Is it so difficult for men ?

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Teeya

@Teeya

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#11

haan hota hai difficult lekin pati ke liye kyunki patni ke niche kaam kartein waqt use hamesha yahi lagta hai ki wohi patni se bahetar kaam kar shaktein hai. yeh mera khud ka anubhav hai.mera mere pati ke sath is baare mein kahi baar anban ho chuki hai baad mein mein khud itni thak gayi ki maine mere pati ko kahe diya ki aap mere kaam main haath bataya naa kare. mein khud kar loongi 😆😆 lekin unho ne meri jelasi kabhi nahi ki meri success mein woh khush bhi hote the par kaam main woh chahtein the ki jeise woh kahe muje waisa hi karna hai jo ki muje manzoor nahi tha. baad mein hum dono ne sath mein beith kar us problem ko solv kar liya.

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prassy.kavi

@prassy.kavi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

most of the men have (80%) ego feeling if his wife is more educated than him/ earning money more then him and position also. the men who over come this will become like shiv and who wont will become like jagya saab.

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sreevask

@sreevask

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Whether its male or female,ego itself is a useless virtue..

Whenever there comes the option to choose ego & happiness, obviously the ego has to vanish off...as they r mutually exclusive.

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tinoo

@tinoo

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

I feel jagat is an idiot.

Even if he has a male ego, the male ego should come in only when he is proven less competent than his wife.

In this particular situation he should understand that the situation of his wife being a senior doctor and he being a junior doctor is one that is purely situational... it is not a reflection on his competence or his ability.

If both had MS and then he was put under gauri's leadership, I can understand that he has male ego problems.

But here she has an MS. Due to certain unfortunate judgement calls he has made, he has not completed his MS, and still has an MBBS... so owing to that situation he cannot get a comparable job.

It is only temporary. Once he completes his M.S. he will also get a comparable position.

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Rumjhum Laha

@Patrarekha

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

yes it is men and ego are completely synonyms

till now all marriage proposal broke just because i was doing job ...and their simple logic was if husband and wife both are working there would be none to take care of child..what a rubbish

and as now i had to leave job 4 higher studies and other prbs those proposals started coming again

i knw every men are not like that but in 21st century kolkata these persons exist who don't want a working woman as wife!!!
and most of them are higher educated .like doctor,govt engineer ,mba etc..

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shalluuu

@shalluuu

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

jagya himself is responsible for not clearing ms

i dont know where the problem lies in gauri...most of the time creatives have shown she cooked the food for two times and when it comes to jagat he feel shame in keeping bottle at bottom in front of his friends

friends were not teasing jagat only also but gauri also...aalo parantha wali wife but she was mute...why he feels inferior to gauri

"agar anandi k saath hota to anandi shiv k phone kaise attend krti"

problem lies in jagat if he will sop feeling inferior than the problem will solve...

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tweetie19

@tweetie19

Dazzler

+ 9

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Well...it depends...It is the general tendency of men that they dont like their wife to be more educated and smarter than them as it hurts their ego...but i have also seen and heard about men who motivate their wives to come up and actually feel happy on the wife's success...

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menusingh

@menusingh

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

problem lies mainly in jagat otherwise bhairon bhi to h who always give saath of sumitra and bcom happy with his bahu successs

when it comes to shiv " i cant go over his character so fast abi naya naya h"

to bring twist in tale dont know where creative will move his character

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Blukitten

@Blukitten

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: aru_86
<div></div>yes it is men and ego are completely synonyms [BR][BR]till now all marriage proposal broke just because i was doing job ...and their simple logic was if husband and wife both are working there would be none to take care of child..what a rubbish[BR][BR]and as now i had to leave job 4 higher studies and other prbs those proposals started coming again[BR][BR]i knw every men are not like that but in 21st century kolkata these persons exist who don't want a working woman as wife!!![BR]and most of them are higher educated .like doctor,govt engineer ,mba etc..[BR][BR]

[BR]next time wen somebody asks u to leave job just ask him can he support a family in single income nowdays even nursery admissions cost one lakhs will he be able to pay atleast kids school fees and finance ur shoppings.just see their reply its easy to say tht they dont want working wife i have seen so many families struggle because only the guy is earning.ask them some hard hitting questions on finance theyll come back on earth [:P]

Edited by nniks - 13 years ago