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Posted: 13 years ago
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Why cant they make Jagya to have a good job , earn well and generally have a happy life with or without Gauri? Why to make him unsuccessful all the time? Do they want to show that Jagya has failed in his duties as a husband to anandi and thus should be punished endlessly?

On the one hand they say that child marriages are bad. On the otherhand they say that Jagya should be with anandi only and he will be destroyed if he does not. They are showing that Jagya is being punished, humiliated and turning into complete negative character for making his child marriage a failure.

If the cvs want to show child marriages do not work out sometimes, then they should show Jagya and Gauri in somewhat positive light. By making the case only for anandi, they are just showing that child marriages can be successful if the parties dont abandon each other. They are infact supporting child mariiage of Jagya and anandi.

We all have love and sympathy for anandi and they should not think giving happiness to anandi is equal to giving unhappiness to Jagya. It becomes self contradictory.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If they want to show child marriage is not good, then they should show that Jagya and Gauri being somewhat positive characters and successful. And they can show anandi moving on with the help of the family members.

But they started bringing infidelity and evilness of Jagya and Gauri their main plank therby negating the message and confusing the viewers.

It is difficult to like Jagya and Gauri, but they wanted us to hate them like hell. They were turned into extremely negative characters.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Cvs are doing just as in reality happen. Rise and fall is the life. And its a bad time for jagat. I would like to say destiny is testing jagat and guary love. And if u want to know the fault of jagat, then i tell u that he accept his marriage after 18, maintain relationship of husband and wife and then leave her. So he is punished by their parent.
since anandi is suffering and not getting good groom (which is most happen to divorcee woman in reality) how can jagat be happy in his life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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in my view if a marriage is said to b unsuccessful...then fault may b wid either of the couple...derz no rule dat nly gal suffers al the time...so i guess cv's r showin equal punishment of both anandi n jagya fr der child marriage
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Don't u realize that it is Jagiya's own attitude and wrong choice as life partner that is making his own life difficult. Is Jagiya a great character that needs to be appaluded! Lying to his family, showing least concern to the girl who has been so selfless, blaming everything on her. Didn't he have a gala time at the college.

Yes they were children, but after 18 they decided to stay together. The family is quite progressive they would have allowed annulation. but then Jagiya had no problem with Anandi. He also resisted Gauri initially, but later fell. Blantant adultery. I also had the same thoughts as you about J-A reunion, how it will affect the original message of the show. But J has not just hurt A, he has also misbehaved and dicarded his family, old friends. He is a spoiled brat who took everyone for granted. It good he is isolated so he can understand value of relations.
May be he should get a good job. The poor fellow has already been punished by marrying Gauri, a selfish person -more interested in Disco than her husband, more interested in winning challenge against the family. If u remember she became extreme lovey-dovey towards J only after the challenge. Before that she was either insecure or career oriented.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ive always been upset with this show for supporting child marriage in this way making Anandi the only bechari and they showed Gauri as a bechari but then took the sympathy away from her by making her negative. I think the essence of this show is gone theyve made it into a "what bad happens to philandering spouses" show.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

Don't u realize that it is Jagiya's own attitude and wrong choice as life partner that is making his own life difficult. Is Jagiya a great character that needs to be appaluded! Lying to his family, showing least concern to the girl who has been so selfless, blaming everything on her. Didn't he have a gala time at the college.

Yes they were children, but after 18 they decided to stay together. The family is quite progressive they would have allowed annulation. but then Jagiya had no problem with Anandi. He also resisted Gauri initially, but later fell. Blantant adultery. I also had the same thoughts as you about J-A reunion, how it will affect the original message of the show. But J has not just hurt A, he has also misbehaved and dicarded his family, old friends. He is a spoiled brat who took everyone for granted. It good he is isolated so he can understand value of relations.
May be he should get a good job. The poor fellow has already been punished by marrying Gauri, a selfish person -more interested in Disco than her husband, more interested in winning challenge against the family. If u remember she became extreme lovey-dovey towards J only after the challenge. Before that she was either insecure or career oriented.



It proves that Jagya is defective piece. He is short tempered and is easily influenced. Now Gauri will realise once the divorce issue is over.
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Ive always been upset with this show for supporting child marriage in this way making Anandi the only bechari and they showed Gauri as a bechari but then took the sympathy away from her by making her negative. I think the essence of this show is gone theyve made it into a "what bad happens to philandering spouses" show.



They could have made this show meaningful as well. Anandi could have studied medicine and taking care of the hospital. In medical college itself, she could have met some suitable guy. While Jagya nd Gauri carried on with their lives.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



It proves that Jagya is defective piece. He is short tempered and is easily influenced. Now Gauri will realise once the divorce issue is over.



True! Can't believe anyone says "more interested in disco than own husband" I mean is a wife a slave or something that she can't even go out one night without husband? We've seen her taking heaps of care of Jogia before all through marriage and even morning after. A wife should not be expected to be around 24/7 only because that is not expected of men! This is just role reversal!
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr



True! Can't believe anyone says "more interested in disco than own husband" I mean is a wife a slave or something that she can't even go out one night without husband? We've seen her taking heaps of care of Jogia before all through marriage and even morning after. A wife should not be expected to be around 24/7 only because that is not expected of men! This is just role reversal!



This is where a caring wife is cherished. Wife is not only a partner but also she is like mother. A sensitive wife will understand these things. Now Gauri has her own world, she will not have time. If Jagya is happy and busy, its ok . But Jagya is undergoing some serious problems professionally as well as emotionally. He needs her. And the way things are going, it will be like this in future.These small things lead to big quarrels. Gauri must either put up with his tantrums or she should leave him. That is what is going to happen in future.

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