Gauri the selfish, insecure b**ch - Page 3

Originally posted by: tinoo

SRKLuvr --

Here is the crux of the issue -- yes, she slipped up emotionally -- but was there any reason to marry him immediately right then and there? They could have continued living together.What would the point be? Now or later but would it have mattered?

Even if you take out the anandi factor ... there is still the fact that he lied to her... he had not made any future plans to tell his family or anything but he did tell them he was going to marry Gauri😕...she found out on her own...he did not disclose anything to her... and he was quite willing to have let the scenario continue with her being in the dark for several years. Actually no he had written her a letter of confession that she unfortunately didnt recieve. Even if she thought that her court marriage was legal... why get into a legal marriage with someone like this who has lied to you I suppose because she believed his reason to lie to be understandable - given that she had been through the whole child marriage farce herself... it is okay if you still have feelings...but why not assess the person for some more time? I suppose because...love is blind😆

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

Ohh so gauri has no responsibility?

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

I would never have married a married man in the first place!

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Very easy to say. Very Different to be in that exact situation. You cant know what you would do because it reality we know our morals would not allow us to do such a thing being an observant outsider. Being in the situation and going blind in love as well as totally trusting the person youve loved for five years despite not wanting to - especially when you're being emotionally blackmailed. Well I cannot say that I would definitely not slip up in emotions even if I didnt want to.

Originally posted by: lakshmim_84

And that is why I feel, Gauri's life should be a lesson to all those girls who would Slip up in emotions. I would never trust a married man(legal or not). If he can leave one woman for me, then time is not far that, he would leave me for another one.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Very easy to say. Very Different to be in that exact situation. You cant know what you would do because it reality we know our morals would not allow us to do such a thing being an observant outsider. Being in the situation and going blind in love as well as totally trusting the person youve loved for five years despite not wanting to - especially when you're being emotionally blackmailed. Well I cannot say that I would definitely not slip up in emotions even if I didnt want to.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

True. In normal circumstances. But when it is a choice of shaadi he did not make himself, especially in childhood - you could sort of see why Gauri may trust him that he loves her only and she is the only one he ever loved. Such a liar though. Even now he is playing them both. Poor thing. Thank God child marriages are not a problem here!

Originally posted by: jhansijhansi

going blind in love as well as totally trusting the person youve loved for five years despite not wanting to - especially when you're being emotionally blackmailed..so can she do anything for her love and hurt any one for her to be happy and her cunning boyfriend to be happy. she can marry him and she can shout and find faults at his first wife and his parents too for not throwing their first baho out and welcoming their son's second wife. If we think that G is right because she is doing all this out of insecurity and all other reasons then i think the person who kills a girl and then kills himself , because she is not accepting his love is also right. Even he has valid reasons he loved her so much that he cannot live without her and his love is true he cannot think about what is right and what is wrong, even though he know that he cannot escape after killing her he will do it because he is just blind in her love. I think he is better than G he just killed that girl and he died (or spoiled his life), but people like G and J they can do anything or hurt anyone, If A had weak heart then she would have done suicide by now (G and J has emotionality killed many people for which there is no punishment in the law) , they never care about anything they just wanted to be happy and want what they wanted in life.