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Tanya

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Posted: 13 years ago

We all (including myself) say that Anandi should move on and forget her past without experiencing the sensitivity and practicability of this issue.

Agreed she should forget that cheater...

Agreed she should leave behind those haunting memories... But some one told me that in real life situation its not so easy..its too sensitive a issue to have a solution in two simple words "Move On"...

I have always maintained that infidelity should never be forgiven !!! (probably some of us have not experienced this kind of situation hence its quite easy to judge)

But I guess in real lives its difficult to forget your first love !!!

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Posted: 13 years ago

Not just first love..unfortunately jagya is her 1st Husband...1st one she had her SR,Honeymoon everything...

So it's very very difficult to move on...yeah she has moved on but she'll never be able to forget him...she needs a really good guy who can help her overcome jagya

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: niharika_n
Not just first love..unfortunately jagya is her 1st Husband...1st one she had her SR,Honeymoon everything...

...and the first person to abuse her, cheat her, treat her like trash...i hope Anandi keeps this in mind cause it really helps to move on

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Missesha

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Posted: 13 years ago

Well, I agree it may be hard to move or accept such situation so easily, but everyone has to move on. That is what life demands.

SO gradually A has to move on and that is what she is doing.

- She first accepted that J has a different choice

- Then she accepted G to be J's choice and partner

- Then she moved on to have a career path

- She was still attached to J all this while because he was her first love and coulddn't wish anything ill for him.

- Finally she has detached herself from him and trying to erase memories of her past

- She may still find it hard to settle with someone else, but she will find it more hard to accept J back, so eventually she will move on totally

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Missesha
Well, I agree it may be hard to move or accept such situation so easily, but everyone has to move on. That is what life demands.

SO gradually A has to move on and that is what she is doing.

- She first accepted that J has a different choice

- Then she accepted G to be J's choice and partner

- Then she moved on to have a career path

- She was still attached to J all this while because he was her first love and coulddn't wish anything ill for him.

- Finally she has detached herself from him and trying to erase memories of her past

- She may still find it hard to settle with someone else, but she will find it more hard to accept J back, so eventually she will move on totally

Good analysis Misshesha! Of all this A remained positive throughout and passed through the hurdles without blamed anyone!!

@ blue- Yes now she has reached a phase where she thinks J can never ever be back in her life...that's a great progress!!

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sonali_dg

@sonali_dg

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Posted: 13 years ago

Its not easy to forget any loved one, in whatever order of chronology that person falls...

Some people are blessed with immune system to just hop on to catch the next available train.. but in real life, its very difficult to move on.

And you know what.. when it hurts the worst? When you are the one who's most 'giving' in that relationship. The sole reason why it hurts like that is because you gave in so much more than you got, you gave in much more than what you should have.

Accept it or not, when you do something selflessly for someone, you do expect something in return, may be something as little as a kind word like, "thank you" thats enough.. but when you are sacrificial, do things and dont brag about it.. be unconditional.. and then receive a harsh shunning from the person whom you loved so much.. That is the exact point when it starts hurting. So its safe to conclude that the reason for us being hurt is we ourselves.

Anandi has now stopped giving. She's not giving anything, no hopes, no expectations, no sacrifices, no love, no emotional connect.. now she won't be hurt. She will be able to move on to a great extent, I think.

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fanvever

@fanvever

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Posted: 13 years ago

Child marriages are the most stupid thing to do, and these two became a victim of it.. Annandi is suffering more because of it. Now if they want a logical finish, annandi should find a better spouse because it's immoral to see a woman going through this trauma.

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