Gauri is really becoming evil!!!

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: ankit111
noone is supporting forced relationship. if..Jaggu Dada wd hv followed proper way of breaking relationship and Gouri wd hv behaved normal way, I don't think anyone wd hv any problem. if u can't live in forced relationship, thn u cant also force ur relationship on other, its as simple. and they r doing same. u can't do things on ur own way and expect everyone sd clap for tht and ready to welcome u with garlands and orchestra 😆 😆 😆

I dont think the people of the house would of let him break up with anandi if he did it infront of them with their permission. but the way he did it was bad. but he doesnt have to FORCE the new relationship onto anyone.. because his new relationship exsists and its real and he is in it! they can put there heads in the sand all they want... but it exsists. i dont think they want him to throw a wedding party for him.. but accept him for whatever decision right or wrong. its his life - his bed.

live an unhappy marriage.. and no one really cares but the two people in it.. so sometimes i agree with jagat.. make ur own bed and live with the consquences..

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: snrlb

Not to force, but also Gauri should be secure of her love, she is so insecure that she is filling evils or false things of Anandi to Jagya.. And that is not a sign of a good girl, so who would like to relationship with G, that means J should leave G and 2nd thing, J is not forced to live A, but she was his best friend, and he loved her earlier in childhood, and such a skilled and intelligent girl how could he leave her..
2nd thing, it is not that Jagya don't love Anandi, but he had forgotten that, as he was separated from her for 5 years, and was in close contact with G for 5 years..
If he gets close to A again for 1 year he will love A again..

thanks for your response.. I agree gauri should be secure.. but gauri being an adult knew what a liar jagat was prior so she has to live with that choice. i know anandi is perfect but ..different people r interested in different things. perfection in the house bores me.. perfection in spirituality excites me..i am spontaneous and random .. a person that is timely and all that .. doent interest me! anandi .. as a person would bore me to death! if he didnt lie and make gauri all crazy .. id prefer her anyday! guari was normal before.. but if a man comes along and does what he did to gauri.. then that would effect her personality and mental state.

jagat is a jerk.. but are we or the elders of the family going to do? they will recognise the union.. and the baby is commig along.. families accept members for whatever they are.

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gajalu

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Dr3viL
Anandi is really the vamp.. Sitting there getting all daughter and daughter in law rights

:O How could one say so?

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455325

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

well..cuz anandi is not the daughter in law.. she is just sitting at her ex- inlaws house..acting like perfection! ... what relation does she have with the house? none so they made her the ..daughter.. w/o offically adopting her.

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Monamie

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Dr3viL

I dont think the people of the house would of let him break up with anandi if he did it infront of them with their permission. but the way he did it was bad. but he doesnt have to FORCE the new relationship onto anyone.. because his new relationship exsists and its real and he is in it! they can put there heads in the sand all they want... but it exsists. i dont think they want him to throw a wedding party for him.. but accept him for whatever decision right or wrong. its his life - his bed.

live an unhappy marriage.. and no one really cares but the two people in it.. so sometimes i agree with jagat.. make ur own bed and live with the consquences..

Dr vil..i just couldn't stop myself from replying u..i was just reading all the posts..and i m so bored..so i m replying u..sry for the long reply..😛

i absolutely agree with u in some points..that everyone has the right to choose how they want to live their own life..

none in this serial even in this forum is forcing jaggya to come back..they all just left him like the way he wanted it!..yes his family will never be able to accept him back with gauri..but they r not forcing him to leave gauri also!!..it is he who is still not satisfied with his life..

he is actually forcing anandi to maintain a relationship with him!..that's what i feel now-a-days..and i am sorry to say it..but i don think that jaggya is matured enough to realize it what actually he wants and i don think that he is into the relationship with gauri!!..

in ur POV he was not happy with anandi..and now i don think that he is happy with gauri too..like you said in one of ur posts that he was not attached with anandi mentally since a long time..may be for 6-7 yrs or more..but i can see that even after 6-7 yrs of togetherness with gauri, he still wants to continue that "16 yrs of companionship" with anandi..is he not still mentally involved with the gal whom he thinks that he left long time ago but actually he never left?..🤔 i think that even if his family accepts him back today with his wife gauri..he will still maintain a relationship with his "ex and forced" wife anandi..and i m sure none will force him in this matter..but he will do it!!..😆

see, i have no problem with jaggya and gauri now..i m happy that they r happy..😆

but i still don like this guy bcoz he is so confused..he is so immature..he himself doesn't know what he want..and now none is forcing him..he is the one who is forcing his ex wife..😡

Edited by monamie111 - 13 years ago

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455325

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Posted: 13 years ago

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thanks for the lovely long post.. people loose me in the first sentance but you sustained my interest!😉 as arrogant as i am!

my POV reasons that jagat is immature and will bounce from this relationship too at a time most likely when anandi has moved on.. but we cant look in the past..cuz if u forced him to stay at that time..more then likely he would never appricate anandi.

