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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have already posted my view on Jagya/Jagat and Gauri but would like post an appreciation for Anandhi...Esp focusing on yesterday's episode Anandhi is not Mahan or Devi she is just a sane and mature human being on whom the little education and wordly knowledge that Village has given had influenced in positive way. She is just mature human who understands Gauri's point of view or frustration of acceptance and inability to take insult. she is not trying to fight for Gauri's rights as Gauri thinks or expects. She just states the fact that Jagya loves Gauri and it is not easy to change such an emotion and beleives that husband and wife relatioships are based on love so can't be changed in jiffy just due to family/villagers influences!!!!! I think she is braod minded which is why she understood Jagya POV when he married Gauri...she would have thought what is use in forcing myself on him if he loves another girl!!! Also when DS wanted Gauri and Jagya, as well as her to stay she would have decided to stay so that the people whom she considers her own are not hurt.
Her requesting Bairon not reveal the legal status of marriage as well as requesting him to help Jagya and Gauri just shows her broadmindedness in not letting people whom she know to suffer.
Don't we all sympathise with unknow poor and those suffering from mishaps, bomb blasts and natural disasters...Don't we donate money for them this what anandhi did her talking to Bhairon on legal issues was just a way to convince him
She also wanted to stay all the mess created by public when family matters come out which why she kept mum about her legality of marriage by dragging Jagya to court and by lying to villagers that all is well in her home.
Why do people balme her for such mature and normal behviour!!!!
Beats me!!!!
Probably I am dumb like you guys feel Anadhi is and that Gauri is right by tellling everything by shouting and arguing...
What Gauri said (read shouted) in precap is right relationship are not made by someones help
but nor are they made by shouting and forcing youself in to them...so why are you doing it Gauri!!!
Gauri has lost all her saneness but i woun't blame Jagya this time as he adviced her that it was not necessary to come there immediateely you yourself are to blame for the pathetic situation you are there...
Remeber you should earn respect and not beg/fight for them...
anadhi has earned respect...about you no words!!!!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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speaiking of anandi i never considered her MAHAN she is normal rather she is as u say broadminded and understandable n believe me folks u may say m insane but i have seen girls like anandi... no comments on gauri though...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Agree with you totally. You have said it all.👏 👏👏👏
I would just like to add like if Gauri's behaviour is normal...as in any normal girl wud behave in the way G is behaving then I am thankful that 90% ( i wont say 100 %) of the girls are not normal. or else every relationship wud be a chaos
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mcgregor

Agree with you totally. You have said it all.👏 👏👏👏

I would just like to add like if Gauri's behaviour is normal...as in any normal girl wud behave in the way G is behaving then I am thankful that 90% ( i wont say 100 %) of the girls are not normal. or else every relationship wud be a chaos

Of course Gauri behaviour is not normal!!!!! Or should i say its normal in terms of self obssesses, selfish, sef centred girl who thinkg only of herself and wants the whole world to fall on her feet just because she thinks she is the best and probably the most beautiful, educated and intelligent and the earth is lucky to have her esp J, Singh family and villagers
As she is goddess!!!!😕 she can donot wrong and it was not her mistake that
She forgave Jagya for lying and two timing in one night😲
She wants compulsory ashirwad when she doesn't bother to get the elders permission for marriage🤢
She enters the in laws house clutching her husband hand tightly after marriage😆
Wants Anandhi to accept her and bless her😡
Says to Anandhi that she married Jagya because of chil marriage one moment and then says she spent five years with him👏
Doesn👏't mind romancing in public but public should not interfere in her personal matters😕
The family has not accepted her before that she has started insulting them😕
Wants to all the rasams that are her haq like kuldevi puja and chulha puja but won't follow the rules like covering the head, eating with the ladies being discreet etc🤣 😕
She can't even understand Anandhi ot her POV and talks about wanting relationship on her own as she is strong snd doesn't need any body's help
She forgotten that relationshp is like clapping it can be done only with two hands with one had if you just proceed to hit the other hand forcefully you just get hurt and i will call it a slap
She is trying to force these people to accept her which will never happen till she chages her ways
or god knows she can never change and probably was like this only we didn't get to see her negative side till now!!!!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sreeda18

Of course Gauri behaviour is not normal!!!!! Or should i say its normal in terms of self obssesses, selfish, sef centred girl who thinkg only of herself and wants the whole world to fall on her feet just because she thinks she is the best and probably the most beautiful, educated and intelligent and the earth is lucky to have her esp J, Singh family and villagers

As she is goddess!!!!😕 she can donot wrong and it was not her mistake that
She forgave Jagya for lying and two timing in one night😲
She wants compulsory ashirwad when she doesn't bother to get the elders permission for marriage🤢
She enters the in laws house clutching her husband hand tightly after marriage😆
Wants Anandhi to accept her and bless her😡
Says to Anandhi that she married Jagya because of chil marriage one moment and then says she spent five years with him👏
Doesn👏't mind romancing in public but public should not interfere in her personal matters😕
The family has not accepted her before that she has started insulting them😕
Wants to all the rasams that are her haq like kuldevi puja and chulha puja but won't follow the rules like covering the head, eating with the ladies being discreet etc🤣 😕
She can't even understand Anandhi ot her POV and talks about wanting relationship on her own as she is strong snd doesn't need any body's help
She forgotten that relationshp is like clapping it can be done only with two hands with one had if you just proceed to hit the other hand forcefully you just get hurt and i will call it a slap
She is trying to force these people to accept her which will never happen till she chages her ways
or god knows she can never change and probably was like this only we didn't get to see her negative side till now!!!!!!

Yeah ...I think staying in the city for more than 5 yrs she has gotten used to maggi noodles 😆😆😆😆. So fr her everything shud be in 2 mins. 2 mins mein marriage, blessing, allrasam riwaz, suhagraat, respect and acceptance from family etc etc...and within 2 mins return back to city.
But unfortunately it is not happening and she is frustrated and confused 😕😕😕when maggi can be made in 2 mins why all thi is taking so much time😲😲😲

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