I honestly dont know why jagat was so upset. Did he not "forget" to tell her that he was married for five years?
So why is he upset that she "forgot" to tell him about not coming for the movie.
Double standards. 😡
Quite frankly, I feel that Gauri did not exert herself to send an sms etc. because she knew that it will just agitate him. She already knows that he is a jealous controlling type (I mean that she did this subconsciously). He will argue, and say a few things, and then it will disturb her mind-set before the operation. I think she just wanted to side-step his arguments.
(Just like they got married without consulting his parents BEFORE because she knew that there would be no acceptance and only arguments. She told them AFTER on the aashirwad/haq mission).
Best to do the deed, and then come back and confess her whereabouts and deal with his irritation later.