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jhansijhansi

@jhansijhansi

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Posted: 13 years ago

I have seen many of us are not liking the track and some feel that G character is made negative just to save J...here they are not showing J as good...he was always impressed by G and felt that she suits him more than A for his new lifestyle and wanted to marry her...yes J did a mistake by hiding the fact that he was already married, but G made a mistake too and her character was made negative on the day when she married J after knowing the fact that a person who was hiding the fact that he was already married and he even introduce his wife as some one and he is cheating two women...she excused J and married him, but wanted A to go out of the house..if at all G was good then she would never marry such a cheater who was cheating his wife and loving and cheating some other girl like her...and some of them even like G and J getting married then why not CVs show that J is back with A and A forgive J and their both reunion...

A supporters still feel that A should not accept J at any cost because he hurt her so much...see a women like G can forgive J and some of them liked it then do we all think A is not as kind hearted as G, I think A is...

If we talk that G loves J and so she married him even after knowing the fact...then why not A accept him, as A loved him more than anyone in this world J is her life and future without him anything in this world cannot make her happy or fulfilled...when she can forgive Dadisa who caused her so many problems why not J...even today she cannot see J suffering or think about punishing him...Apart from anything else A still wants J back...

Anandi has performed all her duties as a wife, 'Karyeshu Daasi, Karneshu Mantri, Bhojyeshu Maata, Sayaneshu Rambha.'...she can't imagine of leaving the haveli and going back to her parents then how can she imagine to marry someone else...and it is not fare to show that the people who made a mistake are happy and leading a respectful life and without any dosh A is suffering and live her life thinking about J and doing sava to his parents...

They should show that J's learn a lesson and should suffer a lot and lot and lot before coming to A and G and her parents should also be punished for their mistakes stealing someone else husband is wrong and encouraging such man is sin...

CVs can only have two options one being that Haveli accepts G and J and their kids and G and J get all the respect back and as a girl like A will not marry anyone else, she loves J so much, they should show that A left the house and living alone in the same village as she cannot go far from her family, which is not fare and is inhuman. second they should show that J and G get separated and suffer for all their mistakes and realize their faults and J return to A (which is A's real win) and should support her through out his life and A living happily with her own kids family and J...

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sreevask

@sreevask

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Jagat is a weak will power guy & easily gets influenced by others & trapped into addictions.
Out of the seven addictions(hunting,alcoholism,gambling,non-vegetarian food,adultery,& prostitution)J was forgiven for his playing cards,smoking etc.,similarly woman is one among such addictions & will be forgiven by family members.
The basic concept is that Haveli log loves J including all of his weaknesses/flaws...while Gauri can never love any one except herself..
She married J thinking that she would get the constant love from him & he will make Haveli log recognize & respect her.

She will never be ready to accept weaknesses & thus her love is 50% only...
Anandi loves "+ " as well as "-" of J, which is 100% love...& thus poised to win.

I totally agree with TM & if going back to first wife is ok to every one in case of Phooli why not in case of J?(ref my post in yesterday's WU)
I love JA RE-UNION..

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Monamie

@monamie111

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: jhansijhansi
I have seen many of us are not liking the track and some feel that G character is made negative just to save J...here they are not showing J as good...he was always impressed by G and felt that she suits him more than A for his new lifestyle and wanted to marry her...yes J did a mistake by hiding the fact that he was already married, but G made a mistake too and her character was made negative on the day when she married J after knowing the fact that a person who was hiding the fact that he was already married and he even introduce his wife as some one and he is cheating two women...she excused J and married him, but wanted A to go out of the house..if at all G was good then she would never marry such a cheater who was cheating his wife and loving and cheating some other girl like her...and some of them even like G and J getting married then why not CVs show that J is back with A and A forgive J and their both reunion...

A supporters still feel that A should not accept J at any cost because he hurt her so much...see a women like G can forgive J and some of them liked it then do we all think A is not as kind hearted as G, I think A is...

