Are CV's reviving Gauri's character? - Page 4

Originally posted by: woman11

SRKLuvr, just a word of fact. Please don't comment on the dynamics of a married relationship unless you are yourself into it. Wait and watch till you get married😆. Until then its going to be an argument between people's real spouse and real households and your hypothetical spouse and hypothetical married life😆. There's a HUGE difference between theory and practice and mark my words, you will know when you step out of hypothesis to the actual experiment😆. There can't be any comparison between the two😆

For some situations yes you are right. For other situations you can know what you'll do even without being in it because that's your basic personality. I'm one to believe money arguments should never enter into a marriage. Its about absolute equality. What ive said isnt something where experience is needed its the basic norm that should be there in every husband-wife relationship. Anywayz recent episodes of BV have proved what I have been saying all along - these two don't share accounts.

Originally posted by: woman11

No I am not saying people who drive their babies to death go to jail. But the point is whether she is guilty or not. Not everything is adjudged by legal affairs. If I kill a pedestrian I go to jail. Similarly, if the same action kills my own baby, then it's me who should be feeling guilty and responsible for taking a life. How come Gauri has no repentance and only blame for others? I was talking about ethics and not law. Has Gauri shown an iota of guilt for her own actions? NONE.

Again, if she is not guilty, then how is Anandi guilty? If she considers it as "killing a baby"---since that's what she charged Anandi with---and not an unfortunate accident, then how come she herself doesn't take the blame and puts it on Anandi?

I think you should recall what she said when she was talking on the phone to Anandi after her accident she said "tumne mera dimaag is tarah kharaab kar diya ki maine...and yeh so she said I crashed my car and lost my baby because talking to you screwed my head up. She didnt tell Anandi that Anandi killed the baby did she😆 So technically she is blaming herself because her head was screwed and she crashed the car. And let me tell you if she wasn't feeling guilty from inside she would not have been going through that depression at all! Not verbalising guilt does not mean its not there. It can be derived from her emotions also.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Well firstly you would have to ensure that such a situation shouldn't arise if you can't deal with your ego by asking your spouse for money😆 I myself could never ask my spouse for money I admit - which is why I would do everything to ensure I would never have to! I don't support joint accounts because ive seen in real life how they can be the cause for ruination of marriages here. In a relationship both spouses should consider themselves as equals!

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

For some situations yes you are right. For other situations you can know what you'll do even without being in it because that's your basic personality. I'm one to believe money arguments should never enter into a marriage. Its about absolute equality. What ive said isnt something where experience is needed its the basic norm that should be there in every husband-wife relationship. Anywayz recent episodes of BV have proved what I have been saying all along - these two don't share accounts.

We will wait and see. 😆When are you getting married? Can't wait to hear from you after you start a real married household😆. By the way, since they don't share accounts, so Jaggu is not surviving on Gauri's money? 😆 So all charges against Jaggu for wasting Gauri's money is dropped henceforth😆? By the way, since you know them so well, could you throw a little light on how exactly they were going to utilize the property money in their "hamara hospital"😆? Why was Gauri dreaming of their joint hospital, with unequal degrees though🤣, on the Singh money? 😆

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

I think you should recall what she said when she was talking on the phone to Anandi after her accident she said "tumne mera dimaag is tarah kharaab kar diya ki maine...and yeh so she said I crashed my car and lost my baby because talking to you screwed my head up. She didnt tell Anandi that Anandi killed the baby did she😆 So technically she is blaming herself because her head was screwed and she crashed the car. And let me tell you if she wasn't feeling guilty from inside she would not have been going through that depression at all! Not verbalising guilt does not mean its not there. It can be derived from her emotions also.

Originally posted by: arnavkhushi2012

Yes, I agree with you when you say that you should try to ensure that such a situation doesn't arise, BUT life isn't perfect, and if such a situation DOES arise, should someone really have to be degraded for such basic needs??? You don't need joint accounts, that's just one solution, Gauri could also have transferred money into Jagat's account. The point is, he feels demeaned by asking for money.

He feels demeaned only because he has an overblown ego😆 All he would have to say is Gauri mera recharge khatam ho gaya hai and Gauri would gladly give him money. Jogia is not in any majboori thats why I feel he deserves this belittling task of needing to ask for money. He could easily get a job for being an MBBS but he is so damn filled with nakhras he wants a job like Gauri but doesnt even have the guts to finish his MS and he very well knows he cant get to her position without it! He wont study he wont work he is just being a parasite and he needs to understand this! For such a pea brain the only way he will be inspired is if he feels inferior! He is in this situation himself so let this happen to him! I wouldnt like transferring money into anyone's account knowing they are just sitting and sleeping all day in the house!

Originally posted by: woman11

We will wait and see. 😆When are you getting married? Can't wait to hear from you after you start a real married household😆. By the way, since they don't share accounts, so Jaggu is not surviving on Gauri's money? 😆 So all charges against Jaggu for wasting Gauri's money is dropped henceforth😆? By the way, since you know them so well, could you throw a little light on how exactly they were going to utilize the property money in their "hamara hospital"😆? Why was Gauri dreaming of their joint hospital, with unequal degrees though🤣, on the Singh money? 😆

Soon😳 And it is for this reason I am working hard now and saving so I can secure myself and never be a burden on anyone. I hate asking anyone for anything. Yeh Jogia is living on Gauri's money atm no denying that😆 As to that hospital wasn't Gauri planning on working there? I'm sure she would have invested what little she has into it too but I feel they severely underestimated the cost of a good hospital in a big city😆 Unequal degrees well what can poor Gauri do also kitni baar kaha useless bag Jogia ko ki COMPLETE MS! but the ratbag doesnt listen naa! Ab bhukto!😛

@SrkLvr: I think you better take into account Gauri's mother's advice. Men like to bread winners, it's not J's male ego, it is same with any man.

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

@SrkLvr: I think you better take into account Gauri's mother's advice. Men like to bread winners, it's not J's male ego, it is same with any man.

And THAT is precisely right!😃 Jogia is a typical MCP!😛

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

He feels demeaned only because he has an overblown ego😆 All he would have to say is Gauri mera recharge khatam ho gaya hai and Gauri would gladly give him money. Jogia is not in any majboori thats why I feel he deserves this belittling task of needing to ask for money. He could easily get a job for being an MBBS but he is so damn filled with nakhras he wants a job like Gauri but doesnt even have the guts to finish his MS and he very well knows he cant get to her position without it! He wont study he wont work he is just being a parasite and he needs to understand this! For such a pea brain the only way he will be inspired is if he feels inferior! He is in this situation himself so let this happen to him! I wouldnt like transferring money into anyone's account knowing they are just sitting and sleeping all day in the house!