Even Shiv needs to Heal!!

You know guys I was so wondering that how this Ansh track will proceed after the divorce.How will Shiv heal anandi's wounds?Through words?By saving her from another danger?By taking care of her likes/dislikes?By giving respect and appreciation to her?By consoling her? So many ways but nothing apt for Anandi!! Bcoz our Anandi is different.😳 She is not any random London chic who will be wooed by his charm so easily. She doesnt need all this.She needs something else.Something I was not getting.Something my mind coulnt pin-point.But tonite I have somewhat understood what it could be - It could be a bond of pain.A touch of mutual healing.

Shiv is an extremely good-looking,intelligent,rich,sweet and caring person.Yet he is alone.He is stern and reserved.He has so much anger and rage in him.Repeatedly he says or does something which makes me feel his loneliness.His family doesn't wish him on his bday...ok his mom does but that too at night.He gets so overwhelmed by the little care Anandi shows for his health.Even today the words.."mujhe pyaar hai tumhari parwah se" clearly show how much he craves for love and concern.He gets teary seeing his bday preps.I wonder a person like him ideally shud have seen lots of such parties...even more hippier than this in london...but still he is all touched by the party preps-point to be noted-He is stern and emotionless but the party makes him a behave like a total opposite.He says "aaj to bheem singh bhi mera bday bhool gaya".Thats whats his reality.His PA is probably the few persons he expects the most 2 remember his bday.I even have more instances to support his loneliness but u all know.

So all this brings me to the conclusion that its not only Anandi who needs to get healed but its shiv too.I dont know why and how.But he needs to that I know.Today we dont know anything about him.About his family.His father. But surely all his sternness and his anger hides a pain.A pain which only Anandi can heal.And what better way of re-bonding a relationship than a common pain?? Sometimes a common pain is the biggest medicine.Sometimes you cant share your pain with any stranger.Bcoz you think it will project you as a weak person.You dont have the trust to share your such sensitive part of your life with someone you dont know much.And that is why Anandi will never share any of her pains with Shiv herself.How many times he may ask but she wont say.But when she will realize that may be he too has someway gone through a feeling of loneliness and he hides a vulnerable self beneath his tough outward...only then she can become comfortable enough to discuss her pain with him.Only then their mutual and simultaneous healing can occur.

I dont know guys but I really wish that she finds out the reason that why is he like this.Despite being such a good human being why is he so hot-headed?Why is he so stern and harsh??This is something I really want Anandi to introspect into.

👏..very nice malika

All your points make sense. But, I hope aisa kuch na ho. I think the Cvs are yet to sketch Shiv's family. I hope he is a from a loving family. I don't want to see sadness in such a positive chararcter that is Shiv.

I m dead sure he is Bhairav's son and Jagia's elder brother. I just pray that I m wrong .

dont know about his past but their is shure soem thing their

relationships that bond over pain and problems turn out to be sick unhealthy relationships.

Originally posted by: elasingh

I m dead sure he is Bhairav's son and Jagia's elder brother. I just pray that I m wrong .

👍🏼Totally agreed with ur all points... there is something painful abt Shiv which is yet to reveal. The way his character is portrayed.. shows tht he needs to be healed. And their pain can be a bridge for their love.

Interesting thought. Maybe he does have some hidden dard/past or he is just civic minded serious guy focused on his job. Maybe I am projecting, but am similar to him. I have an abrasive anti-social sarcastic demeanor... doesn't mean I don't care... actions speak for themselves, succinct presentations/communication is more impactful, i respect everyone equally, and am good to good & bad to bad. As an only child with parents that traveled a lot, I didn't see the point of developing friendships but, my parents taught me to contribute to community positively...so, I do (work and volunteer work). If his dad is in the army then he might have had parallel experience and values for similar reasons.

Originally posted by: tinoo

relationships that bond over pain and problems turn out to be sick unhealthy relationships.

relationships that bond over joy turn out to be beautiful healthy relationships.

I would hate for mutual pain to be the commonality between shiv and anandi -- and I dont want them to function as each others therapists.

NO-I DISAGREE!!

If thats so tinoo then I think u need to think once more.The relationships founded on pain are the strongest of all.Bcoz this world itself is a bed of thorns.Every gold has to pass its test of flames.I woud love to give an example to you.Abt 3 years ago I had this classmate of mine who was assigned a 6 month project with me.At that time we were not frnds.One day when we were sitting together for some discussion and she broke in front of me.She had actually been thru a bitter break up and her other 2 frnds were not talking to her bcoz she didnt tell them that she had been a in a relationship with a close friend since 4 months.The break up was that guy's fault bcoz he started dating someone else.But it was her who got the punishment.She lost her frnds' trust and hurted herself as well.And even the secret keeping thing was the guy's idea.

Now she came in my life at that time.We were just project partners.She broke down in front of me and one of my best frnds.She was so badly crying at that time that we guys cudnt stop but control and listen to her.After that as we worked together on our project for six months our bonding got more and more strong.She always told abt how he feels away from her bf,her frustrations,her pain,she used to cry for minutes on phone and I used to just listen.And today we are the best of the friends.And the reason is that somewhere I cud understand her pain.Even I had been through something which I cud relate to her pain.We became each others biggest confiders.Even when she got her 2 earlier friends back...the bond between us never got affected.Rather she came more closer to me.And we are the best of friends.

So why I gave you this example is that PAIN u know Tinoo is that one emotion that can bring even strangers closer.Its that one emotion which can bring you well-wishers and friends you never thought u wud get.Bcoz a bond of pain gets you ppl in ur life who know you not from ur achievements or looks or money but from the fact that how strongly u fought the battles of ur life.If Anandi would not have been married in such a small age and it wud have been her first marriage then I wud have agreed with you but now the situation is different.What all occupies Anandi's past present and future is PAIN.And the person who can heal this pain is the only one who can become her life partner.And there is no better way of healing pain than sharing it.