... realistically a kid is on its way.. and jagat has moved far beyond a relationship with anandi.. and eventually the people of the house..will accept jagats child..along with its mother..

my ulitmate point is.. jagat made a big mistake.. he didnt correctly end his relationship..but how long can a family be angry with him? people make mistakes..he was young and immature..and inexperienced! .. he made mistakes.. forgive him!!! and try to keep guiding him to a correct path.

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Monamie

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Dr3viL
thanks for the lovely long post.. people loose me in the first sentance but you sustained my interest!😉 as arrogant as i am!

my POV reasons that jagat is immature and will bounce from this relationship too at a time most likely when anandi has moved on.. but we cant look in the past..cuz if u forced him to stay at that time..more then likely he would never appricate anandi.

... realistically a kid is on its way.. and jagat has moved far beyond a relationship with anandi.. and eventually the people of the house..will accept jagats child..along with its mother..

my ulitmate point is.. jagat made a big mistake.. he didnt correctly end his relationship..but how long can a family be angry with him? people make mistakes..he was young and immature..and inexperienced! .. he made mistakes.. forgive him!!! and try to keep guiding him to a correct path.

i got ur point..and i agree too..😊

that is what happens in real life too..but it is a show..😛..here only those things will happen what CVs want..

here, i don think that J's family will be able to separate anandi from their family..or anandi will be able to leave the family..🤔..and when anandi is there in the family..how they will accept back J with G and with the baby?..may be the baby will be accepted by everyone in future..but not J & G..😉

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Monamie

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: Dr3viL
whats ur name?

my profile name only..Monamie..😊

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dolly

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

i think i'd replied u v.clearly that we don't want J 2cum back 2A !!and if u can't understand simple lang then i can't help u!!

like u r saying that J has rite 2 choose then his family have also rite 2 disown him or his illegal wife!!so stop harping on this issue!!he can't force himself or his choice on them 2!!he can marry any1 of his choice but can't ask his family 2 accept his choice & thatswhy they disowned him !! and they r not interfering in his life then why he or G always go barging in their house!!

and A is not sitting widout any relationship.In india ppl adopt their ex-DIL as daughter if J like son is there widout any paperwork!! and 4 giving property rites its leaglised!!but as A is still legal wife of J acc. 2 Indian child marriage law she has each & every rite on their property until she breaks off her marriage wid j legally!!

indian culture, law & adminstration is difft.here govt. consider all aspects,local traditions,customs 4 framing law so that ppl don't've 2 deprive of the justice!!!

so try 2 understand indian culture, law,adminstartion & traditions then make logical posts.bcoz till i didn't find even single one logic acc. 2 indian law & culture in ur posts!!

and ur reply 2my post luks so childish that i've 2 make this post & i don't think that u still've understood anything abt indian culture or law!!😊😊

Edited by tiny15 - 13 years ago

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sreevask

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Posted: 13 years ago

#30

BV & fellow members r trying hard to provide an elixir of polygamism as a solution to social evil...
The power of choice / legal right can b used to keep / change any number of women ...but before that just think once...
How Pitiable is the plight of women in such relationships...
is she a doll?won't she have an equal right to love n live ? In the disguises of customs,human rights r being trashed all over the world...

Fortunately the time tested culture of India,adopts the ,middle (democratic) path to save society, where in:
(1) women do adopt by themselves to ethics so the liberty is not misutilized...like in western societies,wherein the driving cause of life is personal luxury,as members don't know why should they love parents as they change day by day...first of all love means sex to the western civilization...
In other civilizations women r fully controlled that deprives the concept of love ...women r like dolls 2 play & shd get lost with an oral order ...
Jagat is an example of western influence on youth...who boast of rights sans obligations...yes liberty deformed the concept of love...what if Anandi had given birth to a child?can we b happy if our dad leaves mom by excercising liberty?/brings three four women as his wives by excercising rights of customs?

Mahabharat says do not do such thing to others that you may not feel happy while others do it to you.. Youth shd ponder this & try to cultivate the real love that is above gross physical levels...& train their children to respect women & family system ,there by fulfilling the obligations as a stable society member...
If bed dictates society...it grooms a redlight land...
Love is mocked @ results in insecurities in relationships...
Got it now? Western liberty /right is causing insecurities in Gauri, as the same liberty with which he left Anandi a can allow j to flirting...
Jagat like persons r no way useful to society ...he should not only b prohibited by his parents...but should b prohibited from the society...as a guardian of law & order in the society, Anandi shd jail Jagat ...

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