Negative Anandi

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Nach_Baliye

@Nach_Baliye

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Posted: 13 years ago

Okay so I named the topic as such as a cheap shot to get many views 😆

But seriously, while Anandi was walking away from Shiv after hearing Heth Singh's words, all the way to the haveli she was deeply hurt and could not get over his words. On the way two people greeted her with respect, but she could only think of HS' words about her being characterless and running away with someone. Shiv supported her, people spoke to her with respect, she went back home to a very loving family, yet none of that was bigger than HS' harsh words.

It is too soon for Anandi. How long has it been since the divorce proceeding incident? One month? 2 months? She is obviously still very hurt by anything related to Jagya. Her conscious mind was ignoring the positive around her, but her sub-conscious mind is aware of it, hence her dreaming of running behind Jagya where Jagya leaves her while Shiv helps her.

Her dream is similar to reality, where Shiv saved her in the horse carriage literally a day after she signed the divorce papers. So when she was dying inside, in all situations Shiv has come to her rescue. No matter what HS says, people around Anandi have a lot of respect for her, she has to learn to see that and put her past behind. Time will heal.

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sreevask

@sreevask

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Till the decree of divorce is released, Anandi is the legal wife of Jagya...that's the reason she needs time to convince herself as she is not an opportunistic lady to trap men..

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KwitKatts

@KwitKatts

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Nach_Baliye
Okay so I named the topic as such as a cheap shot to get many views 😆

But seriously, while Anandi was walking away from Shiv after hearing Heth Singh's words, all the way to the haveli she was deeply hurt and could not get over his words. On the way two people greeted her with respect, but she could only think of HS' words about her being characterless and running away with someone. Shiv supported her, people spoke to her with respect, she went back home to a very loving family, yet none of that was bigger than HS' harsh words.

It is too soon for Anandi. How long has it been since the divorce proceeding incident? One month? 2 months? She is obviously still very hurt by anything related to Jagya. Her conscious mind was ignoring the positive around her, but her sub-conscious mind is aware of it, hence her dreaming of running behind Jagya where Jagya leaves her while Shiv helps her.

Her dream is similar to reality, where Shiv saved her in the horse carriage literally a day after she signed the divorce papers. So when she was dying inside, in all situations Shiv has come to her rescue. No matter what HS says, people around Anandi have a lot of respect for her, she has to learn to see that and put her past behind. Time will heal.

@blue: Okay, now who said that all those good things you mentioned are not bigger than HS's words?? You misunderstood...

She is very much aware of her loving and trusting inlaws, the supportive villagers; and she does clearly mention that often. But does that mean she cant get hurt by her past?? She was traumatised by getting kidnapped!! And she is a HUMAN!! remember??

Human beings do have some fears and insecurities..the same way she has her own weakness.

And she is absolutely NOT negative!! She thinks positively, thats why she has reached so far.

You yourselself wrote "time will heal"...may i ask you how much 'fixed' time do you expect for something to heal?? Sweetheart, the 'time' you mentioned is never fixed😔 And time is not the only thing required for healing! Anandi is a kind of person who never talks out her problems; that factor goes against healing!

Injuries do heal but it leaves a scar behind. A healed person might not even be the same person he was before the injury (i mean mental not physical). And baby, even a healed person faces some occasional hurdles from their past.

[Oh baapre! mene kuch zyaada hi likh diya😆 ]

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Asi Jain

@Asi80

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

v true. anandi will gradually realise that jagya is the rotten part and shiv is like a new budding green leaf of her life.

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anshul

@milindrose

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

how come u think vague ,it is very difficult when someone talk about ur character to someone strange who wants to know u ,this was worst than the weapon war ,such alicious language can hurt a tru and honest person ,she was shown shivering thinking about such harsh words ,she is never negative ,this is her positive part when she reached home became normal with family👍🏼 love it way she bounds self

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Nach_Baliye

@Nach_Baliye

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: katts
@blue: Okay, now who said that all those good things you mentioned are not bigger than HS's words?? You misunderstood...
She is very much aware of her loving and trusting inlaws, the supportive villagers; and she does clearly mention that often. But does that mean she cant get hurt by her past?? She was traumatised by getting kidnapped!! And she is a HUMAN!! remember??
You yourselself wrote "time will heal"...may i ask you how much 'fixed' time do you expect for something to heal?? Sweetheart, the 'time' you mentioned is never fixed😔 And time is not the only thing required for healing! Anandi is a kind of person who never talks out her problems; that factor goes against healing!

You completely missed the point I was making. Anandi is aware of the love and respect around her, but in that moment she could only focus on HS' words which is completely understandable. Why else would the writers show people showing respect on her way back, but Anandi didn't hear them at all due to the deep pain.

I never said Anandi is not human, if anything I understand her pain. It has only been 1-2 months since her divorce, obviously she is going to take time to heal. I also didn't say that the "time to heal" is fixed, not sure if you are reading a different post. It always takes time to heal, and how much time depends on the person. Nobody can decide for someone else.

Anandi is very brave and strong, she has stayed true to herself despite everything going on around her. She is an inspiration for people around, she continues to hold strong and is not scared of a powerful politician or anyone else.

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