If this issue was restricted to child mariage only - Page 2

Originally posted by: ankit111

if she think tht everything is OK thn why she is feeling jealousy.why she is remembering J and A together. Is it not enough phooli encounter, Gehna outburst and even j behavior, meeting with A secretly, to realize tht everything was not as Jogia is portraying? If she want to believe only J words and ignore the facts before her, thn its her problem. I assume tht any sane person wd hv realized tht Jogia is habitual cheater. So I can't justify her yesterday action. Eben she sd realise why Jogia is not protesting, why he hs nothing to reply. But if she close her eyes, it dosnt mean I sd also close the eyes. For me she is a person who never learn from their mistakes. But this is my POV, urs may differ.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

tanvi i totally get ur pov and i have also said these things in my posts time to time
imagine this jagya had not lied to anyone, he had not kept a in dark, no one would have liked threashing of jagya ,
i have always said punish j but punish him for the right reasons
but yes i dont expect bhago to understand , she is in too much pain
i feel kind of sad , everyone just keeps on blaming j for choosing g and leaving a be it villagers phooli, haveli ppl, i dont think anyone except anandi has questioned him abt his dhokha for 4 yrs , and for that point he should be questioned

Originally posted by: ankit111

I think most of us hv been saying if jogia wd hv properly deal this matter thn no one wd hv any problem. As concern to the family they hv problem of emposing their relation to thm. If he think tht he is free to marry anyone they also think tht they r free to accept or reject it. If he wd hv not come for blessing, they hd broken their relationship. Even now they just want tht he sd leave the house. Lekin use ticket hi nahin mil raha hai. As concern to villagers of course they hv seen this couple as ideal couple, how can they digest one day u come with another wife without reason.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

@intrufest-thanks Bt dnt feel sad for J BT it wud been very clear to G n family members insteading of wasting time in arguing dat u ran after her ,u were crazy about her,they cud ask y did u hide it?y dint u tel us .y dint tel anandi?ofcourse may be they dnt know exactly how many years bt they know he lied to entire family

Originally posted by: tanvismile

ankit-gehna,phooli,or sumitra they al said what A did for J how cud he leave her.they try to argue with him u loved her.wether he loves her or nt that cannot be proved now bt the main question y did u cheat her.kept her in dark.n obviously wen everyone bashes harshly break u down u tend to feel bad guilty may be in presure u change thats wat g is feeling scared thats nt jealously .j also teling her lies .it nt jealousy plus she has thrown out by family,this time she loves jagat n finding he underinfluence of family.

Originally posted by: vasuja

Quite frankly I have a bone to pick here. It is my opinion that Anandi knew exactly what was going on aAnandi did tell the whole family the dance part when Jaan had major confrontation after A's 10 th results... they showed it as flash back scenes.