Are Singhs Wrong to Reject Gauri?

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earth1978

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Posted: 13 years ago

i actually applaud singhs. they chose to stick to their DIL in all odds.

recently i have heard they r hipocrites as they r not accepting jagiya with his choice?

jagiya cudnt be forced to accept anandi as his wife so he chose his mate. we have people defendign him since he had right to choose his mate according to hsi eductaion and height !!!!!!

lol

taking the same logic forwards ... dotn singhs have the ight to choose their DIL , matchign their set of virtes and qualities?

are they forced to accept any trash jagiya decides to bring home merely becuase he now has the rights?

i dont think so, singhs cose anandi and made a bond with her. they accepted her as their bahu and later as their beti. they genuinely love the girl. can they be forced to disown her for someone not nearly half as good?

what about their emotions and rights?

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Sania

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Posted: 13 years ago

I say they are hypocrites because they pretend on being angry with Jogia but if he ran back to them RIGHT NOW without Gauri saying he realised his mistakes they would cry and hug and take him in. If he came WITH Gauri and said he had realised his mistakes they would just tell him to get out. So if they're really angry with Jogia as they show then they will not accept him back even if he returns without Gauri. Im not saying they have to care for Gauri they never have apart from throwing money at her they never will I know that😆

And no they don't have the right to choose their DIL and not let their son have a say in the matter that is such an old thought🤢 A person has every right to choose their life partners themselves and parents who can't accept that well I dunno what to say. So yeh I don't agree with the family who tries to impose their sins on their kids.🤢 Cos child marriage is a sin tying kids into a relation they hardly understand at that age.

Gauri was never rude or mean to them at first. They didn't even know her when she first entered. She tried to do everything to please them. OK I didn't expect them to accept her that would have been unrealistic but what about after they marry Anandi off? Singhs have every right to keep Anandi with them. In fact they wronged her by tying her into the child marriage.

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NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

Finally a very nice and awesome reply. I was geeting irked with people supporting Jagiya. Jagiya is punished because he did something wrong. You cannot treat any woman like a toy, throw her when you don't need her. Even if Jagiya fell in love with other girl atleast he could have remembered sacrifices of Anandi, her friendship. Is she not human? How many of us get to marry people we love? or Worse break relations with our spouses, just because we got somebody better?

What Jagiya did is wrong? Singh family have entire right to reject Gauri. And what has Gauri done to win them? Many of us don't get along with our in-laws (see we support an entire TV industry 😉), do we start instigating our husbands against them. Gauri could have been more patient, but pizza madam wants everything easily. Even Anandi's was treated badly by Dadisa, but she endured and was patient. gauri could have done something similar. But she is someone with no patience and morals. I bet she doesn't even care for what pain Anandi must have gone through...

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earth1978

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Posted: 13 years ago

@ SRk it is only ur understanding that they will accept him without gauri.

frankly things have gone too far.

we may get to see this track int he show itself that jagiya returns without gauri ( i am guessing he will dump gauri, dumping female sis not a big thing for him but it can be other way around too ) and ur question will be answered .

he has insulted his parents at gauri's behest and threatened them.

i dont hink bhairon will ever acept him. as for the female folk , females love unconditionally and no mother can ever stop loving her son.

@ avantika sharma

i agree! i have been treated far worse than gauri at times , even though my position is that of anandi, chosen bride out of many. i dealt with my situation in whatever way , but i have made peace with the fact my husband will never separate , neither do i want him to. sinc ei will never part from my own for him. it goes two ways. btu gauri ... she has doen a very selfish thing.

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Aemy

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Posted: 13 years ago

ever since jagiya married gauri i am trying to find the reason of his true love.. even some times tried to find his true love but all in vain and a guy who never understood love .. is in True Love WOOOWWW... if i think about all this scinerio considering myself in place of jagiya... i would never leave the person who had stake life for me ..as humans we love our lives the most but if sume1 has tendency to love u more than their own life .. wat should be ur response???

Gauri suffered???? from which point of view??? was she an eight year kid when she got married ?? was she forced to work in kitchen?? was she punished by dadisa?? was she the one who had helped her hubby to study and even after that get scolded for getting better marks??was she the one who had to burnt her books because her dadisa dint want her to study?? was she the one who was called mad even after hit by a bullet that was meant for her husband?? was she the one who lost her childhood????

No then how did she suffer?? you know sumtyms i wish dadisa must had accepted gauri and wat fun it wud be too see dadisa training gauri,,,just imagine wat pizza madam wud had done ???

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Sania

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: earth1978
@ SRk it is only ur understanding that they will accept him without gauri.
frankly things have gone too far.
we may get to see this track int he show itself that jagiya returns without gauri ( i am guessing he will dump gauri, dumping female sis not a big thing for him but it can be other way around too ) and ur question will be answered .

he has insulted his parents at gauri's behest and threatened them.
i dont hink bhairon will ever acept him. as for the female folk , females love unconditionally and no mother can ever stop loving her son.

