does true love means no fights ?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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actually i find it shocking when jagya and gauri being taunted in name of true love ,does true lve means no fights,taking rude beahviour in the name of true love,What true colors ?When people shout -that is only called their true color?when they love,they are happy ,caring ,that is called fakeness.What mindblowing descriptions!!!!!!!!!😆
Now parents keep shouting at their child because the child is not able to live on their expectations or the child is not responsible and with this kind of behaviour by the parents the child loses his confidence and finds himself useless ,so they are always these type of tensions in the house ,so does that mean parents dont love their child or child doesnt love their parents ,No.it just an effect of low phase in life
Similarly jagya ,he is frustated ,irritated ,due to which he bahaves in that manner
While gauri ,works throughout the whole day ,comes at home ,instead of some help.she has to go through taunting of being selfish.She is being shouted upon ,she cant share her hapiness also .so she fired back.
But it has nothing to do with love.

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khusi_* thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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love means US...not ME ME and only ME...😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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but this is not ordinary fight between gauri and jagya
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Posted: 13 years ago
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one of partner has to make compromise when grave conditions come here both think about self not for each other so no sacrifices just mere bare mein nahi socha always is it sachha pyar no hypocracy
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Personally,I feel there is no such thing as TRUE LOVE 😆u only need a quarrel to know what the other person is really like..🤢true colors wil be out!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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1.True love means to hv faith in each other - where is faith in JAGO relationship. Both r doubting each other. Both r insecure. Gouri is insecure from Anandi, jogia is insecure from any handsome patients or dr. Where is faith??? 😆 😆

2. True love means understanding - where is it in JAGO relationship? Who is understanding whom? Both r on their own. No understanding even exist.

3. True love means sharing everything with each other - here both r playing hide seek game and fearing to be unmasked.

4. True love means whn u r with ur love, u forget the world - here whn they r together, they remember everything and everyone but each other 😆 😆

I don't know where u find love in there relationship, but I find everything, insecurity, mistrust, fight, cheating, cunningness, but love. True love is out of question 😆 😆 😆
Edited by ankit111 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with Khusi its always we, whether in west or in east. Fight ho sakti hai lekin usko handle maturity se karna parta hai? It should lead to better understanding not bitterness. The truth is that gauri doesn't have patience, otherwise she will try to understand Jagiya, and not make him feel more inferior. She could have easily reassured him, told him its just phase, remind him of his good points, than allow him to fall.
All love have fights, but they are not always out of selfishness or ego, it could also mean some trouble, some nagging problem or attempt to communicate better. We often shout when we feel we are not understood 😊, we try to reach out to other person. Next time when you shout just notice what you are doing, you are trying to make other person see your viewpoint 😃, not make them feel inferior.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: paapoo.2012

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tansville - You r correct
khushi - you r wrong in practial world , kuch US fhuss nahin hota, ye sab WE, WUEE, US, sab England/UK gahron mein chalta hain aur bahar doosre aurat mard ke saat gulchadey udatey hain
so as per tansville - fights hota hain and comeon cant e just lovey dovey always... what jagya and gauri are doing is real life situation
with anandi it was too much of fake and mahanta types -that is unsual santgiri...
(i ma not jag-gaur supporter, but expalining situation)

Whats so practical about the ex given here!! If there is no WE in a relationship then that will fall flat..that is the so called REAL life situation! The ex r given certain not come in the list of LOVE at all…those r the shame in the name of relationship..

Love cant be calculated like..i give u this. u did nothing..i am at loss..u r profit..u r jealous of me…me me me and me.. even when some WE come…those come according to convenience…hamara hospital…when ther is no money..then back to ME..if there is so much of willingness to serve the ppl then y to bother about the bad condition of hospital…!

Now again anandi…y she is mentioned here..when she was not in the picture..about her mahaanata..she is certainly not mahan..here recent activities proved that she is not perfect..she has her own flaws! Let her manage those since she is not harming anyone!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Btw the example which TM hs given to compare parents shouting and JAGO shouting just show inability to differentiate relationship. We can't bring all relationship on the same level. In parent - child relationship, parents hv to guide their children. Their duty to take care of the future of their children
For tht sometimes they r bound to take hard action or even punish. On the other hand husband wife relationship is made by choice on the basis of equality. There sd not be dominating partner and there r no one punish for mistake but to understand each other and decide on mutual basis. As this is a choice relationship, if WE factor absent, it can't sustain for long. Parents - children relationship start whn child is still not born and he need all the care and guidence, while husband wife relationship start whn both r on same level.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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tanvi
I agree with you. I think it is actually an indicator of true love that both individuals fight because it means they say what is on their mind and they have enough space in the relationship to respect each other's voices.
There is no repressed anger or suppression of feelings in the name of 'maintaining a good relationship'.
I believe that a relationship with no fights is usually based on fakeness with a lot of people pretending that what really hurt them did not actually hurt them. In some way, it really dampens one's personality and voice.

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