There are certain things which puzzle me.
Yes, anandi is thinking of her family - but even the girls of that same family dont understand her behaviour
If Basant walked out on gehna, would gehna have kept quiet? Would gehna advocate to maasaa to give Basant money for him and his new wife?
If Bhairon walked out on sumitra, would sumitra have kept quiet? Would sumitra advocate to maasaa to give Bhairon money for him and his new wife?
Neither would suguna.
Nor would phooli, another so called gawar - anpadh. She too is a fireball in this matter.
So when women of the same family do not care about the family honour - I fail to understand why anandi needs to be so caring of the family's honour.
I agree that she need not do anything negative to hurt the family in terms of interfering, ... but I also don't conversely think that there is anything positive she needs to do to help Jagya either.
She can just be neutral and lead her own life.
But no, she has to talk about gauri's rights and gauri's pain to dadisa and others; she has to make arrangements for Jagya's education so that he can support her and gauri.