If we talk that G loves J and so she married him even after knowing the fact...then why not A accept him, as A loved him more than anyone in this world J is her life and future without him anything in this world cannot make her happy or fulfilled...when she can forgive Dadisa who caused her so many problems why not J...even today she cannot see J suffering or think about punishing him...Apart from anything else A still wants J back...

Anandi has performed all her duties as a wife, 'Karyeshu Daasi, Karneshu Mantri, Bhojyeshu Maata, Sayaneshu Rambha.'...she can't imagine of leaving the haveli and going back to her parents then how can she imagine to marry someone else...and it is not fare to show that the people who made a mistake are happy and leading a respectful life and without any dosh A is suffering and live her life thinking about J and doing sava to his parents...

They should show that J's learn a lesson and should suffer a lot and lot and lot before coming to A and G and her parents should also be punished for their mistakes stealing someone else husband is wrong and encouraging such man is sin...

CVs can only have two options one being that Haveli accepts G and J and their kids and G and J get all the respect back and as a girl like A will not marry anyone else, she loves J so much, they should show that A left the house and living alone in the same village as she cannot go far from her family, which is not fare and is inhuman. second they should show that J and G get separated and suffer for all their mistakes and realize their faults and J return to A (which is A's real win) and should support her through out his life and A living happily with her own kids family and J...

Jhanshi i loved ur post..but i don't want A-J reunion like this..

with due respect what u have said..i m m writing my points here..

first i don't think that G was kind and thats why she forgave J..it was not her kindness but she was weak and she couldn't control her emmotions..

secondly i think she tought that it will make her happy if she will marry J..so she was selfish too..she thought about her own happiness here..i don't think that she has thought of J's hapiness here..if she had really loved him and if she was really a kind gal then she would have told him to go back to his family took their permision first!..it was not her kindness..it was her selfishness, her stupidity and her weakness too..that is the main reason why i don't support G!..

now u r saying that G has encouraged a liar like J by accepting him..yes she did..whatever wrong things J has done was for getting G only..and ultimately he got G..so basically indirectly G's desicion of marrying J gave him the msg that whatever u have done was right and was for love..🤢

now J has cheated A too right?..what will be the differece between G & A then if A will accept J too as a husband? i think A will also encourage one cheater and will give him the wrong msg...

secondly why i don't want A to accept J bcoz...

J has thrown her away from his life..A was not a wife like G..she was very much matured, sensitive, caring and she had every possible quality of a good wife! if J couldn't love A and found love in some other gal..it was not A's fault!..it was J's fault that he couldn't find what he got in his wife..

A is not the doll with whom J can play whenever he wants..k jab chahe chod ke chala gaya aur jab chahe mu uthake chala aaya!..if A will accept J then will she not be the playing doll of J? J has made her wait..so he has to wait now!..A is better than J in every field of life..A deserve much better guy than J..so why she can't move on in her life and get a better guy than J? why everyhting in A's life have to be controlled by J's actions?..when J left her she concentrated on studies..now as J-G break up is final why she have to be the wife of that cheater again?

i m not saying the A should stop loving J..no she still loves J and she will love him forever..but love is another thing and accepting J again as husband is another thing...

one mroe thing is..I think A is strong enough to say a NO to the guy who cheated her for 5 yrs..she is not weak like G!..i don't want to see that A is also doing the same mistake what G did..

G ke pass gaya G ne accept karli..A ke pass aayega to A ko bhi accept kar na he?..to phir uski saaja kya huyi yaar?..saaja kab mila usse agar sab log accept karle to?..😕

yes but A&J r friends..i'll not mind if they still remain friends..but as a husband..no from my side...

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moon1209

@moon1209

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Posted: 13 years ago

@sreevask...

phooli's case was completely different...phooli n dis love triangle has got NO comparison...in phooli's case d first wife of that man was totally involved in the mess...poor phooli became a victim...

But here anandi was not involved in dis JG relationship????did she tld J to have an affair???A was totally in darkness abt dis realtionshp and was CHEATED and BETRAYED by her husband...

So there is no question of accepting back her cheater husband...i knw A loved him more dan her life spent 16 yrs wid him...bt wat's d base of evry relation- its TRUST...and if dat is broken once it cnt be gained for a second time...may anandi forgive J forevr but how can she forget all d pains whch has n always wil haunt her????the cracks in their relationshp wil always remain d same it cant be mended...

