I dont feel bad for her... she very well knew he got married and spent many years with his wife...
She could have found stopped herself commiting mistakes...
Even after she entered the haveli,she could have known the reality..
Even on the first night,when J didnt react when she hugged him and didnt listen her ..she could have given him time to forget the past ...
she wanted Jagiya thats it...
She committed another mistake by not telling her bade papa about her marriage who was helping her to do medicine...neither does her parents... they all being selfish... they supported G blindly not even thinking that haveli people wud never accept the marriage...
even now she is worried that anandi would complain against them.. but she still wants the Jagiya...