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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anybody notice how every thing that happened to Jagya right now also happend to Anandi at one point in her life?
Anandi also had to put an end to her education for the sake of a family member.
That time it was Dadisa's health. She had a heart problem and asked Anandi to burn all her books and she had to do it for her sake. Even with a valid reason, she was ridiculed and degraded by her spouse.
Jagya couldn't finish his MS for badi masiji. Even though he has a valid reason to go home, it is not understood and respected by Gauri. Even though she's not as mean as Jagya was to Anandi, he is still facing his consequences.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: apalepu

Anybody notice how every thing that happened to Jagya right now also happend to Anandi at one point in her life?

Anandi also had to put an end to her education for the sake of a family member.
That time it was Dadisa's health. She had a heart problem and asked Anandi to burn all her books and she had to do it for her sake. Even with a valid reason, she was ridiculed and degraded by her spouse.
Jagya couldn't finish his MS for badi masiji. Even though he has a valid reason to go home, it is not understood and respected by Gauri. Even though she's not as mean as Jagya was to Anandi, he is still facing his consequences.

i think gauri is not nearly as mean to jagiya as jagiya was to anandi. gauri is not trying to make jagiya feel inferior , if he is thats becuase of his own mental make up which is not very logical due to male ego.
also gauri had tried to save jaggi's career by going to warn him , jaggi never encouraged anandi at all.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: earth1978

i think gauri is not nearly as mean to jagiya as jagiya was to anandi. gauri is not trying to make jagiya feel inferior , if he is thats becuase of his own mental make up which is not very logical due to male ego.
also gauri had tried to save jaggi's career by going to warn him , jaggi never encouraged anandi at all.

I know... In face, she's not being mean at all but she thinks that he should not have gone to Jaitsar in the first place. She does not respect his care for his family. Dats why she kept telling him not to go to Jaitsar or maybe it was because she was scared Sumitra will tell him everything. I also feel like she's hiding some things she feels about him because she doesn't want to loose her challenge. She used to call him a liar a lot before. She probably also thinks he is irresponsible.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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look logically speaking his going to jaistsar was the reason why jagiya is int his quagmire.
if he wanted to go to badi masi ji then he shoundt have stayed so long. he cud have excused himself after a few days by explaining her about his exams.
jagiya cant seem to do anythign sensible.
from her perspective gauri is right ... going to jaitsar in that critical moment did ruin his career.
then after returning he was just dbarred which meant he cud appear now in next session ... he instead of going to the dean and requesting him to give himself one more chance , faught with him! resulting in the dean throing him out.
ab iske liye gauri jimmedar kaise hai?
if he has indeed screwed his career for badi masi by thinkign him being at her side was more important than his exams, why this frustration now? he shudnt have this and mind whatever position he is getting. he is simply trying to make gauri his punch bag liek he did anandi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: earth1978

look logically speaking his going to jaistsar was the reason why jagiya is int his quagmire.

if he wanted to go to badi masi ji then he shoundt have stayed so long. he cud have excused himself after a few days by explaining her about his exams.
jagiya cant seem to do anythign sensible.
from her perspective gauri is right ... going to jaitsar in that critical moment did ruin his career.
then after returning he was just dbarred which meant he cud appear now in next session ... he instead of going to the dean and requesting him to give himself one more chance , faught with him! resulting in the dean throing him out.
ab iske liye gauri jimmedar kaise hai?
if he has indeed screwed his career for badi masi by thinkign him being at her side was more important than his exams, why this frustration now? he shudnt have this and mind whatever position he is getting. he is simply trying to make gauri his punch bag liek he did anandi.

I know omg! Marrying Jagat was probably the worst decision Gauri has ever made! He's soo immature and never takes responsibility for his own actions. Sometimes, It's hard to believe that he had two women after him at one point in his life. Im glad he got out of anandi's. She's free and herself now. Gauri can do whatever with this guy trying to win the "challenge". That's what I always wondered too.. Why did he have to stay for like more then two days.. Just go back right after holi for exams... that decision cannot be blamed on Badi Masiji... He probably thought Gauri will convince the deans to not debarr him the way she usually did.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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another important point is doctor especially a post graduate student cant just get up and disappear. he has to inform his superiors in writing so that they can arrange for another doctor to fill in his place. he did nto bother to inform hsi superiors on phone forget submitting an applicaion! he expected gauri to handle it for him!! how stupid is tat ... medical college hai koi tumhare ghar ki dukaan hai ki jab chah uthe aur chale gaye.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: earth1978

another important point is doctor especially a post graduate student cant just get up and disappear. he has to inform his superiors in writing so that they can arrange for another doctor to fill in his place. he did nto bother to inform hsi superiors on phone forget submitting an applicaion! he expected gauri to handle it for him!! how stupid is tat ... medical college hai koi tumhare ghar ki dukaan hai ki jab chah uthe aur chale gaye.

exactly! he just completely deserved to be debarred... It takes dedication to be anything big in life. Like the dean said... A doctor's first responsibility is towards his patients and every thing else comes after. When Jagat and Gauri left to get married for a month, Can you imagine how many sick people didn't have a doctor to treat them? Their friends had to do extra shifts to help their patients. Just ridiculous! The dean should've kicked out both of them a long time ago.. when they first left for a month to jaitsar right after they got married... The dean was actually really considerate for both of them. He just lost it at the last minute.

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