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vsumeetha

@vsumeetha

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Posted: 13 years ago

As much as I love to see J and G suffering for his misdeeds and bad behavior, don't you guys think that the CVs are giving the wrong message.

If a boy and girl have a child marriage, then in all probability they will turn out to be incompatible after they grow up and the boy might abandon the girl and leave.

So far things were good. J left A and hooked up with G. But now J is having all the problems in the world with G. If they showed J happy with G it would drive the message really home. But no now J and G will separate and J will be back in Jetsar trying his luck with A.

If J and G remain together no matter what the circumstances then the CVs would have done justice to the message they are trying to promote.

Do you think I am right?

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ankit111

@ankit111

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Posted: 13 years ago

First of all, still they hv not shown tht J is returning to Jeitsar and most importantly A accepting him, so its very early to comment on this track and blame CVs. Secondly its depend on how u r taking message. If they will show JAGO living happily, after giving so much trouble to others, its also can give wrong message tht make others life hell and live happy😆 if they will show Gouri winning after all her planning and plotting, it can also give a wrong message tht only u can win by planning plotting😡 so so far CVs r going absolutely on rit direction, by showing evil of child marriage by seperating JAAN, at the same time showing how this same child marriage excuse r being used by some people just to defend their evil intention, another evil effect of child marriage. By showing kich kich between Jago, they r also giving message tht u cant build ur happy home on the ruin of others life👏 so great job by CVs👏

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leo4ever

@leo4ever

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: vsumeetha
As much as I love to see J and G suffering for his misdeeds and bad behavior, don't you guys think that the CVs are giving the wrong message. not at all!! infact it needs to be more stressed as right now only j is getting the brunt with g feeling the vioctim and the bechari mode only!! 😡

If a boy and girl have a child marriage, then in all probability they will turn out to be incompatible after they grow up and the boy might abandon the girl and leave. this is for the consequneces of bv, it is woirng to expect the kids to honor commitments that are made by parents and also sometimes decisons come to bite u in the ass( return of dr guriya) 😆

So far things were good. J left A and hooked up with G. But now J is having all the problems in the world with G. If they showed J happy with G it would drive the message really home.no, they are not showing the problem in j g coz to show that first marriage is good, it is simple that when u hurt somone cheat, do injustice u will never be happy, But no now J and G will separate and J will be back in Jetsar trying his luck with A. why are they being punishd here is my take

j was wrong that he cheated her for five years- he lied to her, insulted her, broke her he is getting punished for it!

g also yes she ddnt directly break the home- when j was already astray but could have done the decent thing- asked for j a divorce first then marry- i wld have respected her then

after the m the leagal n she is not , the real fight of vengance btwn g n singhs the manipulation

the deciet the arrogrance the fact that they both are better than a n all is caused by her

they are suffering more coz of their own baggage not leting go- bhai u got married u are saath ur edicated then y harbor olsdstuff let go- no , will never let go, facsinated by a n her dev, with no thoughts of own?

Do you think I am right? so i feel they are geting thier share of the hurt the injustice they didi in thier quest of happiness and that is a great message - u cant be happy standing on the ahes of burnt bodies!!

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leo4ever

@leo4ever

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ankit111
First of all, still they hv not shown tht J is returning to Jeitsar and most importantly A accepting him, so its very early to comment on this track and blame CVs. Secondly its depend on how u r taking message. If they will show JAGO living happily, after giving so much trouble to others, its also can give wrong message tht make others life hell and live happy😆 if they will show Gouri winning after all her planning and plotting, it can also give a wrong message tht only u can win by planning plotting😡 so so far CVs r going absolutely on rit direction, by showing evil of child marriage by seperating JAAN, at the same time showing how this same child marriage excuse r being used by some people just to defend their evil intention, another evil effect of child marriage. By showing kich kich between Jago, they r also giving message tht u cant build ur happy home on the ruin of others life👏 so great job by CVs👏

excellent if they showed j g happy it will justify cheating ur wife leaving her broken and destroying her esteem🤢

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Mehek25

@Mehek25

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by ankit111

First of all, still they hv not shown tht J is returning to Jeitsar and most importantly A accepting him, so its very early to comment on this track and blame CVs. Secondly its depend on how u r taking message. If they will show JAGO living happily, after giving so much trouble to others, its also can give wrong message tht make others life hell and live happy😆 if they will show Gouri winning after all her planning and plotting, it can also give a wrong message tht only u can win by planning plotting😡 so so far CVs r going absolutely on rit direction, by showing evil of child marriage by seperating JAAN, at the same time showing how this same child marriage excuse r being used by some people just to defend their evil intention, another evil effect of child marriage. By showing kich kich between Jago, they r also giving message tht u cant build ur happy home on the ruin of others life👏 so great job by CVs👏

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Very well said Ankitt...I also believe that if they had shown JG being happy together then the message would have been wrong...But by showing this they are showing that what J believed to be sona is actually peetal (Gauri)...and whom he rejected as uneducated and not moving with the times actually is a strong girl who even after being rejected has moved on in life...G's selfishness and her obsession with her career at the expense of all others is in great contrast with Anandi's selfless love...

