BV 4th July 2012 Written Update - COMPLETE - Page 4

Originally posted by: andv

Thanks for the update.

Love the way the story is progressing. The CVs are treating the track well. First A's anger, then her refusal to face Shiv are all natural for a girl in her position. It will take loads of convincing herself before she even thinks of considering someone for marriage.

I was relieved after her conversation with Ashi yesterday where she no way said that she loves J. That was something I was guessing from her behavior but glad the CVs reassured my doubts 😃.

Shiv's behavior towards the situation is perfect. He understands her pain and is ready to wait for her without pressurizing her.

Also great to see J not going to create any problems in the way of the divorce. Cannot wait to see A getting rid of the name of this spineless, selfish guy.

Originally posted by: dixie123

I am sure he doesn't yet understand the extent of her pain since he doesn't know her full story. But he does have an idea of the extent of hurt she has faced from her reactions in the past and also the fact that she was married to her estranged husband as a kid. Nobody can understand the extent of pain of an individual than the person him/herself who is going through it. But that's where sympathy/empathy counts, an attempt to understand what a person is going through and genuinely acknowledge it. I do not doubt that Shiv recognizes her pain and is willing to support her if she gives him a chance. The more he starts getting to know her, his understanding of her pain and outburst is only going to increase. It will be then left to see if he is still ready to support her all along or not.

Thanks for the update.

What does Anandi think of the school children?are they cultural troupe to do dance programs on each n every occasion ?

After seeing the precap from yesterday's episode the only image I have in my mind is of Shiv slapping Jagat I cant wait to see that😃

Why do everyone think that a girl's life is complete only when she is married to someone.. Why is this supposed to be the End Stage / Holi grail of a girl's Life.

We did see once in A's life what has happened when the "Elders" have chosen her partner. Dosen't she deserve to choose her partner on her own terms / time lines or will we see the "Elders" forcing the kids into relationship that they think are the only option.

thank you for update.