I do agree that Anandi should have a talk with everyone in the big hall and explain why she needs to go away.
She should say - if you all love me truly then let me go and make something of my life as otherwise I'll never be able to find my feet. She can do it, and Gehna will understand and support her. Sumitra I have no hopes from - she can cry for no reason at all and she is always so emotional - she has never been able to see reason thru all her tears. All those who can't stand Anandi's perpetual floods shud dislike this particular aspect of Sumitra much more...
Apart from that, I don't think the hostility the family is showing Jagya and Gauri is very wrong. The thing is - these two have been so supremely selfish in their wants, they never thought about anyone's feelings. So how can they expect understanding and acceptance and love from the family now ??
They GAGA, shud see that the family is complete without us - we are not wanted or needed here and we don't even fit here. Hope they understand that the family can't wait for them to pick their bags and leave. Its best for them to leave just as it is right for Anandi to leave behind this house with its memories and make a fresh start.
As for Sugna being rude to G - she is fully entitled to her own feelings. She didn't outright say anything to Gaga yet as DS's health demands some peace in the house, but when u despise someone so much, u can want to not touch anything they have touched.
Its like we all agree on the forum - everyone has their own POV, this is Sugna's. Sugna has no wish to make friends and hence rebuffs G's attempts at it. She doesn't have to be correct about it or justify it. Just as simply as Jagya says - I don't love Anandi - now Sugna is saying - I don't have to accept or acknowledge u as my anything. Pls don't forgrt, Sugna and Anandi have been childhood friends and never ever had a falling out. She's just being loyal to Anandi who is not only her friend but a sister to her husband and a very loving aunt to her kids.