@ avantika sharma
i agree! i have been treated far worse than gauri at times , even though my position is that of anandi, chosen bride out of many. i dealt with my situation in whatever way , but i have made peace with the fact my husband will never separate , neither do i want him to. sinc ei will never part from my own for him. it goes two ways. btu gauri ... she has doen a very selfish thing.

Well I am going by what Dadisa dreamt the other day. It shows that she at least and Sumitra will accept him back the moment he comes without Gauri. So why the pretence now? And as for Gauri, the sole reason she is trying to make distance between Singhs and Jogia is because she thinks the Singhs are hatching a plot to coax Jogia away from her😆 THATS why she smiled when Jogia broke the frame! 😆 I'm not saying she is right but its all the past fear playing out again inside her. In childhood Bhairav came and broke the marriage and Jogia went away and she had to bear all that from society. Its the fear that this will happen again that is playing out in her. Its not because she doesnt like the Singhs really if we remember she had tried to get their acceptance at first.

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Sania

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: lifeisloving
ever since jagiya married gauri i am trying to find the reason of his true love.. even some times tried to find his true love but all in vain and a guy who never understood love .. is in True Love WOOOWWW... if i think about all this scinerio considering myself in place of jagiya... i would never leave the person who had stake life for me ..as humans we love our lives the most but if sume1 has tendency to love u more than their own life .. wat should be ur response???
Gauri suffered???? from which point of view??? was she an eight year kid when she got married ?? was she forced to work in kitchen?? was she punished by dadisa?? was she the one who had helped her hubby to study and even after that get scolded for getting better marks??was she the one who had to burnt her books because her dadisa dint want her to study?? was she the one who was called mad even after hit by a bullet that was meant for her husband?? was she the one who lost her childhood????
No then how did she suffer?? you know sumtyms i wish dadisa must had accepted gauri and wat fun it wud be too see dadisa training gauri,,,just imagine wat pizza madam wud had done ???

She suffered because of what society did to her! Your izzat uchalofied in public for being a sindoor bin suhaagan especially at such a tender age is something very difficult to bear with! ANd Bhairav knew it - hence the reason for funding her! Imagine - in front of 3 village panchayats her marriage was broken then society taunted her so badly that she was forced to uproot her life, change villages then she was dumped outside in the freeing cold by her parents one night who left her there. Everywhere she went for a vast number of years society taunted her as they taunt widows they taunted her for being a dumped bride. Anandi suffered dadisa's bullying but she had the rest of the family's undivided love as well as her parents.

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NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

Dear SRKLVR

If you allow me to intervene. Jagiya's marriage with gauri is the mistake, a mistake for which Singh family has alienated Jagiya. Yes they will accept him back, if he leaves gauri.

Otherwise he has to honestly beg for forgiveness.

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NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

She suffered because of what society did to her! Your izzat uchalofied in public for being a sindoor bin suhaagan especially at such a tender age is something very difficult to bear with! ANd Bhairav knew it - hence the reason for funding her! Imagine - in front of 3 village panchayats her marriage was broken then society taunted her so badly that she was forced to uproot her life, change villages then she was dumped outside in the freeing cold by her parents one night who left her there. Everywhere she went for a vast number of years society taunted her as they taunt widows they taunted her for being a dumped bride. Anandi suffered dadisa's bullying but she had the rest of the family's undivided love as well as her parents.

Well agreed trauma that gauri went through was big. But does it justify Gauri ruining someone else's life.

I think you are contradicting yourself. If in your eyes what gauri did was not wrong (ruining anandi's life), how can you blame singh's. Lets say dadisa was blinded in love for her grandson. Just like Gauri she couldn't distinguish between right and wrong.

I do not support what Singhs did to gauri in childhood, as a result I also have the right to condemn adult gauri. Why double standards for Singh and Gauri.

Edited by avantikasharma1 - 13 years ago

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BajiraoMastani

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Posted: 13 years ago

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First of all I am not a Gawari supporter I dont like her at all but her insicurity is very true, she hate Singh family because of her childhood trauma and because of her fear to loos Jogiya.

But point to think is like when Kundatai came to know abt their story she got angry on Gauri because she has faced that cituation ( she is not Anandi's relative) then as you say Gauri has faced this in childhood why she dont thing even once about Anandi? why she dont think I am giving the same pain to anandi which I got in childhood?

Here in BV everyone is suffering singhs are suffering because of Gauri, Anandi is suffering because of Jogiya , Gauri has suffered because of Dadisa but there is a major difference, Gauri gave the same pain to Anandi and still dont have any guilt where as Bhairav made Gauri's life for his mother's mistake

and Anandi hided all gauri's sins from Jogiya, she never tried once to take her husband back from Gauri. This is the difference between a good person and a bad person.

God gives pains to every one a good person as well as a bad person but Good person justbare it and bad person give it to others.