up. Is he right? Struggle requires tenacity, which I am not sure Jogia has. Or is his moral compass/conscience just broken? Or is it that he's easily influenced and/or attracted by whatever is the latest bright shiny object? What is Jogia's real character flaw? Too much pride? Too little shame? An absurd sense of entitlement?

All of the above?😉 When jagya went, 'har koi apni position ka rohab jhadta hai" or something like that, my gut reaction was that you are doing it even without a high position.😆

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Jagya is a rich spoiled brat
born with a golden spoon in his mouth
Pampered from then until adulthood
Life for him has always been smooth.

It has given him a sense of entitlement
with no thought to any sense of self betterment
He is selfish and self centered as they come
His ego is as big as a mountain

He never has had to work for anything in his life
Everything has come easy to him including his legal wife
He did not have to woo her or worry about losing her
He knew she was his and come what may
With him until eternity she would have to stay.

His sense of false pride is another attribute
To many of his problems this does contribute
For another woman his childhood lover this man did forsake
He cared not for the hurt he gave her, he cared not for her heartbreak.

He cared not for how this would hurt his parents
He cared not for any of the consequences
All he wanted was a life with a girl he thought was best suited
Little did he know in fantasy and not in reality his dreams were rooted.

His new love destroyed his career and insulted him at every turn
Jagya is no slouch so he insults her in return
But the truth of the matter is that he cannot seem to hold down a job
He drowns his sorrows in alcohol, wonder who pays the tab? 🤔

His weakness and his lack of spine caused him to misread situations
His idea to split from his family was just one of his bad decisions
Only someone like the pushover Anandi was can live with a man like him
The Anandi now will kick him to the kerb if he ever comes back on a whim 😆

Every action of his is laced with his arrogance and conceit
But at the same time he is too blind to recognize Gauri's deceit
His immaturity caused his to make a mistake
That changed the course of his life
He is now stuck with a life that is full of nothing but strife
Personally and professionally life is an uphill battle
It now remains to be seen if Jagya life can ever become stable.

Anjana if you remember on the road before the fight between J and Shiv, J told Shiv something on the lines of "Main jo bhi karoonga apni marzi se karoonga and like he will not listen to anyone. This does show his bratty behavior. He did come across as someone who got everything he wanted in life easily without having to crave for it. That's probably why he mentioned about the struggle.

Well about J's true nature, he was a spoiled brat of his DS who's mistakes were always covered by someone or the other. The only person who he really fears is his father. Hence he has never learned to take responsibility for his actions. He was richer than the other kids in the village and so was always one up when it came to materialistic things. He always wanted everyone to run around him and treat him like a lord. What he wanted he got without having to worry too much. That made him stubborn and never stop and think of the importance of money or relationships. I wouldn't completely term him as a person who had only affection towards his family for materialistic things but yes a lot of his relationships were based on this very criteria. He always runs behind something new and what is not his. Once he secures it he slowly looses interest in it and cares less for it. To add to it he has a huge ego, is very brash and the worst, takes his close relationships for granted. He was forgiven every time he made a mistake without having to pay a big price for his actions (except a few times by Bhairav). But with this notion he crossed the line so much that he did not realize that there is no redemption after that. He does know that he is wrong deep down but he doesn't know how to come out of it. He is just living life one day at a time without thinking of the future coz neither does he have to courage nor the maturity to face the muck that he has got himself into.

Excellent observation Anjana. I think all the flaws you mentioned are present in hi
And that is why he is the way he is 😕

Koi ek flaw ho toh bataon... his personality is laden with flaws!

I believe he thinks he's perfect. He is that saturated with Ego, Vanity, and Pride that he cannot even look clearly at himself and what others view of him

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Shiv told Daadiji that JB is a spoiled rich guy who needs to needs Sangarsh (struggle?) to grow up. Is he right? Struggle requires tenacity, which I am not sure Jogia has. Or is his moral compass/conscience just broken? Or is it that he's easily influenced and/or attracted by whatever is the latest bright shiny object? What is Jogia's real character flaw? Too much pride? Too little shame? An absurd sense of entitlement?

Originally posted by: persistence

All of the above?😉 When jagya went, 'har koi apni position ka rohab jhadta hai" or something like that, my gut reaction was that you are doing it even without a high position.😆

Once upon a time there was an arrogant prince

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

I agree with Shiv, it is a lack of struggle. Jagiya is used to getting everything he wants. He is a rich spoil brat. When things have taken a bad turn, he is not able to face them. This is because he has never faced any pain in real life.He cannot struggle not because he can't but because he has taken that decision to give up at smallest amount of pain and disagreement life offers 😊.

I disagree with you that Jagya lacks tenancity. No one lacks it. It is not an inborn quality, it is something acquired. At simple level it is a decision of not giving up, not allowing the worse to affect you, like Anandi 😊. Any body can struggle provided they decide. Jagia has choosen to not struggle. When situations went wrong all he does is drinks, in other words tries to escape from pain, than face it. So in my opinion it is his choice than ability 😊.

Yes I agrree with you he is easily influenced 😆 but this flaw too can be corrected 😊