Dont understand shivani's volte face

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I really dont understand what suddenly happened to shivani.
From that icecandy conversation on the bridge - when gauri first got pregnant -
shivani knew
1. Jagat had an ex-wife from child marriage.
2. After they grew up the child marriage views just did not mesh with each other so J and A grew apart.
3. Jagat and anandi are still married and - gauri is an illegal wife -- or a mistress.
All this itself should have been revolting to shivani then and there itself. She knew of a wife's existence whom jagat has left -- she knew there is a child bride still there in jayetsar.
Does she have to start taking offense only after meeting anandi?
I mean let us say that I was best friends with Bharat and his wife -- and they told me the whole phooli naata case -- the details of the case would be enough for me to tell bharat and his wife off --
I dont really need to meet phooli and see what a great person phooli is and how innocent she is to go back to Bharat and tell him off.
Now that she has met anandi -- and sees she is a sarpanch with a khula mind -- what does she want?
She should have been ticked off with gauri on the first instance itself -- just like kundatai.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

I really dont understand what suddenly happened to shivani.

From that icecandy conversation on the bridge - when gauri first got pregnant -
shivani knew
1. Jagat had an ex-wife from child marriage.
2. After they grew up the child marriage views just did not mesh with each other so J and A grew apart.
3. Jagat and anandi are still married and - gauri is an illegal wife -- or a mistress.
All this itself should have been revolting to shivani then and there itself. She knew of a wife's existence whom jagat has left -- she knew there is a child bride still there in jayetsar.
Does she have to start taking offense only after meeting anandi?
I mean let us say that I was best friends with Bharat and his wife -- and they told me the whole phooli naata case -- the details of the case would be enough for me to tell bharat and his wife off --
I dont really need to meet phooli and see what a great person phooli is and how innocent she is to go back to Bharat and tell him off.
Now that she has met anandi -- and sees she is a sarpanch with a khula mind -- what does she want?
She should have been ticked off with gauri on the first instance itself -- just like kundatai.


tinoo i m not agree with u!..😛

in our society it happens that second time one person got married..its very normal!..why shivani ji will react like kunda tai hearing it that its jagaya's second marriage?..😲

now what j-g's case is..g told shivani ji that j loved her right? and he left his family for g?..so shivani ji thought even if their marriage is not the legal one but still J-G r happy with each other! J don't love A and he is happy with G..then its fine na?..why someone will spoil his life staying with someone whom he don't love?..shivani ji didn't know it that A is not trying to steal J from G, she didn't know it that A is not a drama baaz..and whatever G has told her is just the opposite..she didn't know it how much J hurt A and his family..after meeting with J's family she got to know it that how much J has hurt his family..and A is not just an uneducated "ganwaar"..so her view towards anandi has changed!🤔..i don't think there is any abnormal thing in shivan's reactions..even i think that it is so matured character..just like anandi...😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Arrey Yaar!! Sau baat ki ek baat.. G ne Shivani ko A ke bare mein jo bhi kaha Shivaniji ne khud dekha ki woh sirf aur sirf Jhood hee kaha. Even they showed flash back of Shivani and G conversation. But in reality everything was wrong. It was a lie. That's all Shivani tried to do is to show G a mirror.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I liked Shivani's haveli visit.👍🏼 Her maturity in analysing the whole suituation. Previously she only know the story from G's POV. But after knowing the whole story this is exactly any matured person would do.

Shivani & Kunda tai also not there for JG👏...

hadh kar di A ne🤣... mera best friend & chath be cheen li..oo bee ek sath?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Even i dnt understand ,it realy doesnt matter how gud a is,even if she was bad,she wud stil be the victim,the pt she knew j s bal vivah was done then y she dint lecture g dat time,shivani is nothing bt a foolish lady.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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awww I think
Gauri thinks that everyone is a FOOLISH person except her : )

this is what happens when , one sees only HIS OWN perspective and not the others nor does he/she care about other fellow human being.


Gauri : Leave Anandi Alone and guess what, all your problems will vanish.

Stop badmouthing her cause the more you do, the more trouble you are causing for yourselves.



And now Jagya lol, he is stuck with this psycho girl who is not allowing him to use her car LOL. Nice sacha pyar!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-NivReniac

awww I think

Gauri thinks that everyone is a FOOLISH person except her : )

this is what happens when , one sees only HIS OWN perspective and not the others nor does he/she care about other fellow human being.


Gauri : Leave Anandi Alone and guess what, all your problems will vanish.

Stop badmouthing her cause the more you do, the more trouble you are causing for yourselves.



And now Jagya lol, he is stuck with this psycho girl who is not allowing him to use her car LOL. Nice sacha pyar!!!


Just Imagine Suchi !
What if J had thought let me take the car and get to Jaitser fast. It'll help me in rescuing Anandi faster. THINK - what wud Gauri have done to her car knowing A sat in it too !😲

You think she'd have used the remaining petrol in the car to burn it ?😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hooked remember sridevi from ladla!?

lol she did the same cause Anil kapoor sat in her car or something. lOL then he touched her and was like now burn yourself.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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i thought the same 1st when the promo said...shivani will see the real face of gauri!!
but now i think...
she is reacting like that coz she understood what gauri said to her about A is the completely wrong one after meeting A.
what gauri said is black is actually white...so she just disgusts over it!!
btw i expected that shivani will calmly try to make gauri understand about her wrong impression on anandi...but it seems she wont do that!!!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Forgive me, I must not have made myself clear.
The point I am trying to make is that shivani feels gauri is wrong only after having met anandi -- and seeing that anandi is a sarpanch and has khule vichaar etc.
Though she knew all the facts (including gauri's illegal status of wife) -- she considered it okay then because she assumed that anandi was indeed gawar and anpadh and that jagat had moved away from anandi because of his mindset not matching.
Now she is impressed with anandi and as per the pre-cap says "anandi ne 16 years bittaye hain jagat ke saath -- in comparison to your five years".
My point is that she already knew enough to do the math (of a child bride having spent several years with Jagat before ditching her for gauri) -- so now what is her problem?
Shivani should have had an issue with it the first time gauri told her the whole story itself. Instead, she encouraged gauri to continue this illegitimate pregnancy ...
My point is that her stand should have been issue focused and not personality focused.
How does it make a difference if anandi is a sarpanch, educated or khule vichaar waali?
Even if anandi was gawar, anpadh, had ordinary parents like phooli's maa baapu, or gauris maa baapu -- what jagat did was still wrong. Would shivani continue being okay with gauri's illegitimacy if anandi was indeed gawar and anpadh?
And shivani is seeing anandi just now -- when all these changes have taken place recently.
What if she met anandi a year ago - when anandi did not have a sarpanch title, when anandi did not have a backbone or confident body language?, when anandi did not have the support of dadisa for her adult education class or her other activities.
That would then have been a completely different anandi.
So, in shivani's mind, would jagat's leaving gauri have been justified then?
Atleast Kundatai is issue focused -- she has never met anandi, but she didnt care.
she took a stand based on the issue.
I once again re-iterate the case of phooli.
If I were friends with bharat -- and he told me this whole surrogacy thing -- I would have slapped him on the face without needing to meet phooli -- the whole scenario itself would have been completely revolting to me.
It is not that i would continue to be friends with bharat -- and only after meeting phooli and seeing what a sweet person she is would i take Bharat to task.

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