If A evr accepts J den i wil loose all respect which i hav for her...whatevr J does to prove himslf he doesnt deserve A anymore...

And J is always an immature and confused person...if he faces d hardships of lyf den he wil definately understand his mistakes...and b4 blamin anyone he shud blame himslf...if G is turning into a psycho its only cz of G's too much hatred towards Singh family,too much jealousy,too much insecurity and ofcourse her parent's wrong guidance...So b4 blamin G he shud realize dis dat its HE who have directly n indirectly forced her to be in such a position...if G wnt hav made d mistake of marryin J den G wud hav been in a better position in lyf...he shud realize sat HE is the cause of both of them(A n G's) pain...aftr if he has got an inch slf respect in him den he wil nevr evr return bak to A...

JA union wil agn prove dat MEN are always free n cant do whatevr dey want n aftr a BIG so called realization agn gets accepted by their loving wives...Dis show abt evil effects of CHILD MARRIAGE and WOMEN EMPOWERMENT...So if dey really want to prove dese den dey shud show A a powerful n strong character living her own life...

Well its my viewpoint...evrybdy has dere own...dats it...

And J is still an immature and confused person...now

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Jagya will return to jetsar, thats a given. He will expect Anandi to accept him with Open Arms. and thats when Anandi will decide that she does not want to live with him.

Sumitra said, Jagya will return to his family not Anandi. And that is going to happen.

as far Anandi,

Iam 100% sure she will do her level best to make Jagya go back to gauri.

If there is a child involved, and if abandoned by gauri , she will take responsibility for it and love him/her as her own.

not because she is being mahaan as many like to defame her, but its because, thats her nature. To support the weak.Whats thechild's fault in all this mess?

Jagya might try and get in her good books back , but he is an egoistic guy. Anandi has moved on.JAGYA will expect Anandi to wait for him with open arms and serve him like she did before, but this is not going to be the case any more. period.

will she eventually accept him? after a radical change in his behavior? I am not sure.

Mahavir singh the one who tried to rape Dadisa was shown tobe accepted

Vasant is now accepted

so.. BV's cvs are known to change people's characters into something positive and they might do something like that.

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jhansijhansi

@jhansijhansi

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Posted: 13 years ago

@ monamie111 I agree with you points on G and I do feel the same she is selfish not good so she married, but I have seen some of the post who support G that she married J just because she loved him so I wanted to let them know that when G married J because she loved him and he loved her then why now A marry J because she loves him and J knows his mistakes and start loving her again.

I do agree with your points and this is one way most of us wanted that A should not and cannot accept J as he has cheated her so much'and as some of them said like J even if A accepts him he is selfish kind of person'., but apart from his selfish behaviour A likes J'

Firstly, A will not accept J even if he is going to leave G and come back to her, BUT I am not sure how CVs are going to show the track that J and G realize, G leaves him goes to abroad or I am not sure what is going to happen, '. A should be happy and good people in this world should have what they wanted not the persons like J and G'more likely the whole family cannot live without J for through out their life, and I cannot imagine that they accept J and G and their kids then J and G are the winners' what ever G is saying now will be true'. In yesterday's episode suguna's husband says that forget about what he has done to the family think that kids should get mamas pyar ( he said some dialogues even on rakhi day) and same will happen when J is having kids slowly they will start talking to J's kids and then G'I used to like sugunas husband before, but now I hate him he wants suguna to forgive J and talk to him and maintain brother sister relationship with him, now with her kids and then with J's kids and then at the end G does he mean that sister forgive her brother even if he does any sin to his wife a girl who came to their house believing her brother'

Anyway, I am not sure how many of them agree with me, but for me people like J and G should not be proved right, if they are not going to be separated then ultimately it is going to be proved that what J and G thought and did is right, if not now later they have to accept that J and G kids as haveli's varas that is enough for J and G'.they studied, achieved good career and respect in the society, married the person whom they liked and at the end they get all the respect as well'.this will be like teaching the society that nothing happens even if you hurt, steal or cheat anyone to live happily ultimately you will be happy 'no matter how you achieved it'. After some days G will start saying A that akir tum tumhare asle chera pe kithnabe pardhe dalo, bagvan ne dikayana tum J se pyar karthithi lekin bagvan ne tumhare J ko tumse alag kardiya kyo ki tum hare neche budhi ke vaghse. G will says that I am happily living with my J and kids and having a good life see you are left alone and the whole J's family is suffering because they are bad.

