another accusation against gauri - Page 6

If she has such a style of doing things then she shouldn't really care, if her relation goes to drain. Taking with attitude which has no altitude will downtrodden everything.

She is the one who wants to work this relationship out of insecurities and now she is the one who is getting back those ridden insecurities into their lives

Why is that insensitive? I dont like to have karz on my head either and I dont believe she was wrong in telling Jogia to ask her also before making household decisions. Jogia needs to stop being a male chauvinist pig!

Her act is definetely insensitive
when gauri has a right to make a decision without approaching her bhola bhala pati then even jaggu can make decisions without approaching gauri
though its a lie she said to jaggu that they r not gng to take money frm badepapa
so no problem then but now it is problem 😆 😆

gauri is a good doctor and thats where her goodness stops

she knew he is married, she believed his lies. its said once a cheater always a cheater. ok not that statement then what about the fact that he had lied for 5 years about his relationship cause of love or his selfish reasons we dont know. she believed him in the end and got marreid before he had gotten a divorce from anandi. granted he wasnt happy, he was FORCED, if she wud have waited for a divorce and then married him, people wud have applauded that fact. but in the end, she didnt. i dont know why. but it wasnt her true love.

and asking for advices and help from her mother bar bar, thats another nishani

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Why is that insensitive? I dont like to have karz on my head either and I dont believe she was wrong in telling Jogia to ask her also before making household decisions. Jogia needs to stop being a male chauvinist pig!

i agree

if i was a workin woman and when i come back the house is so freakin untidy i'd be furious and wake him up. and whats with the ghar mei gas ni hai etc. he expects a woman to carry the heavy cylinder or what!
but her lies and ingratitude with bade papa and bhairon is infuriating too. yes he did a huge ahsaan on the child. the child's life was almost destroyed when she got married to jagya as a kid but bhairon n anandi protected her when her parents ditched her, that was an ahsan too? even as a kid people can differentiate so it wud be ok to say anandi was v sweet to help gauri knowing it wasnt her who wanted to do something wrong by gettin married to jagya. it was dadisa and her parents.
and when her parents came to take her back, gudia had said i want to study and she was v ecstatic abt the fact when anandi being such a bright student was sad that she cant study cz of the insecurities of jagya the ******** and dadisa.

they say elders cant change etc, u know their thinkin n their stubbornness but dadisa changed and how beautifully and look at jagya and gauri. worse to disgusting,.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Why is that insensitive? I dont like to have karz on my head either and I dont believe she was wrong in telling Jogia to ask her also before making household decisions. Jogia needs to stop being a male chauvinist pig!

Originally posted by: di_vya

Showing internal family differences in front of outsiders is insensitive. Talking rudely is insensitive.

Just beause your husband is a Male Chauvinistic Pig, doesn't mean it gives you the license to be a Female Chauhinistic Pig.

Regarding Karz, Gauri has Jagat's family's karz on her...i don't see that being on her radar right now.

Well that depends on whether or not she sees it as a karz😆 Or rather their bheek😆 But I dont suppose 15-20 lakhs will fall out of the sky for her at the moment😆 As for family differences in front of outsiders I believe she told Jogia to consult her AFTER the guy had left. Are you supposed to be continually patient with someone who behaves badly with you all the time? Why is it considered rude if the woman gives it back to him? She very kindly asked him to check the delivery at home. Who was being rude then? As for Gauri - I dont believe we can use the word CHAUVINISTIC for her because she never had problems being the lady of the house. She cooked for him packed his tiffins did the work did the shopping etc etc before her job. It is JOGIA that is having problems doing what he thinks is FEMALE work - hence his chauvinism.

Why u all r forgetting tht Gouri is a high standard Bhikhari, less thn 20 lacs, she find below her dignity. Only above is ofher standard, but still she is offended calling it bhikh. Its also not come under KARZ definition, as she never tinkering and intend to return it. So she make it her haq or compensation for her CHILDHOOD TRAUMA 😆 😆 😆 and as we know she is expert in fighting for HAQ 😉 😉 not only of her own haq but even her husband's haq SELFLESSLY, becoz she even didn't want to touch her money but only give her expert service in his hospital for social welfare 😆 😆 😆

I am new here & have been following all posts and topics for the last one month. I am very passionate about Balika Vadhu & have been watching since day one.

These are just some relationship quotes I like very much. The first one esp'

• To have a great relationship, you have to choose being happy together, instead of always being right. When you are wrong, apologize quickly. When you are right, keep your mouth shut!!!!
• To love without condition, to talk without intention, listen without judging, to give without reason and to care without expectation. - art of true relationship
• Instead of wanting to be right all the times and expecting our loved one to fit into our expectations, can we love that person enough to see that being right and winning aren't the ultimate goals in a relationship?
• Can we put aside our egos and see that it's more important to make our loved one feel valued and loved rather than dominating over him/her?

If Gauri & Jagya can apply even one of these to their life, their marital life will be bliss!