1. Jagya was always the 'grass is greener on the other side" guy. When he had Anandi, he was more engrossed in Gauri. And now he has Gauri, so all his attention is diverted to Anandi! The question is has Jagya changed? NO. Then why is Gauri complaining? Shouldn't she have thought about this earlier that when a married man cheats on his wife, he can flip again? Why didn't she run away from such a cheating. lying, morally depraved guy in the first place? But nahi, madamji ko toh shaadi ki jaldi thi. She was fultu confident that Jagya can only leave a gawar like Anandi, not the charming shahri doctarni!! Ab bhukto
2. There is absolutely no comparison between Jagya's parents and Gauri's parents. Jagya's parents never confronted Gauri in the first place. Even when they were heartbroken and extremely upset, they just had complaints against their own son---they never ever sought out Gauri to sermonize her. Gauri's parents on the other hand not only cornered Jagya but started badmouthing Anandi! Moreover, Jagya never insulted them on his own, unlike Gauri who screamed at dadisa, shouted at basant, taunted Bhairon and Sugna and walked off on the face of Sumitra. Madamji needs to look at her own actions before sermonizing Jagya on lessons of courtesy.
3. Gauri blames Jagya of keeping ties with his family and Anandi. Who rekindled those ties in the first place? Jagya refused to go on an ashirwad mission, Gauri dragged him to the haveli. Jagya had no intention of going to the haveli again, but Gauri had to go on her Anandi attack mission. That was followed by the paprpota mission. Who keeps dragging Jagya to Jetsar all the time? Who brings in Anandi in their conversations? Who informed Jagya of Anandi's elopement in the first place? It's Gauri and Gauri all the way. If only she had taken off to Mumbai after her marriage and had carefully severed off all ties with Jetsar, things would have been much better. But she wanted honor, prestige, status of the haveli beendni, revenge for her rejection and most importantly, flaunting off her win over Anandi to settle childhood scores!! She has nobody but herself to blame.