What I meant to say is most of the time good people suffer and bad people enjoy in this world, I don't want that to happen, good ones always sacrifice their life or happiness for some one else'if A accepts J come back to her then she is not like G'G ne kisike husband ko chena lekin A has made her husband realize her importance and come back to her'.though A says that she cannot accept J as he has cheated her, but she cannot live without him she loves even his weaknesses that is one of the reason why she is not punishing him if there was anyone else other than A would have punished him for his mistakes'.

A is a kind of a girl who has great heart to forgive anyone then why not J whome she loves so much'..when J comes to rescue her she unknowingly holds J as if nothing has happened she is still living in the condition that he will come back some day to her and she will live rest of her life with him'just waiting for him'so I expect that J realize A's importance in his life and come back to A'I can imagine A pain, any women who likes her husband cannot imagine even a month or single day without him then how it might have been to A now and spends rest of her life just thinking every minute how is J and why didn't he come back to her'.

They should at least show that J and G should be separated, Both the women G and A should not allow him to come near to them or else J should die.

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Monamie

@monamie111

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

Jhanshi i got ur point..😊

don't worry..J&G will not be able to spent their whole life happily...and their break up will happen soon..😛

but u know..i really don't want J-A union!..i can understand what u r saying..yes it hurts very much to see that A is alone there at this young age..and we all know that she still loves J..may be CVs too have the plan to reunite them again..

but i can't take it...

J left A...A's life changed..again if he will come back..A's life will change again!..why her life will be controlled by whether J is their in her life or not?..i respect her love..i know she miss him everyday..😭😭

but if A'll accept J again as a husband then my respect for A will reduce..bczo doing this she will prove it that she is not strong..she is weak..i can't see my anandi as a weak gal!!..

and why only woman have to wait for man?..why can't man wait for woman?..😒

it was J who left A..so he has to wait now!!..

and u know..i believe that A haven't lose anything in her life!..there was nothing to lose!..it is J who lost everything in his life!..

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moon1209

@moon1209

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

@monamie111...very well said...

I support ur view point...but i wud hav appreciated CV's if dey had shown d 3 characters living separately wid different lives...

A as she has moved on wid with her life,studyin,progressing,became the sarpanch,making jaitsar a better place.i want A to live for her own.she also has right to get d person who will love her unconditionally...and i feel J's love towards A was not unconditonal or selfless...if it was den J wnt hav left her so rudely by putting some wrong allegations...so for she cn always be a well wisher or friend for J but shud not accept him bak...

J and G shud also separate...not J leaving G but G dumping J n goin frm his lyf...J shud remain alone wid no family,no A n G,no luxury life,

no attitude...let him crave for all d things...den only he can realize wat kind of things are PAIN,GRIEF and most importantly d stayin ALONE...

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moon1209

@moon1209

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

@monamie111...i support ur view point...

The way A has moved on wid her life and progressing...she doesnt need to look back...she has always fulfiled her duties as a bahu as a wife as a daughter...n loved J unconditionally...but in return of dat she never asked anythng but she got nothng...so has all chance to live life her own way...to get loved by a person who will love her unconditionally...in her life i feel there is no place for J as a husband agn...

J and G shud separate...not J leavin G but G dumping J...J shud stay alone no family no A n G,no luxury life,no attitude...i hope den only J can realize wat actually is meant by PAIN n GRIEF...let him crave for evrythng...this wil teach him a lesson...

Dnt knw wat d CV's are goin to show...Aftr G's visit to jaitsar its quite sure dat now she is not leavin J n eventually may turn into an insane person...

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