Hope J goes back to A and she refuses him...As I am sure she will...

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..Tangled..

@..Tangled..

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Posted: 13 years ago

Jagya is someone who can never ever be happy with even the best people(his family),best job(which he doesnt deserve and will never get),best wife(which anandi was). He is just a greedy,jealous,mental,moron.He deserves all the pain,unhappiness,torture of the world!!😈

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nirvana1328

@nirvana1328

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

i think this track where they're showing J &G finghting is not to give a message to soceity abt Child Marriage and its evils. Rather, they're trying to bring in the angle of male chauvanism and ego and how that can hamper even a marriage supposedly base on "Love".

The whole track may be slightly misplaced considering that she stokes the fire of his ego but i guess it also brings to light the fact that his upbringing had a lot to do with the kind of man he is.

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Monamie

@monamie111

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

gauri and jaggya r the most selfish character of this show...not only selfish but also mean...i have not forget it how they insulted anandi without any reason and made her cry 😡...they have hurt many people for their own self interest..they never cared for anyone whether it is DS or it is bade papa or someone else...as a viewer i don want to see them happy!! for me it would be a wrong message if CVs will make them happy...they made people suffer...so now they have to suffer!!... 😡

there may be many other viewers like me who want to see them suffering...and CVs know it very well...why they will loose their TRP by showing them happy?

moreover, i can not see love, respect, trust etc which r needed for a relationship to work for life long...between jaggya and gauri...a relationship like this can not sustain for a long time...they do not trust each other, do not respect each other and i think this is the reason that they r unhappy today..

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Shreya

@CeruleanSky

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: vsumeetha
As much as I love to see J and G suffering for his misdeeds and bad behavior, don't you guys think that the CVs are giving the wrong message.

If a boy and girl have a child marriage, then in all probability they will turn out to be incompatible after they grow up and the boy might abandon the girl and leave.

So far things were good. J left A and hooked up with G. But now J is having all the problems in the world with G. If they showed J happy with G it would drive the message really home. But no now J and G will separate and J will be back in Jetsar trying his luck with A.

If J and G remain together no matter what the circumstances then the CVs would have done justice to the message they are trying to promote.

Do you think I am right?

Not really...I think that whatever problems Jagya and Gauri are facing right now, is independent of the child marriage question. The possibility, and very often actual eventuality of the child couple breaking up because one partner deserts the other, isn't the only drawback of child marriage. It usually hampers academic progress and hence economic independence of the child-bride, there's the danger of premature pregnancy, and I think it was a good point Anandi made the other day when she spoke to the reporters: it's as bad for the child-groom. :S And I think the creatives have so far done a decent job of driving home the fact that child marriage breeds a whole host of social evils in turn...not just through the JA relationship, but also the other instances they showed: Sugna becoming a widow initially, what happened with Phooli, etc. Therefore, their portrayal of the J-G relationship as fraying now doesn't impact the child marriage message in my opinion...I think all the problems Jagya and Gauri are facing right now, show how you need to think things through before leaping into a relationship...and honestly, these two might have been crazy in love at one point of time, but now they're simply not the ideal of a marriage. You'd expect people in a marriage to try and respect each other equally, but here it seems more like they're caught in a constant race to further their own interests...Gauri hid the fact that her bade-papa isn't on talking terms with her any more, and that she'd recommended J to her hospital's HR people. On the other hand, this guy goes around selling his stuff to get money for 'better' clothes...😆 Their characters just come across as incredibly self-centred to me now :S

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: vsumeetha

If J and G remain together no matter what the circumstances then the CVs would have done justice to the message they are trying to promote.

Do you think I am right?

I think that J and G remaining together no matter what the circumstances does not promote anything.

While child marriages are one completely different issue ... adult "marriages" (cough cough) can only be successful if they are built on a foundation of genuine respect, honesty and truth... this so called marriage built on dis-respect for each other, dis-respect for others, constant lying and constant putting down of others is never going to be successful in the long run. Life is not all about cooking biryani and eating chaat or drinking pepsi out of the same bottle with multiple straws.

Yes, an adult marriage built on honesty, and genuine love for the other person (as opposed to sticking with him because of vindictiveness towards his family) can survive.

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