Jagya's true love for Gauri - Page 2

Originally posted by: bhoomi.s

I actually think it is the other way around. Gauri really does love Jagya, whatever be her other faults. She is horribly insecure in her relationship, though, which is driving her insane. Jagya has been the ruin of her, honestly. He isn't capable of loving anyone but himself. On his last visit back home, he was trying to get closer to Anandi, but she put an end to it. And what she said is right - Gauri is as much a victim as Anandi herself. The difference b/w the two is the way they've reacted to their troubles. Anandi has chosen to rise above it and be strong and positive, while Gauri is slipping into the muck. That is what makes Anandi the better personality.

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

But love can't be sustained without trust and giving someone space. She may care for Jagiya, but care is not enough. What I will suggest to Gauri is that she takes the risk. To stop suspecting Jagiya and love him just for the sake of it. It will tremendously improve their relationship. Loving somebody but not trusting them only ruins the relationship. It makes one partner franatically possessive, which ultimately ruins all happiness. In her urge to be secure she is cutting off Jagiya from his family and is also hiding things from him. This will bring her ultimate downfall. Yes you are right Gauri has reacted wrongly to the situations, but to balme Jagiya completely? She knew he was married at the time she decided to marry him. At that time she could trust him blindly and now?

I didn't watch the show then, so I'm not sure, but I don't think Jagya told Gauri that he and Anandi were 'together' together... You know what I mean, right? I think he just told her that he'd been forced into a marriage as a child and that he didn't love his wife. And when Gauri realised that wasn't true, she began blaming Anandi and Jagya's family rather that blame him. And she had been living with him for quite some time by then... Jagya is such a $#%&*, I tell you. How could he tell Gauri he loved her and even live with her, when he was married? Her possessiveness is ruining what relationship they have, but, you know what, they kind of deserve it. Jagya, for being a jerk and Gauri, for being an idiot. If at some point they realise what they did was wrong, apologise to Anandi and the family and mean it, and then begin all over again, they might possibly survive. But honestly, if things go the way they do, theirs is not a relationship that will last. I feel sorry for Gauri actually. She had such potential - a good student, a talented doctor reduced to this because of a selfish man and her own bad choices. So, yes I do blame Jagya more than Gauri...

Originally posted by: runes

In India, all elders are given respect. That is our true culture. That does not mean that if you are insecure than you just have the right to be mean to them.

In a court, can the defense lawyer use the argument of "insecurity" to save the defendant/criminal. The criminal is still charged with murder whether he was insecure or angry or because of some incident in childhood. I sympathize with Gauri that all those unfortunate events happened in her life but the events happening in her life right now are because of her own faults.

I rather think there is a difference between murder and shouting😆 Shouting is not a criminal offence😆 What happened to her was more of a crime than what she is doing to them. 😆 And technically if Sumitra is threatening her that she hopes Jogia ditches her and returns to Anandi and his family then I dont see why she has to keep their respect after everything. Nothing Gauri does will ever win over the Singhs because they see her as the home wrecker😆 They forgave dadisa for what she did but probs wouldnt ever be able to fogive and accept Gauri even if she gave her life for them. Kyun? Did they expect their son to live with the boj of their mistakes for life?

Originally posted by: bhoomi.s

I didn't watch the show then, so I'm not sure, but I don't think Jagya told Gauri that he and Anandi were 'together' together... You know what I mean, right? I think he just told her that he'd been forced into a marriage as a child and that he didn't love his wife. And when Gauri realised that wasn't true, she began blaming Anandi and Jagya's family rather that blame him. And she had been living with him for quite some time by then... Jagya is such a $#%&*, I tell you. How could he tell Gauri he loved her and even live with her, when he was married? Her possessiveness is ruining what relationship they have, but, you know what, they kind of deserve it. Jagya, for being a jerk and Gauri, for being an idiot. If at some point they realise what they did was wrong, apologise to Anandi and the family and mean it, and then begin all over again, they might possibly survive. But honestly, if things go the way they do, theirs is not a relationship that will last. I feel sorry for Gauri actually. She had such potential - a good student, a talented doctor reduced to this because of a selfish man and her own bad choices. So, yes I do blame Jagya more than Gauri...

True. Gauri did not know the extent of Jogia's relationship with Anandi until Phooli told her. All Jogia told her was that he had been foced into a child marriage he never loved the girl thats it. Gauri fell for it.

Originally posted by: runes

In India, all elders are given respect. That is our true culture. That does not mean that if you are insecure than you just have the right to be mean to them.

In a court, can the defense lawyer use the argument of "insecurity" to save the defendant/criminal. The criminal is still charged with murder whether he was insecure or angry or because of some incident in childhood. I sympathize with Gauri that all those unfortunate events happened in her life but the events happening in her life right now are because of her own faults.

And btw elders should earn their respect too. Just because theyre elder by age and experience does not give them the haq to be treated with reverence all the time. Gauri does not know the Singhs she has not lived with them. What she has known from them only is rejection abandonment and threats that her husband will leave her and so her opinion of them is only that. So why should she respect them then? They've never really treated her well anyway that she will respect them.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

I rather think there is a difference between murder and shouting😆 Shouting is not a criminal offence😆 What happened to her was more of a crime than what she is doing to them. 😆 And technically if Sumitra is threatening her that she hopes Jogia ditches her and returns to Anandi and his family then I dont see why she has to keep their respect after everything. Nothing Gauri does will ever win over the Singhs because they see her as the home wrecker😆 They forgave dadisa for what she did but probs wouldnt ever be able to fogive and accept Gauri even if she gave her life for them. Kyun? Did they expect their son to live with the boj of their mistakes for life?

Sorry, but Gauri is a homewrecker!! And Jagya invited her to do it, so he's a guilty party too. They can do what they want as far as I'm considered. Just let Anandi move on with her life.

@ bhoj of their mistakes - He wasn't complaining when he was romancing Anandi! Yes, he was 9-10 when he got married, but he was 18+ when he actually got together with her! If he was so unhappy, he should've said so then. Even assuming he didn't know what he was missing until he met Gauri (🤢) he still should've have paid Anandi the courtesy of honesty and a clean breakup before he started a relationship with Gauri. So that argument doesn't hold. He's a cheat, nothing can change that...

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

Make no mistake, I am Anandi's fan. But I have heard many people in this forum saying jagya's love for Gauri is not true. I don' t understand how? He takes care of her, treats her well, unlike how he treated Anandi. Other than he cheated on his first wife, what is wrong with his love? If I doubt anyone's love it is Gauri's. She can't even trust him for a second and in her vengeance she has tried to separate him from his family. Agreed Singh family didn't treat her well, but you don't expect an easy welcome in second marriage. After all, Gauri's marriage hurt somebody deeply, it ruined someone's life. If Singh family treated her badly, it was only in reaction to what she did, it was nothing personal. May be Gauri is too coward to accept her mistake and also the consequences of it. So she is ready to blame anyone but herself. I think Jagiya's love for Gauri is true, and so is Anandi's love for Jagya. It is only Gauri's love that I doubt. Please tell what you think?

I don't know if Jagya even know what love means but yes as far as i can see he has stood till date for Gauri even throwing his own family...but is it his adamant nature or true love i don't know!!

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

And btw elders should earn their respect too. Just because theyre elder by age and experience does not give them the haq to be treated with reverence all the time. Gauri does not know the Singhs she has not lived with them. What she has known from them only is rejection abandonment and threats that her husband will leave her and so her opinion of them is only that. So why should she respect them then? They've never really treated her well anyway that she will respect them.